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Hi! I’m looking for a disciplinarian (with benefits if there is a connection). I’m an attractive, successful, type A business woman that needs a good spanking to keep me centered and accountable. My husband of 29 years will do it, but he doesn’t like it and I know it wears on him. We’ve been to a female spanktress once but I prefer a male and I’d love to meet someone that can include sex as part of after care. Hubs is 100% onboard but would just want to meet and approve for safety reasons. My ideal disciplinarian could meet at the same time once a week. Review the list of weekly transgressions, discuss punishment, lecture, punish and some aftercare. An hour?

Best way to get to know me is message me, don't be shy I love to chat with anybody I am an experienced traveling Disciplinarian/Spanker based out of Manhattan NYC. I am a mature and responsible 29 year old male with around 7 years experience, and over the years I've spanked both young ladies and older women. I've enjoyed everything about spanking since I can remember, but really got involved and started acting as a disciplinarian about 7 years ago. I enjoy taking on the role and fulfilling this void for any naughty girl whose been searching for somebody to do that for them. From helping you break those bad habits, to needing motivation, roleplaying and also for any of you curious to experience that first real discipline spanking you've often thought about. And although I'm from NYC and Long Island, I travel quite often so don't let location stop you from introducing yourself. Sorry Spanking ONLY and I only spank females. And a real good spanking at that, pants and panties down around your ankles with a bright red sore bottom before daddy's done spanking your bottom ? Can also email directly at partyndbull@gmail.com

Ok I have not seen this addressed before but it's me and I'm curious about others interpretations and experiences. So my girlfriend and I practice the HOH. She is very submissive to me in all things outside the bedroom. She sets her goals and is punished if she doesn't reach those goals and she thrives in that situation. Knowing I expect her to accomplish things gives her the boost she needs, much more than just doing things such as cleaning and exercising because they need done. So that's the normal part. But I also need spanking for stress relief and motivation. She notices when I do and does take control and deliver, but only in the privacy of the bedroom. My question is how to transition from being in total control to submitting for my own good. I have toyed with the idea of a specific set night being her time to be in charge. All thoughts welcome.

Professional Photographer. Professional gear, lighting, props. Professional disciplinarian. Meaningful releases. I will lead you to a place whereupon you will be freed from, guilt, anxiety, shame, fear, or just the need to experience your comeuppance. Primarily dominant, however, the thought of my bottom soundly spanked by the right woman sends me soaring with the anticipated emotional release accompanying the discipline. I have administered myriad spankings for a variety of reasons. I just want to experience what I have given throughout the years.

I'm a spankee new to this site. I'm non-binary with female anatomy. I'm interested in finding a partner to roleplay with (preferably over discord or something). Any gender is welcome. I'm interested in discipline spankings and I'm open to the idea of an erotic plot as well.