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Has anyone had any good experiences with mouth soaping? What kind of soaps are best? Has anyone had the bar of soap in your mouth during the spanking, after, while doing corner time or maybe both? How did it make you feel? Did it add to the afterglow or feeling of being little?

I travel KY, OH and IN, primarily SW OH, northern KY, and eastern IN, but do travel further. Have friends and relatives in Akron/Canton/Cleveland area that I visit now that pandemic is over. I am retired at 79 yrs. old and am a disciplinarian of mature ladies who are acting in ways that are possibly harmful to their health/welfare/social well being. Just as I am not too old to be giving a lady the spanking she needs, you, Young Lady, are not too old to be taken over my knees while I give you the long overdue, much needed spanking that you need or want. As long as you are in good health, this will be the case. Contact me for more information if you need to be spanked or if you know of a lady that needs to be spanked. And, yes, the finalization of the spanking may result in tears and will always be on your bare bottom. Thank you and I look forward to hearing from you.

Hello, Michael here. I reside in the Georgetown, Texas area. I am a straight male looking for females who are interested in spanking and discipline. I am extremely discrete, clean, professional, and above all else, respectful. I am a 70/30 switch, Top/Bottom. Let's chat!!

Safe, caring, straight, single gentleman available for friendship, mentoring, or a loving relationship. I am experienced. Excellent with newbies. I live in Arizona, near Needles, CA. I have Trillion if you want to discuss your interest in being mentored or disciplined. Very loving guy. Family type. Supportive. Yet firm at times. No nonsense. Not a player. Dominant but not domineering. Non-abusive. Photo and Trillion available upon request. Don't be shy ladies. I am flexible. I can travel some. Confidential.

Hi there, I am spanking naughty men and women in DC. You must be willing to take COVID-19 precautions, be respectful, and not involve me in any bullshit. If you need your bottom bared and blistered contact me, and I will find a way to give you the spanking you need.

Hi all I am 47 years old, single and live in Scotland. I have had an interest in spanking for a very long time and received my first adult spanking at age 30 and have been getting spanked on and off since then. I now feel that I no longer just want an occasional spanking now and then when I can get one but would like to find a nice decent strong man who could provide me with regular spankings and discipline when I need or deserve them in a solid discipline relationship. I am a single parent to a 3yr old boy who is and always will be my whole world however looking after him on my own can be quite stressful at times especially just now while we are all continually stuck at home and I need to find a good strong man who can keep me in check and bring me back down to earth when I am finding things really stressful. Looking forward to joining in some interesting discussions around spanking and discipline. Thanks for reading, happy to chat anytime.

I think it was harder for my Sir than it was for me, even though I was more scared than I had ever been for a spanking. This was discipline, not a punishment. It was strange and surreal for both of us. But it opened an entire threshold of relationship that had never existed in our 15 years of marriage. Sir and I had been thinking and praying about maintainence for quite some time. I believe I have posted about it before. Sir and I (my husband Wes and I have chosen to move to the more formal method of addressing him...as "Sir" to reinforce his role and my submission.) are evangelicals and both of us were raised with corporal discipline. My parents practiced Domestic Discipline as well, so it was inevitable that we would have it in our own relationship. Because of my upbringing though, I am a "good girl" and don't get in trouble very often any more. Like the Scripture says, wide is the road and narrow is the gate...so I try to stay as close to the center as possible. The longest I have gone is nearly 4 months. I was only spanked three times last year and none of them were serious offenses and easily could have been excused. Point being that as time between spankings ebbed, I began to feel more and more distant from Sir. It was like our life became more routine. Well as I noted in one of my first postings, we prayed and found that I was making an idolatry out of being a "good girl". I wasn't doing it out of my normal love...I was doing it as a method of controlling my life...something I am supposed to be abdicating to Sir and to the Lord. This was where the discussions about maintainence came up. We would talk about it almost everynight in our devotions. We schedule sex because of our lifestyle because we don't want that important aspect of our marriage to wane. Why wouldn't we want to schedule spankings which have just as an important role in our marriage and happiness. We talked about how long was too long and I suggested two weeks. Sir, in his wisdom, noted that maintainence wouldn't just be quick brief spankings and that 2 weeks might be too stressful both emotionally and on my butt. We settled on three weeks. I circled the date on the calender. If I didn't need to be spanked before then, I would submit to a three tiered discipline that included cornertime, and three spankings. If I did get spanked the three week clock would start from the following day after the spanking. Yesterday was three weeks. It was the strangest, scariest, yet most wonderful day of our marriage. In many ways it was like the first time that we made love and I gave him my virginity. It wasn't going to be perfect or altogether pleasant, but I looked forward to it. We deliberately chose an evening where all of our kids were at church for Awanas. Sir took the kids, and I stayed home to await him. All day I cleaned the house, did my routines, thinking about what layed ahead of me. I was reminded of the first time I went into real labor with Breanna my oldest, how much I couldn't wait for it, so I could be with my baby girl. I counted the cost of the pain and realized the reward was more than enought to offset it. I didn't know what the reward would be for this but I knew that God had blessings for our heart of obedience. We have a room that all spankings occur in. It is the same room we do our family devotions. It is on the third floor; has a nice big bay window that looks out over the Hudson Valley, a comfortable chair, and our paddles and straps. Before I settled in to wait for him, I cut two switches...one thin and whip like...and a thicker one like a cane. I pulled out leather strap that is solely for my punishments. I pulled out my Bible, knelt on the prayer cushion facing the corner and read all the highlighted verses in Proverbs which is part of our punishment ritual. I also read Proverbs 31 to remind myself why I was doing this. For the first time ever, as I heard him in the house and make his way up the stairs, I didn't feel the dread about what was going to happen. I did feel the anxiousness, the understandable nervousness about the pain, but it felt like I was almost looking forward to it...which isn't really right...but I just can't put it into words. Tough for someone who writes soooo much. Sir came in and sat in the chair where I would be spanked and bade me to come over. I sat on his lap and he hugged me deeply. I began to cry emotionally into his shoulder. "Molly, I love you so much," Sir whispered into my ear. "Because of that, I am not going to soften these disciplines. Do you understand?" I nodded. "Yes Sir," I sniffled I managed looking up into his appreciative gaze. "Molly, I am going to spank you. I'm spanking for a number of reasons. I'm spanking you because you are a healthier person after a spanking. We are closer together as a couple when you are spanked and that is a very good thing. Our sex is better after a spanking and I think we both really like that. I am spanking you so that you can practice submission and obedience which are Godly characteristics in a wife. Finally, I am spanking you so that you will trust my leadership over you. Now it is important for you to know that you are not being spanked because you did anything wrong. I am not dissappointed in you...quite the opposite...I am so proud that you want to embark in this next evolution of our marriage. I love that you call me Sir now. I love that we will doing this more often and it won't be because of something bad in our home. The children will start seeing the joy in your heart." I couldn't help but feel the smile on my face, which Sir was about to erase with his hand. I thanked him. Then he suggested that we pray. We both got out of the chair and knelt in front of it. It is easy to submit to Sir when I see him submit to the Lord so readily. He prayed that God would be with both of us during the spanking...that He would reveal Himself through the administering and receiving of it. He prayed that God wouldn't withhold any pain I was to feel that would continue to mold my character. Then he touched my butt through my pajamas and prayed that God would protect my flesh from injury. It wasn't a threat of severity...just a routine prayer he always prayed over me before spankings. For the first time though, I heard its sincerity and importance. When he was finished, we both rose wordlessly. He sat in the chair and when he was ready, I laid over his lap, clutching his leg for leverage, because my toes were barely touching the floor. I felt him pull my flannel jammy bottoms down to my knees and then slide my underwear down. He rested his left hand softly on the small of my back just above the crack of my back. He would steady me and hold me down when he started to spank me. "Ready, sweet girl?" he asked rhetorically. I nodded. "Yes, Sir, I'm ready." I could feel his body tense as he moved and his large hand slapped down hard over my left butt cheek. He brought it down repeatedly causing me to issue loud but controlled "OOWW!"s. He continued to raise the severity of the bare hand swats until I was on the edge of tears, my face red, and my body squirming under his control. He spanked me for probably ten minutes, easily 50-70 swats in rapid succession. Much longer than a normal warm up. After that he put me back in the corner, standing on my toes with my pajamas around my knees. I recited aloud for 15 minutes the reasons I was being disciplined. "I am being spanked to improve our marriage. I am being spanked to be obedient to God. I am being spanked to submit and trust Sir. I am being spanked because it makes our lovemaking better." The second spanking was with the strap. It was ten minutes and was almost the worse strap spanking I could recall. I was hollaring and screaming but refused to be disobedient. When he stopped I burst into tears. Nonethe less, I was put back into the corner, where I recited the reasons for being spanked. 15 minutes later I was laying on the ottoman, in the diaper possiton as Sir took the slender switch to me for ten minutes. It made squirm and cry but wasn't has overly intense as the strap. Then picked up the cane switch and gave me 25 hard swats that made me scream in pain. It was the real agony, that I expected. I cried and cried, loudly even as he pulled me up to hug me and hold me. Surprisingly after we held each other in the silence save my sobbing, we kissed each other deeply. Before we knew it, we were making beautiful love with each other and I felt it was a easy and joyful as any we had before. I have a reason to look forward to my next maintainence. Just not on my back

I'm a naughty female looking to find a strict female (hopefully) who can teach my bratty little ass a lesson

So...this is how strong the need is to spank a woman is for me. I was diagnosed with leukemkia on Valentines day 2018. I had Bone Marrow Transplant and Im doing great, Thank God!!! While Im laying in the hospital bed Im watching the nurse prepare my chemo. Her back is to me. I find myself staring at her beautiful ass in her scrubs and I could only think how amazing it would be to pull down her scrubs and panties and spank that perfectly round beautiful bottom . I was soooo sick from everything that it amazed me when the reality of where my thoughts were during that time. I talked to my thearpist after all was done. I explained to her what I just explained here. And NO...therapy doesnt help me. All I want to do now is spank my therapist lmao😂 She asked if I watched porn while going through everything. I said, I have no interest in watch people have sex. I only watch spanking videos. I would love to hear similar stories.

If you are astray and need structure, accountability, and old-fashioned strict discipline back in your life then it is time to stop procrastinating and do something to correct your “bad” behavior. I specialize in women who procrastinate, are constantly late, text while driving, overspend, smoke, and keep a messy house. This is consensual and non-sexual and you will have a safe-word if you think you need it to use but I expect you to take the punishment you have earned even if you have to take a break while it is being administered. I have many years of experience in providing all kinds of discipline and mentoring. My methods may be painful and embarrassing but they will get results. I use the tried and true methods including bare bottom spanking, with or without implements. In some cases, I may also use mouth soaping, enemas, corner time, scolding, and assigning essays. I live in the mountains west of Denver but get into Denver often and travel to the Los Angeles area also. Contact me direct if you are interested in strict discipline at cp4u2020@yahoo.com or cp4u2009@yahoo.com. I cannot host. Thanks, Doc

Looking for men in central Massachusetts who are looking to be held accountable for their behavior by someone who will take their pants down and give them a good spanking. Behavior such as texting while driving, chronic lateness, slacking off at work are all behaviors that can be addressed with a good old-fashioned, very thorough spanking. Limits always respected. I have introduced many young men to the experience of adult spanking and especially enjoy spanking men new to spanking.

I need behavior modification in every aspect right now. Any punishment ideas are welcomed. And a dominant female would be awesome

I enjoy having her doing corner time just as much as I enjoy having her grace my lap. Anyone else enjoy giving or getting cornertime?

I've only had one spanking experience. My mentor used his hands and 5 implements with corner time between each. He knew it was my first time for a punishment spanking and he did show lots of care throughout the session which lasted about 90 minutes. I had told myself that I wanted to have an actual good first experience and I was not going to use my safe word no matter what. It hurt lots, and I squirmed lots and got out of position about a couple of times, but to my surprise I never cried. I supposed I was in shock...what kept playing in my head was "Wow...this is really happening - I'm getting spanked!" It began otk with hand over my skirt. Then a small wooden paddle beginning over panties and then on bare bottom. Then a small carpet beater looking thing made of loopy wires (not sure what to call it) on the bare. That really stung and that's when the squirming started. After that, it was two pops with the paddle over panties while bent over the back of a chair. Then the belt on the bare while laying atop of pillows on the bed. Then lastly, the implement that really burned was the strap also on the bare over pillows. I got out of position saying I had had enough (knowing I could say my safe word, but didn't) and my mentor reminded me that he would let me know when I've received enough and to get back into position or he'd bring out the paddle. I got back into position. My mentor said he'd give me 5 more and we were done. Well, after just 3 he dropped the strap on the floor and said we were done. After throwing the strap on the floor he reached over to massage my shoulders and my back and telling me I had done very well taking my punishment. That was very soothing to me. He could have given me all 5 as he had said, but he stopped at 3. It left me wondering why. I didn't find out until I got home and I was showing my hubby my punished bottom that I realized why my mentor had stopped. My hubby said, "Babe, you have blood stains on your underwear!" At first I was shocked and said, "What??" I saw a huge concern on the hubby's face. (Btw, hubby is more vanilla...he spanks me as play, not punishment.) Then I remembered my mentor stopping at 3 when he had said 5 and I explained to my hubby more about my discipline session. I told him him I never cried during session and I could have used my safe word and I didn't. All my mentor new was what I wanted...a real punishment experience and a good one and I said, "He gave me what I asked for." Hopefully, next time we meet, I'll be able to cry. I feel I need that release. We have talked about it. He is glad to have given me what I was seeking, though he did tell me he had hoped to hear the safe word. I explained how I felt not wanting to use it so I could feel like I got a good experience. He felt bad for not having stopped sooner. Hated that he made me bleed. I told him it had only been a couple small stains. As being the first time he spanked me and my first time being spanked as an adult like that, it was really more like an experiment as we're trying to figure out how much I can take. Apparently, I took a good licking last June 2016. Not sure when it will happen again. Not sure if my mentor will travel to visit again or if I'll be brave enough to go over a new spanker's lap...but all I know is that I'm long overdue! May this journey of mine continue!

I like bratty women. (As long as they are not TOO bratty) Is it just me?