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  1. Please reach out to me and tell me what you want and need. Pleasing others is “what I get out of it”. So may ask that question
  2. Hello! I am a 18 year old male. I am looking for a disciplinarian / mentor or a mutual friend who can guide me or micromange me. This is because my family does not believe in punishing me via physical disciplines, this caused me to be lazy, and be quite bratful. After getting disappointing grades and gaining weight, I wanted to change this. Futher detail will be provided to people interested I don't mind any genders or age, just as long as you are willing to become a discipline and mange me! Thank you!
  3. Rhageon

    I can help

    Hi, I would love to help any spankee as a one off or on a regular basis. Utah, Idaho and Arizona, although the last two will require some coordination with my work trips. Respond here or message me and let's see how I can help.
  4. That big taboo subject that nobody likes talking about, the one that makes you feel all cringy inside and you're scared to admit to having problems with. Yet, in the world we're living the statistics for Mental Health Problems are shocking, causing drives such as Mental Health Awareness. We're more then comfortable to complain of our awful cold (man-flu), yet can't admit we have anxiety and so I am here to open up some discussions and hopefully freedom about this topic. STATISTICS How common are mental health problems? (Mind uk) 1 in 4 people will experience a mental health proble
  5. An older handsome guy in good shape who enjoys working with woman to help them achieve their goals, be held accountable, or meet their spanking needs for whatever reason. I value strong and independent women who happen to need a spanking, be punished, or lose control for awhile. To contact me privately, I can be reached directly at jonathan.patrick66m@yahoo.com. I look forward to hearing from you. Best. Jonathan
  6. An older handsome guy in good shape who enjoys working with woman to help them achieve their goals, be held accountable, or meet their spanking needs for whatever reason. I value strong and independent women who happen to need a spanking, be punished, or lose control for awhile. I look forward to hearing from you. Best. Jonathan
  7. Hi, Male 35yrs from the Netherlands here. Love to spank myself and now looking for a female mentor who gives me guidance and directions. Someone who guides my disciplinary measures, when needed. This can be online, e.g. kik. J.
  8. So, work is pretty quiet during this social distancing thing we are doing, so I thought I would try my hand and writing a story. Hope you like it: THE day has finally come. As you wake up, it’s the first thing on your mind and you wonder how much sleep you got as the thought of you being over my knee kept you up thinking about it last night: how will it go, will you have the nerve to go through with your first spanking, will you like it after all this time thinking about it, so many things racing through your mind… As you make your way to the coffee shop where we first met yo
  9. Another one of many memories and thoughts from this Er. I have helped a few girls in the past that after the initial meet and greet, tell Me that they do not like being spanked, it does not take an experienced Mentor long to figure out that she may not being quite honest about her feelings. I am one to teach honesty, self awareness, and to think objectively, I know that it is extremely difficult for most to admit certain faults, desires and true objectives. It takes time to learn to trust, to tell some of the ‘god awful ‘ things that can plague her mind when in fact many of th
  10. I'm posting this on a whim because I don't expect that I'll ever find this. I'm in Columbia SC most of the time (I don't post the city I live in publicly). I'm struggling with sticking to my workout routine and kinda just doing the basics that I know to do to tone up while I lose weight and I'm not seeing any results externally. (Huge fear of disgusting saggy skin) At my core, I am a domestic discipline spanko since childhood as I'm sure many of you reading can relate. I want/need a *role model of physical fitness* to figuratively and literally whip my ass into shape and help me set up
  11. It has been my experience that we have many spankos who are not ready or not looking for commitment. And they know it. If these so called "sceners" happen to contact you, you might tell them that you are looking for a real mentoring relationship or romance. Some sceners will respond, "Me too." When actually, they view spanking more in terms of "being in the scene" rather than spanking as domestic discipline. They are thinking more about just getting/giving a spanking, not about getting involved with any one person. I feel that sceners should be more upfront with others regarding thie
  12. Experienced spanker / mentor will help you with your spanking needs. Novices welcome. I understand... No expectation of sexual contact.
  13. Let's talk about your spanking needs. Maybe I can help? Safe, sane, experienced''''
  14. More rambling thoughts; After a week or so of chatting with a couple of ee’s, I found myself in a state of mind that changes with what I feel is best for her and realize that as an Er I can and sometimes do, that is make assumptions. In the past I felt that I was able to adjust my style to fit a girls needs and wants in regards to her situation, in effect sometimes make her feel that I come across as being judgmental, condescending, controlling to name a few behaviors. My topic ‘Wearing the right hat’ seems to fit in this scenario, it can be difficult to get to know someone init
  15. Hi There: You: a Spankee, 18+ to 80 years of age who wants to experience that “ certain feeling“ that you experienced when you realized you were late for curfew or had a note from the teacher which mom or dad needed to sign to get you back into class. You knew there would be a scolding; maybe even a grounding, and if you were particularly unlucky — well, the scolding would be the least of your worries. You remember those scary words, “The only thing you understand is a good whippin’, isn’t it? Go to your room right now and prepare yourself! “ Ourlives were all different--yet o
  16. Even though it hasn't been that long since I've joined, this forum has changed my life a lot! I thought I'd take the time to write out what's happened since and how I took my first spanking today. Feel free to scroll through and skim what you'd like. As you can tell from my name, I do love to write (and may ramble a bit?) 😀. Setting up the Spanking A few weeks ago, I joined this community for the first time and posted my introduction. I outlined my need for a mentor for my college years to keep me in line. Since then, I've met several members of the community through my pm's and chat
  17. Hi. I'm a guy in my 20s seeking an authoritative male/female who will put me over their knee for a good spanking when I need it. Hopefully you will be able to give me the guidance and discipline I require to hold me to account for my poor behaviour/habits.
  18. A mentoring relationship I was in recently ended and I'm looking for a new spanking partner. I'm a caring, fatherly man (61) and a mentor or disciplinarian role suits me. On the other hand, a woman who craves good, sound, OTK spankings for stress relief or a turn-on could also find a good partner and friend in me.
  19. Are there any spankers in/very close to Raleigh? I'm looking for someone to discipline/mentor me.
  20. I am seeking a male spanking mentor and disciplinarian in Jacksonville, Fl. Would love to hear from your guys.
  21. Greetings, I am new to this site and exploring the idea of an online self-discipline mentor. It would be dual purpose of discipline and fun/exploration. I would like to dialogue over email and see if we are a right fit. I'm 28, from US, looking for online only dialogue. My email is becca.j85@hush.com. Looking forward to hearing from some of you! Best, Becca
  22. 25 year old male looking for help preferably someone local.
  23. Guest

    Hello all

    Hi, I'm still on the search for someone who could possibly meet my wants. I thought these tags might catch someone's attention.
  24. Rhageon

    Utah Spankees

    I'm male, 44. It's hard to connect with the right people it seems but I would love to hear from any female spankees in Utah to see if we might be able to help each other. Email or message me and maybe we could meet for lunch.
  25. I'll be traveling to Tampa this week and would like to find a male spanker who is available to spank and play .
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