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  1. Yesterday, after any week, return to a session of training in my slave exploration with @Humiliationrp, my Sir ! Today the pain and hurt of the heavy strapping still on my skin and mind. I need sametimes be hard punished for my discipline, but also becouse a long and hard pain make me cum. I'm a strange girl ... the pain make me wet and excite. Was my first time for ass plug... why do it ? I'm a sub .... not sure , but start like make my Sir be happy for my progress in the slave training. Kiss, sir!
  2. Several years after my divorce, one evening after a few drinks I called my former mother in law Sandi to check in. She and I had remained civil, and she told me to call anytime. After some small talk, she asked how I was doing, if I was seeing anyone, etc. I told her no, and that I’d had some dreams recently that involved her paddling my bare bottom. She was, of course, a little stunned, but as I recounted the dream, she seemed interested. In fact, by the end of our conversation, Sandi told me that she could make my dream come true...  The following Wednesday, I got a text to be at her home at 530 sharp. I was in a daze all day, but stood on her front step at the appointed time. A small note on the door said “go down to the basement, strip, and bend over the table.” So I did, and saw a wicked looking frat-style paddle leaning against the wall. I was so nervous that I was shaking a bit. She finally came down the stairs, and congratulated me on following directions, but that I’d earned a paddling and was going to get one! Sandi grabbed the paddle and I heard a “whoosh” just before it smacked my ass. Again and again, she swung and connected. I’m sure the loud SMACK! sounds could be heard out on the sidewalk, as well as my cries as she blistered my bottom. After 10-12 hard licks, I was squirming and sobbing. Finally, I couldn’t take any more and dropped to the floor, rubbing my scorching butt frantically. My mother in law watched in amusement for a few seconds, then ordered me into the corner, hands on head, while she went upstairs to take care of something. When she finally returned, Sandi walked up behind me and let out a whistle. “Wow. You won’t be sitting comfortably on that bottom for a few days,” she said. Leading me to a mirror on the closet door, she showed me the damage. I could see reds, oranges, purples and blues, as well as several vicious-looking welts. Sandi had brought some lotion downstairs and squirted some on her hands. I leaned against the wall as she rubbed the lotion into my burning flesh. Years later, I still think it may have been the best feeling I’ve ever experienced. It was that good... Unfortunately, it also got the attention of my penis, which was rock-hard by the time she finished. I felt humiliated and tried to hide my erection, but Sandi just pulled away my hands and laughed. “So that’s what helped make my grandkids? I have to be honest, Ed. It’s not too impressive.” Handing me the lotion, she said “go in the bathroom and take care of that. But clean up after yourself! If I find any of your spunk in there, I WILL paddle you again...” The shortest masturbation session of my life followed. After carefully cleaning up, I came out of the bathroom. Sandi was sitting on her sofa, and gestured me over. “ Was it everything you expected?” she asked. I assured her it was, and asked if we could make it a regular occurrence. She smiled and “No, son. I don’t think so. It’s not my thing. I know it meant a lot to you, so I’m happy I could help, but it’s a one-time thing.” It’s been 12 years since that afternoon, but I can still remember every detail, and truthfully, still masturbate to the memory from time to time.
  3. We all know what's getting spanked. With so many available words, what to you call "it"? Let me know if I forgot your favorite word!
  4. I need to tell someone even if they don't care. I'm waiting for a for real "consequence" that I knew was going to happen (quotations because words like that are code for You're going to get it and I've been planning this) but am not happy about. I was watching video on my phone and that's ok unless I'm on the web too much. I haven't been too bad with screen time and Miss sat down and watched with me. For a while too. We enjoyed it. I was told to open the calendar and give the phone over. That means "Counseling" with the sad emoji and everything. I'm going to be punished and I'm not going to like enjoying it. I said something which just got me an amused look and asked if I wouldn't get a few love taps. It actually was a question. I was mad but took a hand spanking that was mostly just me looking good for Miss. Today I was told to sleep in because I haven't been sleeping right. I didn't want to but was sat with and nicely helped back to sleep. And THAT'S so condescending. When I woke up again I had to be washed,my hair and makeup done,and dressed by Missy. She did good but anything I said sounded so childish. I don't need to say that was the idea. She had to go in to work because VIRUS. It's very nice out so I can go to the store or sit outside-I can only wear sandals. I was told to keep on the sleepwear which is common in my neighborhood especially with girls who kind of look like me. A couple I see around and wonder if they have to also. We always make eye contact and smile a little. Probably not-when you're very small you get a lot of unwelcome attention so it's empathy. I've just been sulking. Miss will be back in 2 hours and was acting like a lottery winner when she left. I can even have my friend over to have someone to cry to. I deserve it most of the time but this is just mean. I already know what I'm going to hear/read if anything. I don't even know if this is considered the site for this. This is the only place I know that acknowledges the sexual part but also the emotional and other aspects. And it's not a Porn site. I haven't been graphic or rude. If it's REALLY not supposed to be here it will be deleted. I know there are some out there who know how I feel. There are people who are laughing not because ridicule. I'm nervous and mad and rambling now and I'm sorry. Thank You. Goodnight.
  5. A lifelong friend and I were found masturbating together-we are both Submissive but mouthy. No way we would not be friends so she had to agree to being punished with me. She knew that sometimes I would get the belt hard. We were holding hands and crying by the end. And she has been more accepted by Miss. Before she was tolerated. It was intense. That has been the only time it's happened. I was really surprised.
  6. How many of you all were introduced to this lifestyle in less than ideal circumstances and how does it effect your life and relationships today? Do you hold a grudge or were able to move on for your own sake? I was not treated well early on and it does effect me still though not like it used to. Also that's why my posts tend to be long. When I recount something and start realizing details and how I felt then. Sometimes I might not think something is serious and laugh about it while a loved one I'm telling starts crying or is angry (not at me). I would REALLY appreciate anything anyone has to say and you can ask things. I will try to answer. Never asked or made a topic. Thank You!
  7. I need behavior modification in every aspect right now. Any punishment ideas are welcomed. And a dominant female would be awesome
  8. I have always been very curious about this. I'm a total beginner, and have never been spanked by another man. I spank myself regularly just because it feels good to me. And I get quite aroused. But it's just not the same. I think photos of submissive men, or delectable women with their shapely, lovely ass's spanked red is very hot. and it's very arousing. Unfortunately, I have not lived this out for real..........YET! But do gay guys who like to spank get aroused from the red glow and heat emanating from a submissive guys ass?
  9. 27 year old female spanko living near Hood River looking for male or female spanker. I'm a bbw that has lost 50 pounds since May and am working or losing more still. I am looking for online, phone and real life: scoldings, spanking related humiliation, spankings, discipline, friendship... I have years of experience and look forward to meeting people!
  10. Humiliation, Embarrassment, Pain, Scolding I would love to hear from submissives on these things. Do they go hand in hand? Are they required for you? Do they work alone? Are they mental? Are they emotional? Can you cry from any of them (minus pain)?
  11. This method of punishment that my wife uses, I hate more than words can describe. She makes me ask my 30+ year old stepson to paddle punish me. First, I don't like male paddlers, second we do not like each other at all, this is the last person in the world I'd want swatting my butt, he does it nude with witnesses, and his method is tough. He uses a 24" long, 2" wide, thin plywood paddle to start. He lays on the swats extremely hard until it breaks, usually several dozen swats. I'm very sore by then, with matching bullseyes on each cheek, and I have to get up and hand him the next paddle, I am sometimes fully erect. To finish, he applies the big Poplar blister paddle any where from 6, to as many as 40 swats. I end up bawling, squirming on the bench, and begging for mercy. Usually his gf watches, but he has had as many as 15 friends and family over to put on a show. I have begged my wife not to do this, I absolutely hate everything about it. She says this is why she thinks it is so effective, and as long as she feels I am getting memorable punishments like this, my stepson will continue to be her assistant disciplinarian.
  12. I used to get spanked with a belt (bare) by my Dad as a teenager. Usual in front of my Mom and my two brothers and my sister. He felt it added to the humiliation and therefor the motivational value and oh boy he was right. The last time he spanked (OTK) me I got a major erection and had an orgasm. I was almost 18. After spanking me until I almost passed out he never touched me again. I find I need and miss it very much.
  13. Very expereinced Daddy Dom with big rough hands looking for Naughty Girls, couples and more into spanking, Kink, bondage and other Kinky SSC Play in the New Haven, CT to NYC area.
  14. I would just like to let the community know that My Erotic Sexual Spanking/Submission Training Ebook is now available in the kindle books section of AMAZON.COM MERCY'S FATE *Preview* , a 2 chapter 12000 word teaser is available at the following location: http://www.amazon.com/Mercys-Fate-Preview-ebook/dp/B006SMEY8I/ Mercy's Fate *The Submission of Melody* full length Ebook 73000words is also AVAILABLE NOW! at the following location: http://www.amazon.com/Mercys-Fate-Submission-Melody-ebook/dp/B007S6DDCG/ These books can be read on a kindle reader, home computer, laptop,and many smartphones using AMAZON.COM free reader application! Both versions are Available WORLDWIDE This is a novel based on the early relationship of Myself and my wife. W/we are a REAL couple, members of many yahoo groups, spankingtube, and fetlife, with photos & videos posted. This book is intended for the enjoyment of ADULTS ONLY. ENJOY! Masterofmercy
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