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roleplay stepmother / stepson spanking... these days i get a lot of emails about fantasy about stepmother / stepson roleplay - spanking and so on... What is the big turn on about that kind of fantasy?

one of my longtimefriends invited me over to his office... this time i had to wear a nice black skirt, high heels, stockings and a nice whit shirt... i had to come over his table and bend over... he pushed my skirt up and started to feel me between my legs... i was already wet and than he startet to spank my ass... what is the big turn on for you - to invite someone to your office and spank in the office.?

Hey everyone! Just made an account because of a concern I’m having. I’ve been pretty obsessed with spanking for as long as I can remember. Looked it up in the dictionary, read passages of books that featured it over and over again, etc etc. It has been pretty much the defining feature of my sexuality my entire life. However, I’m starting to wonder if maybe I’m ... not that into it? And I would be really interested to see if anyone has had any similar experiences to me. I’ve given self-spanking a few attempts and to be honest they are just not at all satisfying. Like, it just kind of hurts. (Not that much, because I always end up stopping.) Does this mean that I probably would equally dislike it if someone else did it? I think possibly what’s missing is the component of control and punishment etc (I have always eroticised punishment of all kinds, it’s not like I just the idea of having my butt slapped lol). But essentially I’m now a bit afraid to seek out a real experience, because what if it turns out I absolutely can’t stand it? Another factor that maybe is contributing is that I get completely paranoid about making any sound, so I tend to be very on edge, which is obviously a bit of a mood killer. Secondly - my boyfriend has spanked me a little bit, but always in a sexual context. Even when he claims he’s doing it because I’ve been a naughty girl blah blah, it’s always in the context of us both being naked, about to have sex. And it never lasts very long And again, I don’t really enjoy it. On a psychological level I do kind of like it, but honestly it’s just not much of a turn on. Again - does this mean I’m probably just not even into spanking that much, or is it that the context is wrong, so I don’t really get into the correct headspace? To be honest I do struggle to see my boyfriend as ever having any kind of authority or dominance so again that could be the issue. (Also again the sound thing comes up, I’m a student so we’re never really in a setting where someone would hear what we were doing through the walls, so I almost always end up asking him to stop because I start to feel horrified that someone might hear what’s happening lol). This might seem like a ridiculous concern to have, but the fact is, I’m not interested in sex at all. I never have been. I like the emotional closeness but I don’t get turned on by the thought of it, and don’t really get much physical pleasure from it. So spanking is kind of my last hope when it comes to sexual pleasure. One final key point is that I do have problems with libido/arousal (potentially stemming from antidepressants, currently discussing this with a doctor to identify the cause). When I was a child I used to have a much higher capacity for arousal, but since becoming an adult with issues with anxiety etc, it’s become much more infrequent. So could this potentially be the issue? If I were to somehow fix this problem, is there a chance I might actually enjoy the spanking I used to crave so much?! Thanks!!

I was spanked by father last time when I was nearly 18. Now I go to collegue and I didnt get spanked since I left the house but now I want to get spanked and disciplined by older man.

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It occurred to me the other day that there are certain spanking people who just want to cram control into the everyday ordinary world. I happen to know one currently and quite frankly, it cheeses me off and rustles my jimmies to no end. The other day, I was upset with someone and was in an overall crappy mood when my spanking interest buddy starts chatting with me on Skype. I tell him how I feel about my situation and I'm just venting as I would to any other friend of mine. He then starts saying how "un-lady-like" I am being for being upset. He then "instructs" me to go change into my pajamas and then go stand in the corner and think cool-off. Pardon my French, readers but the thought that crossed my mind at that moment was: "SCREW. YOU. SIR." Its my right to be angry about someone canceling a nice evening out together. Also I was upset since the buy who canceled on me had a problem with my weight and that also didn't make me feel good either. So no, I will NOT have someone telling me to put on my pajamas, ('cause I already had 'em on, knowing my night was now ruined) and telling me to go stand in a corner in my own home and cool off and think about my behavior when I am at right to feel the way I do about a situation. As long as I'm not hurting anyone or myself, its my right to be upset. So after I tried to politely steer the conversation the other way, to prove that I'm being serious and this is not helping, he's still at it, as seen below in green text. Him: "Did you obey me and pick out a corner to stand it, yet?" Me: No because I'm being serious with you. I'm sharing this info with you 'cause I consider you a friend over a potential spanking partner. Him: Looks like this discipline is over-due" Me: why? for being upset about someone basically calling me fat and canceling on me? Him: "For being upset" Me: is a human emotion. Normally I'm very calm and blah-zee about things. But this just really made me infuriated. Him: "I need to give you a good talking to, I think you need some corner time to think about your behavior and an early bedtime." Me: what I need is a good book and some alone time. Him: "You do as I ask you to do or I will drive out there and hand out one good spanking" Me: ... Him: "I can see we need to work on that attitude don't we?" Me: Not really. You just happened to catch me on a bad day. People have those. Him: "I am not convinced" And that's where I just stopped responding to him. I can understand if people need mentors and liked being talked to in this way, shape, or form. But not me (and I'm sure a few others). Spanking is a fetish for me and not a means of correcting me. I make this clear when I start to branch out to someone with the same spanking interest. I was corrected and taught well by my family as a child and it has formed the adult i am today. Correction, to me, is not the job of whomever I end up falling in love with who happens to have the same fetish as me. It is alright for foreplay, but not for out of the bedroom situations, in my personal opinion. Any other time "correction" is used it makes me feel belittled, inferior, and just stupid. So maybe it was another fluke, but so far this site has brought TWO very unfavorable people into my life and I've only been here 2 or so months. I guess I'll just keep trying. Safely, of course. Curry, out.

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