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  1. That big taboo subject that nobody likes talking about, the one that makes you feel all cringy inside and you're scared to admit to having problems with. Yet, in the world we're living the statistics for Mental Health Problems are shocking, causing drives such as Mental Health Awareness. We're more then comfortable to complain of our awful cold (man-flu), yet can't admit we have anxiety and so I am here to open up some discussions and hopefully freedom about this topic. STATISTICS How common are mental health problems? (Mind uk) 1 in 4 people will experience a mental health proble
  2. I'm looking for non sexual disciplinary spankings. Gender doesn't really matter as long as you're okay with it being solely spanking. I am fully vaccinated, but am also okay waiting if you're more comfortable doing so.
  3. I spank and discipline mature females, 40+, who still need a strict hand in their lives. I travel between Colorado and California via I-70 and I-15. I am old-fashioned and still like dealing with a woman who enjoys being submissive and obedient. I feel that things run smoother when a woman wants to have structure, accountability, and boundaries to live by. You are the type of woman who knows that if you break a rule, or show bad behavior you should be subject to immediate punishment. My pet peeves are women who procrastinate, are constantly late, text while driving, overspend, smoke, and
  4. I spank and disciplines mature females, 40+, who still need a strict hand in their lives. With the Coronavirus, I would welcome email correspondence to exchange views to see if we are compatible at this time for a disciplinary relationship only. I am old-fashioned and still enjoy dealing with a woman who wants to be submissive and obedient. I feel that things run smoother when a woman wants to have structure, accountability, and boundaries to live by. You are the type of woman who knows and wants that if you break a rule, or show bad behavior you should be subject to immediate punish
  5. I have been involved in this type of therapy for quite some time, I will not be redundant about My qualifications. There are times when a girl requires a sound bare bottomed spanking, whatever the reasons. The spankings are strictly confidential, in the safety and security of her or My environment. There are also other means of discipline that are available. You feel as a female know what you need and have the desire to seek relief of the guilt, shame, curiosity or behaviors that you know are not good, W/we need to talk. Contact Me here or My yahoo account, I do have a kik
  6. If you are astray and need structure, accountability, and old-fashioned strict discipline back in your life then it is time to stop procrastinating and do something to correct your poor behavior. I specialize in women who procrastinate, are constantly late, text while driving, overspend, smoke, and keep a messy house. This is consensual and non-sexual and you will have a safe-word to use but I expect you to take the punishment you have earned even if you have to take a break while it is being administered. I have many years of experience in providing all kinds of discipline and me
  7. A new year, new needs for accountability. Let this year be different, accomplish your goals. Be a good girl. Rick, 🙂
  8. I'm looking for a mentor who can help me stay focused and hold me accountable for my actions in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I tend to be rebellious and throw fits even though I'm 23 and I'm smart with ambitions. I just maybe need some discipline.
  9. As some know I randomly post short thoughts when I have time or they come to mind. This one is about ‘ The Chair ‘ I was doing some routine dusting in the ‘Master Bedroom ‘ when I saw ‘ the chair ‘, while dusting I remembered a few of the ee’s that were placed over My lap while I was sitting there. A chair is a simple implement, mostly basic in design, it’s uses as we all know, sitting and talking, resting, eating, and so on. It occurred to Me that probably one of a chairs most valuable and life changing uses is an implement is a place for correction to take place. A place
  10. A reintroduction; I am located near Lansing, Michigan, close to several colleges and large-small cities. The techniques I use are flexible, the skill set gained from 20+ years of involvement in Discipline, Mentoring, Daddy adult daughter, age regression among a few. A girl will find Me to be a good listener, passionate about what I do, I feel I possess a great deal of integrity. I stress safety, honesty and consideration for her needs, wants and what is best for her. If as a girl/woman that may have thoughts of guilt, shame, bad habits that need to be corrected, possibly st
  11. More rambling thoughts; After a week or so of chatting with a couple of ee’s, I found myself in a state of mind that changes with what I feel is best for her and realize that as an Er I can and sometimes do, that is make assumptions. In the past I felt that I was able to adjust my style to fit a girls needs and wants in regards to her situation, in effect sometimes make her feel that I come across as being judgmental, condescending, controlling to name a few behaviors. My topic ‘Wearing the right hat’ seems to fit in this scenario, it can be difficult to get to know someone init
  12. It’s an early evening round of random thoughts in this Er’s head. My mind wants to relay thoughts that make sense about the want and need to warm a girls bottom, the process of chatting, talking, the nervousness she has about the whole process. Then the act, the positioning, the gentle reassurance as the spanking starts, from beginning to end, then somehow we bond, her and I, briefly for a time when both needs are being met. The magical effect of two humans joining together in understanding- maybe the power exchange?, maybe the euphoria of stress relief?, possibly the guilt, one or
  13. Hello. I'm Jennifer. I am in a DD relationship with Redandmore. We joined SN in May. We absolutely LOVE this community! Red believes I am ignoring his Lectures and He wants me to remedy this situation NOW! I do admit to ignoring Him frequently. I have been tasked to ask SN members - Spankers in DD relationships or Spankers in General - if they would be willing to help provide me with motivation to behave better through Lecture emails and and be included in His "Lecturer's List". Please help me complete this task. Part of my DD corrections are to have two accountab
  14. I just joined after finding this wonderful website, hoping to meet others with similar interests. I was raised being spanked at home and at school, and attended private elementary and high schools where that was allowed. When I started college I began looking for others with similar backgrounds in the hope of finding spanking partners, and was quite successful in doing so. I am now 70 and still enjoy spanking and being spanked both for fun and for discipline. I'm always interested in spanking college students for discipline, and open to spanking females for discipline and maintenance,
  15. Hello Everyone, It has been awhile since I have posted or been involved with this site. Some will remember Me, I would like to reintroduce Myself, I am Rick, I live between Lansing and Grand Rapids MI. I have been involved in helping ADULT females of all ages for many years, this experience along with overcoming many of the same obstacles that I help others to overcome. I consider Myself to be a wise, fair but strict Disciplinarian, I am a good listener, compassionate and a Man of integrity. I will post thoughts, ideas or other things that I feel may be helpful as time
  16. I have read, heard spoken and learned much about the term ‘healthy boundaries ‘ I suspect volumes have been written about the subject. It is no secret as to why we should not drink and drive, texting and driving, speeding, tardiness, being disrespectful along with the smoking, drugs and living on the edge scenarios. These behaviors are detrimental to our health as we all know or should know. In reality there is nothing short of following someone and physically mandate that they do not pursue these unhealthy acts. Just about any of us has the ‘freedom ‘ to commit a crime or misbe
  17. Hello all. This is quite the nice community! New to this site but very experienced. Glad to have found it! I would like to get to know you, so feel free to contact me. Firm-handed, fair-minded, sincere yet light-hearted, older mentor-type in southern California who can help keep you accountable and on track for what ails you. Ask away. Thanks to all in advance for the welcome. V-
  18. Hi I've introduced myself here already but I'm Kaitlyn! I live in Georgia and may be a distance from some people, however I am interested on having an online mentor if that's the only option. Thanks so much
  19. Looking for a male spanker who truly has a need to give, and gets satisfaction from giving real spankings. We will communicate prior to a first session, until we are both comfortable meeting. Looking for at least several sessions commitment from the same spanker. Tears sometimes. Real reasons or not, or just b/c we are spankos and need it. Tears sometimes. Traffic light safe words. No sex.
  20. I am an older gentleman with neatly 30 years of experience in mentoring, counseling and disciplining naughty or troubled young women in need of stress relief, behavior modification, attitude adjustment or women who simply enjoy being spanked without the involvement of sex. A good listener, I will provide sound advice as well as a sound spanking when appropriate. 'Littles' and curious women are always welcome.
  21. Greetings! I'm a 43 American living in Japan for work. I am an educator, an artist, and an author. I travel back to the states 3 to 4 times per year, for extended periods of time. Seeking communication, friendship, and an eventual relationship with a like minded person.
  22. Experienced mature aged disciplinarian offers non-sexual spankings and discipline to women over 18. I am based in Croydon and daytime appointments are preferred. If you reply direct to my email address then you need to check your SPAM mail for my reply
  23. Hello everyone, My name's Alan and I'm a mature male who is approachable, understanding and easy to talk to. I'd like to meet mature females who possess a need for discipline and structure in their lives or those who simply wish to temporarily relinquish control. I can help you achieve goals or targets; I can increase your sense of accountability; I can help you relieve life's stresses. I'm sane, sensible and confident in my abilities to discipline (hand, paddle, hairbrush,cane). I'm able to travel throughout the state of Victoria and my email address is alantompson@yahoo.com
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    New Years Resolutions

    Why is it so difficult to set and follow new years resolutions? Why is it some big joke that most people leave their resolutions behind before the end of January? I sit here reading about goals, action plans, punishments and accountability and wonder if it would make a difference if I had that kind of relationship to help me achieve or if it's all in my head. I have tried for the past handful of years to go it mostly alone and my track record isn't great. I've only found playful people nearby that want to spank, nobody that is willing to take on the responsibility of someone with real changes
  25. A mature Christian disciplinarian with years of experience with accountability and spanking, I am willing to help men and women struggling on their business trips with temptations and stress and guilty feelings. Helps comes with appropriate discipline and prayer. If I can help, let me know. Davyd
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