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Christy

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  1. Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Wishing you a fantastic weekend of fun,

    1. ammon

      ammon

      Same to You, Christy, and merry Christmas!

  2. Weekend is coming.  Wishing everyone a fun filled weekend.

  3. Welcome to the site. Always nice to see other Michigan folks on here.
  4. I’m posting this as a response to being contacted in private by different ee’s who tell horror stories of being abused and taken advantage of by the people spanking them. Because this is serious and appears to be happening more and more, I’d like to address the issues of Power and Control, as it relates to the relationship between ee's and ‘Er’s, before, during and after a session. As an ‘ee, you must keep in mind that while you may have a need and craving to relinquish control to someone, ultimately you must accept the responsibility to say “No” or “Stop” (or whatever safe word had been agreed upon) should the circumstances demand it. Whatever happens in a session, only does so with your permission and those of us who spank, only do so with YOUR permission, and therefore a session should end immediately if that permission is withdrawn. Any session that continues after permission is withdrawn, is no longer a session - it is an assault, and you should treat it accordingly. That means doing everything you would do if you were personally attacked on the street. Run, escape, call or scream for help, etc. I would like to suggest to any ‘ee, especially those who are new to this, that you invest time and effort into building relationships with some of the more experienced people on this forum before proceeding. There is a very potent exchange of power that takes place during a session, and it should not be underestimated. The intimacy and the act of submission are like gun powder, and the spanking can be a spark that ignites a situation you were not planning on, or prepared for - but might later regret. I would be very happy to discuss this in private with anyone who needs to. The most important thing to always keep in mind, is that the Power is ALWAYS ultimately yours; to grant permission, or to withdraw it.
  5. Wishing everyone a fun and safe weekend.

    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      Same to you!

    2. GaryMcKee

      GaryMcKee

      Wishing you the same, Christy! 

  6. Welcome to the board.
  7. TGIF!   Looking like a beautiful weekend here in Michigan.  Hope every one enjoys their weekend.  

    1. Geoffreaux

      Geoffreaux

      Yes ma’am.

  8. Happy Easter Everyone.

  9. Over the years I have met several people from here in real life. All except for one was great. I am friends with several of them still.
  10. I’m posting this as a response to being contacted in private by different ee’s who tell horror stories of being abused and taken advantage of by the people spanking them. Because this is serious and appears to be happening more and more, I’d like to address the issues of Power and Control, as it relates to the relationship between ee's and ‘Er’s, before, during and after a session. As an ‘ee, you must keep in mind that while you may have a need and craving to relinquish control to someone, ultimately you must accept the responsibility to say “No” or “Stop” (or whatever safe word had been agreed upon) should the circumstances demand it. Whatever happens in a session, only does so with your permission and those of us who spank, only do so with YOUR permission, and therefore a session should end immediately if that permission is withdrawn. Any session that continues after permission is withdrawn, is no longer a session - it is an assault, and you should treat it accordingly. That means doing everything you would do if you were personally attacked on the street. Run, escape, call or scream for help, etc. I would like to suggest to any ‘ee, especially those who are new to this, that you invest time and effort into building relationships with some of the more experienced people on this forum before proceeding. There is a very potent exchange of power that takes place during a session, and it should not be underestimated. The intimacy and the act of submission are like gun powder, and the spanking can be a spark that ignites a situation you were not planning on, or prepared for - but might later regret. I would be very happy to discuss this in private with anyone who needs to. The most important thing to always keep in mind, is that the Power is ALWAYS ultimately yours; to grant permission, or to withdraw it.
  11. Christy

    Newbie

    Welcome all you new folks.
  12. Thank you for letting me know. I have made room now.
  13. Christy

    Back Again

    Welcome back Rook
  14. Hope everyone has a fantastic weekend. Stay safe.

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    2. michgal.k

      michgal.k

      Working....yay!☹

    3. ukspanko

      ukspanko

      Thank you ! Wishing everyone a good weekend as well :)

       

    4. MichiganHeadmaster

      MichiganHeadmaster

      You too!  Drive safely if you have to go out!

       

  15. Just bumping for safety purposes.
  16. I have a wonderful brush I prefer to use in the beginning.
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