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  1. Hello from Hampton Roads, I am an experienced, 34y/o, highly educated, professionally employed, dom-spanko seeking a few things locally, but most of all I want to share my dedication for all things spanking with women who understand their spanking needs. Discretion, consent, and professionalism are the cornerstones of how I play, interact, and get to know my partner/spankees. I am vaccinated and can prove ddf if required. That being said, to be clear, not all of my encounters are/need to be sexual; I understand there may be local wives, daughters, college coeds, or female professiona
  2. For the first time in a very long time, I'm in a position to start thinking about the possibility of a domestic discipline relationship. But I have to wonder whether it's realistic to look for that with a woman of an age similar to mine (around 60). I've seen a lot of posts from men that age (and older) who are still actively interested in spanking and discipline (as both ee's and er's), but few from women. That makes me wonder whether women also maintain the interest. Although I certainly hope that's the case, I could easily understand if most women either lose interest, or no longer feel phy
  3. I am a petite (5’4″), curvy, gorgeous, dominant, half Chinese, half African American, strong willed, no-nonsense, professional disciplinarian in the central NC area. After studying clinical psychology and honing my domestic disciplinary skills on my submissive husband of 4 years, I now offer spanking and punishment sessions mainly in Virginia, North Carolina, and South Carolina. I punish out of love NOT hatred. I am a loving firm hand that never seems to tire. My discipline methods keep my family in line and they have the same effects on my clients. I am not a dominatrix. I am a
  4. Irene was driving to Ashland, Kentucky. She could not get past her desire to get to the mall before the end of the blue light special. Even to the point of going past the boundaries we agreed upon. She had wished assistance in living within the rules boundaries my God, the laws of man, and her true desire, lust, lust, yearn and longing to submit to her Husband. Flying down 52 East at 87 MPH in a 55 MPH, she was ticked right at the Ashland Bridge by the State Highway Patrol. Did she return immediately, admit it, and seek for forgiveness? No she continued and found there was nothing ther
  5. 51 year old HOH. I spank my wife and three grown daughters who still live at home on occasion. I'm interested in chatting with those who spank their family, or those who are spanked by a HOH.
  6. What is in it for the HoH in a DD relationship? I understand the TiH perspective and it sounds lovely. But what draws someone to take the HoH role? Surely thre is more to it than control and the *ahem* scenery? I hope my question isn't rude or impertinent. I just wanna understand things.
  7. How does it work in FLR/DD families with kids? Always wondered how it was handled. Are they ever directly told and if so at what age? At any time do they ever see or hear discipline activity?
  8. I want to receive real punishment spankings for misdeeds that motivate me to change my behaviour. I had a serious spanking - no warm up, 100 strokes of the cane -that made me writhe in pain and at the time I genuinely couldn’t wait for it to be over. Within hours I was craving another spanking - I don’t understand, I wasn’t meant to like it. What can I do to make these spankings more of a deterrent?
  9. Hi everyone! This introduction is definitely long overdue as I am not new to the site. I am a 26 year old female from Virginia looking for a domestic discipline relationship. Like many of us on here I’ve been a spanko since birth and I’m looking for someone that wants to share the rest of their life with a fellow spanko and to start a family. I’m rather boring and normal except for this wonderful interest I have 😁 (please don’t let that discourage you from potentially getting to know me!). I’m extremely grateful for SN as without it I’m not so sure I’d be the person I am today.
  10. I wish I knew this from the beginning. As lifestyle enthusiast's most like myself are ashamed and enthralled by the same thing. I'd say spanking, but perhaps that's only part of it. Ideally from the perspective of those like minded the fear of the punishment, and the fantasy of that fear are one in the same. To be a spanko is to love it, until you hate it. Perpetuating your love for it even more. To some, the guilt from craving a punishment you are suppose to see as a deterrent, will create an impulse to act out, just to ensure you "regret" the punishment. Because saying.... "I want you to spa
  11. Emma was busy in the kitchen mixing a fresh strawberry cake when Mark approached her from behind. He placed both hands on her hips and kissed her neck softly before swatting her ass firmly, just enough to sting. “You’re going to mess me up!” She said playfully, glancing up over her shoulder at him. Mark slapped her ass again, this time harder, and pulled her hips back to meet his. “Whose girl are you?” he growled in her ear. “Yours!” She said dramatically and halfway sarcastic, turning and pushing him away with one hand, still holding the spoon
  12. Hello, I'm 24 years old and going to college full time for a degree in Archaeology. I'm very interested in domestic discipline and would love to try it out.
  13. I'm curious to know what people believe in and how they integrate or separate spanking and their belief system.
  14. Hi, We were looking for even more specialized forums. There seems to have been some forum going on the Taken in Hand but the last post has been a few years ago. Same for many other websites. Any suggestions where we can ask questions relating to TIH relationship?
  15. If you are looking for a fun, decidedly different read this summer, pick up the sequel to Cheeky's Legacy, Cheeky Meets Her Match! Our AI Computer heroine, having successfully spanked the President, expands her equation to reach out to other powerful miscreants, but a more powerful AI seeks to understand the magic Cheeky's community has uncovered. www://avid-publishing.com/dtbaggins
  16. Do you get spanked by your man every time you get out of line? Do you have to be naked when your man walks into the house?
  17. I am looking for a girls into spanking and Domestic Discipline. Id like to find a girl to treat like a princess when she is good but punish when she misbehaves. I have come to the realization that in order to find a domestic discipline relationship I might need to look and start something long distance. I live in Atlanta but with the right person I think this might be able to work. Please send me a message if you are interested and we can chat.
  18. Has anyone ever tried spankings as a treatment for anxiety? I have generalized anxiety disorder and sometimes I get so anxious, I can’t really focus on anything else and start screwing up small things. Has anyone ever tried spanking in this situation? If so, has it helped?
  19. Hi, Im located in Atlanta, Ga and Ive been a spanko for as long as I can remember. Im a 30 year old guy and Im looking for a girlfriend for a domestic discipline relationship. Ive been looking everywhere for years and for some reason just joined this site. Im open to meeting people who dont live close as Ive found its hard to find spankos who live close. Dont be afraid to say hi!
  20. Oh boy, where do I start? i have had some limited experience in the lifestyle. I’ve received a few adult spankings, and some other genuine punishments. I’ve grown accustomed to having rules and I rely on them. Being single, and not having any rules or discipline has made life more difficult than it was before I had experienced those things. I’m a Christian woman that has been seeking a CDD relationship for years. I actually found Christ because I entered into a DD relationship with a Christian man. It’s amazing how life works so strangely that way. anyways, Im not sure how el
  21. Shit hit the fan last week and I got a little too mouthy with my HOH. Informed of a spanking and mouth soaping for tomorrow, and I am anxious awaiting the "talk" How do you deal with nervousness? How do you submit to punishment without wiggling and apologizing in hopes that it ends...?
  22. We made some changes for his preferences to domestic discipline. I’m really trying to listen more to Mike more but something I don’t get. Everything in quotations are his words not mine. He said he had his reasons and we’re still taking about things but we started a “new process” few nights ago when I got a pretty good maintenance spanking with his office belt. I’ll be posting another topic about that later. Mike is a tower of consistency and he wants more “structure to our routine so you always get the same message.” Again more about this later. Since I have been overly abus
  23. "YOUNG LADY!!!" Anya stopped dead in her tracks as the voice speaking these words made her blood run cold. Her mind raced as she tried to think of a good reason she had disobeyed him and left the house sick. Slowly, she turned and looked into her husband's deep blue eyes, which now seemed to bore into her very soul. "Um…honey…I…" Mitch threw his hand up. "DON'T!!!" he commanded in a tone she knew well. Mitch stood 6'04" and fairly towered over Anya's 5'05" frame. He slowly and purposefully approached h
  24. We recently purchased (and read together) a Domestic Discipline book. Although we have been in a DD/FLR contract for three years, this new DD book and website has been a game changer for our marriage. Healthy, REAL (non erotic), loving and intimate, domestic discipline for couples! with actual results. highly suggest!!!! Domestic-Discipline.net and their book for both Beginners or couples already practicing "a form" of Domestic Discipline. https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Domestic-Discipline-Successful-Relationship/dp/154956594X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1512603241&sr=8-1&
  25. 30 year old male Dom/Spanker looking for a female spankee to get to know and possibly have a relationship with. I live in the Burlington area but travel out to oak harbor frequently for work and love to explore Washington in general.
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