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  1. I'm asking for a friend who wants help self spanking and she suggested a homemade self spanking machine. Neither of us know how to make one of these and would be open to suggestions/designs or help. It would be nice if it had a trigger she could hold down which caused the spanking to continue until she let go. Nothing fancy, and the implement attached isn't terribly important as long as it hurts. This should hopefully help her overcome the "This feels stupid" feeling that self spanking often produces. Any advice in that area would be nice as well. Thank you!
  2. *sighs* I feel really stupid for even asking this, but I don't know what else to do. How do I actually talk to my ER? Part of our agreement was that when something is bothering me enough that it feels like it's pushing me towards my breaking point, I talk to him and see if doing so helps because most things are ridiculous nonsense and having some sense talked into me does often help, but not always. The issue is I don't really know how to talk about my feelings (long story short, it's childhood related), and he does know and understand that. But I feel like an annoyance and noth
  3. HUGE update (01/31/2018): Great news! Everything went great! I was able to talk to my friend about this, and he was 100% cool with it and is willing to help me! We had a little trial run spanking yesterday, and though it wasn't much, it did help a little! He's also trying to help me find some good coping methods to use when he's not around since we don't exactly live close to each other. And again, thank you all so much for your advice! Edit (01/03/2018): Thanks to the lovely people here, I've got everything figured out on how to go about asking my friend. Thank you all so much, I'
  4. Hey everyone Pretty new to all of this but thought I'd give it a go. I'm a (new) spankee that's open to online play and relationships. Looking to follow orders and be a good girl
  5. Hello everyone! A little back story... I was born and raised in wisconsin (not that it matters to my story) but anyway growing up my mom didn't do much household stuff, let alone cook. My dad did all the cooking generally speaking unless it was something she could just throw into the oven. Ever since I was little my grandmother would come clean our house and do laundry and everything else (my dad's mom). on my mom's side of the family my grandfather did all of the cooking.. my grandma Alice burnt everything she tried to cook... they are an older generation.. older than my dad's parents for su
  6. Hello all. I travel all over Indiana for my job, and am always looking for people I can help. Serious, real issues only. No role play or sexual stuff. Let's discuss your problems, and needs, establish a plan and overcome those issues!!! Coach Steve
  7. Please help me find this video!!
  8. so I've been getting more and more interested in being spanked and I am now at the point where I need it too badly to not do something about it. I'm scared to death to bring it up to my new wife. I've been chatting with a few people on yahoo and two of them have been nice enough to help me by administering guided self discipline sessions on skype but I just can't seem to work up the courage to discuss this with my wife. Any advice or assistance would be appreciated. If you'd like to talk on yahoo I am newlysinglemt on yahoo messenger.
  9. Guys - I want to delete my account Can any one provide help on how to do it
  10. Hello My name is Kayji, I am looking for a Spanker/Mentor that can help to discipline me. I am 18 currently working in a cleaning business, I live in Canada/ North Bay. I live in my own apartment with a roommate. Going to collage very shortly. I don't think i'm that bad, just need help with some minor things. Please get a hold of me on here if you would wish to help me, Thank you.
  11. I'm young and I've always held an interest with spanking my personality just fits better with it being closer to erotic or to relieve stress I joined because I've tried reading to sate myself because there is nobody who understands this interest and because Im really self conscious I'm trying it for wrong reasons. But yeah so reading turned out horrible. A lot of people write spankings and its like one sided and the person getting spanked is miserable and on here I see that its two sided and there's so much! I'm sorry I'm rambling I guess can anybody tell me their journey into this I hope
  12. Hello Everyone, It has been awhile since I have been here on SN. I am trying to locate a female spanker/mentor for a young friend of mine who lives in NY state. He grew up in a family where he felt unloved and unneeded. He has never had a good relationship with his mother and needs for a caring, personable female mentor to "take him under her wings" and give him boundaries and rules enforced by discipline (spanking). He has searched for years to find a mentor like this but has been unsuccessful. I humbly ask you, if you are a female mentor in the northeast US, to contact him at the email
  13. I really want my husband to spank me. Not just for sex but for dd. I have brought it up several times before and he was all for it. In fact, he said he would love to have a dd relationship. He is very hesitant though. I think he is afraid of hurting me and or/ taking it to a more serious level. I admit I am not very good a being a submissive though I desperately want to be. I have went weeks trying my hardest to be as submissive as possible and it really helps our relationship! We get along so much better! But after a few weeks I slowly go back to my old ways (being bratty) and I believe its b
  14. Ive heard it helps with organization, self esteem, brattyness, despression, and stress. Do you think it helps with any of those? or do you think it helps with other problems?
  15. Hello, I'm a 28 year old male and I am in need of a Mentor to give me a spanking. I'm located in Southern California. If you can help me please email me angelfancm@yahoo.com
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