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How do others deal with the idea of desiring a spanking, but also legitimately wanting to follow your rules as to not get one? It seems like such a weird issue, but when you have a desire to feel the calm and controlled feeling that being put in your place brings, it seems like a hard thing to then have to brat or purposely break a rule to get it. I suppose there are “good boy” or Maintenance spankings, but I’m not sure it would be the same?
Do you get maintenace spankings from your partner? I used to and miss it. When I met my wife it did´nt took long time since she started to spank me when I misbehaved and one thing was for sure, if we got married she would spank me often. So at the wedding night after sex I got my first spanking as husband and on the following honeymoon I got spanked every day, just because my wife thought I needed it. When home again she told me that it would be two maintenance spankings every week, Sunday and Wednesday at 7 pm. I was told to be naked in our bedroom with her tools on the bed, and so it went on. Of course she also gave me punishment spankings for extra bad behavior and that could happened same day as regular spankings but she did´nt cared if I just was spanked. One thing she used to spank me for was masturbating but she got tired of it, she wanted to spank me for other things too so she got me a chastity device instead. And that was the perfect thing, now she really owned me as she wanted. But we loved each other very much and I wanted to be her sub, but I have never enjoyed the spankings, but it was a really good thing for us, it worked. Two years ago we got divorced, had nothing to do with my cage or spankings, but she told me that she would keep on spanking me and so she did for one year. Then she met a new man and we agreed to stop so now I´m not spanked anymore. Have tried with some but it´s not the right feeling. I need a spanking from my partner who also believe in spanking or corporal punishment. It has to feel right, otherwise it´s just pain. But my chastity cage is still on, and no keys at home. What´s your experience?