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  1. Hello, I am based in Florida but travel through the Southeast for my career. As a Disciplinarian of 20+ years, I am currently accepting new female spankees who need mentoring/discipline. I provide real life discipline for real life issues. Feel free to pm me with any questions you may have.
  2. I am a petite (5’4″), curvy, gorgeous, dominant, half Chinese, half African American, strong willed, no-nonsense, professional disciplinarian in the central NC area. After studying clinical psychology and honing my domestic disciplinary skills on my submissive husband of 4 years, I now offer spanking and punishment sessions mainly in Virginia, North Carolina, and South Carolina. I punish out of love NOT hatred. I am a loving firm hand that never seems to tire. My discipline methods keep my family in line and they have the same effects on my clients. I am not a dominatrix. I am a
  3. Hello all, I have been into the M/s, D/s, and Disciplinarian lifestyle for about 8 years now. There are several types of dynamics that I like to engage in but since we are on the spanking site, I will talk about how my Discipline and mentorship helps my partners. I have some life coaching experience too and I use some of my leadership skills in Disciplining my partners constructively. I have helped straighten out some partners with Discipline and Scolding. I enjoy providing structure and deciding ways in which my partner can live their life and turn out to be happier on the other end. My s
  4. Hi girls 🤗 I have experience providing discipline and mentorship to the new and curious as well as experienced females. My style is designed to meet your needs once I get to know you. I can discipline you or provide mentorship and guidance so you are safe in your spanking journey. I live in the Philadelphia and New Jersey area and I can host or travel within 3 hours. Sorry guys! One bad experience ruined it for all of you except my disciplinarian. -Miss Nikki
  5. Greetings boys & girls Have you been lacking discipline? Do you have bad habits (smoking, cursing, rudenes) you need to break? Harboring guilt or shame for past offenses? Lacking motivation (work, school, weight loss)? I am an experienced FEMALE Disciplinarian located in the north east. I offer my disciplinary services to naughty young men and women in Vermont, New Hampshire, Massachusettes, New York, Maine & Rhode Island. I have been involved in discipline most of my adult life and several years ago, about 6yrs to be exact, I opted to begin offering disciplinary services after sev
  6. Hi there I am a non sexual disciplinarian from Pittsburgh with a lot of experience will to help anyone with accountability or stress. Hope to help CP
  7. Another one of many memories and thoughts from this Er. I have helped a few girls in the past that after the initial meet and greet, tell Me that they do not like being spanked, it does not take an experienced Mentor long to figure out that she may not being quite honest about her feelings. I am one to teach honesty, self awareness, and to think objectively, I know that it is extremely difficult for most to admit certain faults, desires and true objectives. It takes time to learn to trust, to tell some of the ‘god awful ‘ things that can plague her mind when in fact many of th
  8. Hello SN, I am a professional spanker and disciplinarian located in Atlanta, Georgia. I believe in a no-nonsense approach to spanking and discipline play. Spanking can be a way to release guilt for mistakes, reach stress relief through the catharsis of smacks, or receive the punishment you richly deserve. Contact me with your idea for a spanking, and let's make it a reality. Email me at deborahburnsideinfo@gmail.com Read my FAQs here: deborahburnsides.com Deborah Burnside
  9. Hi. I am looking for a disciplinarian to help hold me accountable and discipline me when needed while I am back in school working towards my bachelors degree. I tend to procrastinate and because of that don’t get the grades I know I can get.
  10. I literally need a personal trainer with me when I'm working out teaching me proper form, someone who can easily do the workouts assigned to me so I can watch how their body moves doing it so I can hopefully mimic it, him being a healthy fitness visual to motivate me as well, and helping me set up a specific routine of workouts to do every day designed to reach my personal body goals of reducing sagging skin as I continue to drop weight, to tone up and strengthen my weaker muscles, and to make my butt better formed and bigger. The Disciplinarian part comes in by needing him to be strict
  11. I took a break from reality today and decided to take a drive to a somewhat local casino. I arrived to the familiar smells of smoke and alcohol, the bells ringing, crowds of people seemingly having a good time. As the evening wore on, I was not winning much so I began wandering, noticing the players on the slot machines. I am not new to this type of entertainment, I had a few sour memories of overspending, staying too late, and that ‘dreaded guilt’. From a distance everyone for the most part seemed happy, life was good, I occasionally would ask how their luck was doing, inevitab
  12. I am a 58 year old male living in South Florida. I have many years of experience with spanking. I can provide any level from pink to purple. I live in a private gated community in Lake Worth Florida. I am happy to chat with anyone interested from newbees to experienced. I have solid references as well. I do not charge for this.
  13. More rambling thoughts; After a week or so of chatting with a couple of ee’s, I found myself in a state of mind that changes with what I feel is best for her and realize that as an Er I can and sometimes do, that is make assumptions. In the past I felt that I was able to adjust my style to fit a girls needs and wants in regards to her situation, in effect sometimes make her feel that I come across as being judgmental, condescending, controlling to name a few behaviors. My topic ‘Wearing the right hat’ seems to fit in this scenario, it can be difficult to get to know someone init
  14. A thought - Things have changed as most, if not all of us that have been around awhile are aware of. I remember a time when a few newcomer ee’s I worked with were using both safety along with common sense when meeting for the first time. As a meet and greet, then leading to an eventual ‘session’. It seemed much more like a ‘good faith agreement ‘, I realize that this type of trust seemed more common years ago when people, at least in my recollection, were a bit more upfront and willing to take a safe risk to wish to meet in a public place. I can not blame any one for being ap
  15. Hi. I'm a guy in my 20s seeking an authoritative male/female who will put me over their knee for a good spanking when I need it. Hopefully you will be able to give me the guidance and discipline I require to hold me to account for my poor behaviour/habits.
  16. Hi. I am a 28 year old female seeking a disciplinarian. I need to change some things in my life and I think that discipline/spankings will help. If you want to know more about me or my needs, please feel free to contact me @ sexibrownsuga143@aol.com. I am only interested in people who are serious and spankers. Thanks in advance. Tangelchick
  17. I am a 26 year old Dom with 7 years Experience as a Disciplinarian. I spend time with men and women who feel that they would like some guidance and order in their life and believe Spanking and Discipline can help. I have recently Moved to Central Oklahoma and would like to reach out to those in the community looking for a Platonic Spanking and Mentoring relationship. This is intended as a service, but I do not set a price, I only ask that you pay what you can afford believe to be fair. I have disciplined a number of college students, so I understand if you can't quite afford a ProDom
  18. Hello all! I'm 31, female, currently living in the USA (MST) but not looking for any face-to-face discipline. I am looking for guided self-spanking as I am trying to stay on top of daily and weekly tasks. Also looking for other spanko friends. Nice to meet y'all.
  19. Has anyone ever heard of a professional who requires tribute getting raided by the police or charged with prostitution? Or a dungeon? Just curious.
  20. 25 year old male looking for help preferably someone local.
  21. I'm a naughty girl who smokes everyday, gets drunk every weekend, curses like a sailor and spends her day lying around being lazy. I also won't ever stick to a diet and workout routine. Give me some harsh conviencing. How would you punish me for these bad habits and blatantly disrespectful attitude.
  22. Hey woman or even men if you are feeling bad and naughty just contact me you must be in Maryland in a place close to Gaithersburg and you must be 18-30 range also u must come to me or you take me to your place
  23. Local Disciplinarian for women, man or couples. Age, looks does not matter. If you need a Stress release spanking or harsh punishment, or plain old fashion discipline. I am a safe experience authority figure. Non-Sexual 69-year-old disciplinarian for those whom feel or know they desire to answer to an authority figure to be held accountable for their actions. Just call me Sir!
  24. To me spanking must give both the spanker and spankee some internal gratification. As a spankee I know what I like and I make sure my spanker knows what I need to get out of a session. One thing that matters to me a lot is that the person doing the spanking is enjoying herself. However we never hear from female spankers as to what do they want the spankee to do to make it more enjoyable for them, the spanker. For example do you have a preference for how the bottom is bared? Would you rather spank a guy naked or with pants pulled down?O Otk or over a piece of furniture
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