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  1. Hello Community, I Am Simply In Search Of Friends Within The Metropolitan Area That Are In This Lifestyle. I Shall Tell You A Bit About Myself: I Am 23 Years Old. I Am A Black Spankee Female. I Reside In Maryland. I Adore Animals && Children. I Have Always Been Excited By Spankings And Domestic Discipline Ever Since Being A Child. To Me Spankings Are Better Reserved For Punishments And Things Of That Nature BUT Whatever YOUR Niche, You Are Welcome Here In This Little Thread Of Mine. Now What About You?
  2. Do many people have a good Friend to be there for/there for you concerning this situation as well as life in general? Would you want one or is this something that's your business? If YES did you meet them under good circumstances? My best friend is someone I knew but was just a friendly acquaintance at first. I was pretty alone by choice for a while because I was scared and ashamed I guess. My friends were concerned-the few I had but I was obviously avoiding them. I was avoiding questions really but that meant avoiding everyone. This person would be passing by or at the local store. Even got to know one of my friends better. We were all from the same neighborhood so we were all friendly. I had dropped out of day to day life pretty much and this one seemed to be trying to rejoin it. Anyway I was all into my head so they noticed I was troubled before I recognized it in them. They initiated it (I couldn't have then) though I was open to it as much as I could be. And we had a lot in common besides what we thought was all that mattered. They weren't all knowing or had answers always. And I really didn't want a friend. They said they didn't but I looked approachable and I wouldn't judge. And I looked defeated. That was the term. They were living with a relative after things had gotten ugly at the house where they were. The same thing happened with my situation a little later. I was NOT expecting things to work out good. It wasn't easy for either of us they had gone through what I was. If nothing else it showed me that it wasn't uncommon. And it helped me interact with others. I can see NOT wanting anyone too. And both make sense. I'm glad I do have a regular friend. I'm just wondering if it's rare. I could make more but I'm happy with being semi-alone. I can't take too many people around.
  3. Some of you may remember me from my previous posts about the issues I was having with my girlfriend. We recently broke things off (i have kind of been spiraling to be honest). Is there anyone in Atlanta, Georgia, or any one near that would be open to talking. (about spanking, about life, anything really.) Are there any spankers or spankees out there looking for friends? I want to get to know more people in the community. Even if you aren't in Atlanta, or around, still shoot me a message if you're open to talking.
  4. This is a true story I will try and keep it short. I have known Steve and Sue for many years and they know I am a spanker, we have discussed it before on several occasions. After a night out I was staying at there house when Sue asked me if I would spank he, a proper bare bottom spanking until I cry she said, Steve wont spank me hard enough. I thought it was the drink talking so I said if you still want it in the morning then thinking she would have changed her mind by then. The Next morning I was sat having a coffee when they both appeared she was wearing a bath robe. Mike she said I still want you to spank me. Are you sure I asked this is a big step, we have discussed it and agree this is what we want. You know I always spank with the lady naked I said, thinking this was one last get out for them. Sue dropped her bathrobe and stood there naked in front of me she blushed bright red. ( the first time I had seen her naked.) I pulled a kitchen chair in the centre of the room and said over my knee, she immediately laid over. I started quite hard making sure she could feel them, her bottom soon turning crimson, Steve sat to the side watching saying nothing as she wiggled on my knee. As I started to rub her bottom it was obvious she was enjoying it. More spanks getting harder and she said enough. Steve said stop she has had enough and she shouted for him to be quiet. She wanted to be spanked to tears. As I continued Steve was getting edgy saying she has had enough. Remember its Red if you want me to stop I reminded her. After a few more minutes of spanking the tears started to flow her bottom was glowing red and she was sobbing. . I stopped and rubbed her bottom for a while before telling her to stand up, she stood facing me her hands behind her head and said thanks mike but can I take Steve upstairs. They almost ran up the stairs.
  5. Ok so here's a question I have that I've always been curious of, and I would love to hear back from all of you fellow spanking enthusiasts both experienced and fairly inexperienced such as myself. I first became interested in spanking when I was a younger teen and didn't understand it, fast forward to now and I'm still really the only person who knows about my interest. Now obviously what someone does behind closed doors in their alone time isn't something others need to know, nor do I feel the need to open up to anyone in my life, but it doesn't feel like I could if I wanted to. I've kinda told one of my closest friends but I can only describe it in normal 'guy like' terms like "I like the idea of slapping a hot girls ass" or some thing like that but I don't think I could ever describe the allure to actual spanking to anyone I know without feeling weird or like they'll think I'm creepy. Anyways, sorry for the long novel, my question is how open are all of you with those you know about your interest in spanking. Does everyone know, do you keep it a secret, do only a few close friends know? And what do they think about it? I look forward to hearing your responses!
  6. Hello E/everyone, A friend I met years ago and have stayed in contact with commented briefly in a response in one of My posts. Her calling Me ‘an old friend ‘ opened up a plethora of memories, I can’t recall the exact year but I am guessing late 90’s to early 2000’ we came across each other through messenger chat (old version), along with another person or two. Most members are not aware that S/N has been around quite a bit longer than the present date leads us to believe. I was at one time, member #780 or close. I remember being a mentor to one of the two Moderators, countless online and real time mentees, most of I remember and occasionally chat with. There was much to learn and share those days, as much for Myself as the mentee’s, many hours spent listening, talking ( scolding- lecturing 😏) were spent. The ones I helped opened up a huge view of the world, the way that people were raised, taught to behave, the reasons for thier actions , the different difficulties and struggles can still bog My mind. I had the the privilege of being trusted to be involved with many influential people (some used fake names to protect thier professions, social status). There were the Tops that needed help, the indecisive, the ones in committed relationships that I would not agree to help unless their significant other was at least clued in and agreeable, maybe not thrilled none the less. I became friends with a couple of their husbands once we met and talked and they realized that I was ‘on the level ‘. I could go on, and on. Thank you ‘old friend ‘ for the memories. Rick.
  7. Hi I'm new here and hoping to make friends. My orientation is erotic spanking with female partner--spanking each other for mutual pleasure. I enjoy a variety of implements, but favorite is cane, switch, or dressage whip laying face down on bed with pillows under hips or bent over a bale of hay, a fallen tree, or a piece of heavy upholstered furniture. Of course I also enjoy laying across a lap for hand spanking, paddle, or other short implements. For me, spanking is about giving and receiving pleasure, rather than power exchange, although role play can be fun for living out fantasies. I have done discipline spankings too, and although it is not my favorite, I could DEFINITELY enjoy a DD relationship in which either partner could spank the other for discipline (and the other partner could spank the first after having taken his or her punishment) That could be LOTS of fun, but I think we would misbehave on purpose to get spanked! I'm happy to be friends with spankers of any orientation other than those who get off on spanking kids which is against the rules here anyway. Anything involving kids is repulsive to me, other than speaking about our own memories, since we are now adults, and our early experiences went into shaping the people who we are today. Here's a couple photos of me--I hope you like!
  8. Just discovered this place and I'd like to meet some people and get some conversation going
  9. hi everyone i wish all my friends on here a merry christmas and a happy new year thanks a lot for all the chat and banter. i hope christmas brings you all joy and good things . best wishes phillipx
  10. Hello everyone. Nice to meet you. I'm Hollipop. I'm a cradle spanko. And although I hate other kinks as a little under the umbrella of BDSM, spanking takes the cup! I like a lot of aspects of all kinds of spankings. The positions, implements, a bit of the humiliation factor, the rituals before and after and other stuff related to spankings like corner time. I am pretty knowledgeable in the goings of spankings, however, I am sadly inexperienced. I love erotica specifically spanking stories...and I fantasize for the day I finally do get turned over someone's knee and spanked like a true naughty little girl I sometimes am shy to admit i am. That in mind, I'm young so I have my whole life ahead for sore nights sleeping on my tummy:) On this site, I would like to meet people and make friends. Once I sort out a few life problems maybe I'll get a mentor or something. I know this isn't a BDSM site but if there where Littles and Daddy Doms here, I'd like to meet you and have a talk maybe on spankings and stuffs.
  11. Hello, I am a 20-year-old located in the San Francisco Bay Area and very interested in both giving spankings as well as being spanked. I have experience spanking and am a caring person who is also looking for friendship.
  12. Hello I am sure you all have heard introductions many times but I would still love to reach out and introduce myself anyways. I am a tall white 21 year old male college student. I have spent the last fews years finding myself and during that time i will admit I have been reckless, irresponsible in certain situations, impulsive, and bit bratty you could say. I've made some great experiences but I've always made some bad ones. I won't bore you with all the exciting details. But will tell you i was a bit of a risk taker with a giant stubborn streak and i guess i still am. (along with a procrastinator) you get the picture though. Anyways, after MUCH reading I decided to sign up and join this little family. I recently entered into a relationship with a great guy and we're both into spanking. We like it as foreplay/fun. However we had a serious talk and decided to have a domestic discipline type of relationship. I told him about how i could be and my past. We talked about punishments. So we agreed on disciplinary spankings, groundings, and lectures as possible punishments. Though I'm sure he could dish out whatever he feels is appropriate for my actions. Now I have been spanked for fun before so it was never anything heavy and i could always use a safe word to call it off and i don't take it too extreme, just stinging. And I haven't been spanked for real in a looooooooooooong time. So obviously with the discipline when it comes time i won't get to stop it when i want and it'll hurt much more so naturally i am a bit nervous. He has told me I've already got one coming in a week or two for the way I let my life go when I wasn't thinking about my own health, safety, and academics(i was a bit of a mess) and he is going to be strict with me to keep me in line. So this is my story so far. I would LOVE to talk with other guys/men who also get spanked/disciplined. Women welcome as well but I'd love to talk to the guys and start online friendships and gain support here. The end. ,,,,,for now....
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