Zhal

Birthday spankings should be mandatory, whether they are given on the day of or not.

Happy Belated Birthday!

I hope you get to experience that "display" this July 4th....maybyour butt be red...white...and blue!

I'm pretty sure that will happen in my neck of the woods. 😉

Along with telling people that when I was their age, I walked to school, barefoot, in 6 feet of snow, uphill both ways?

lol...I have heard that said often....

I became grumpy while I was still in my early 30's. Figured I'd beat the rush. 

I remember Dallas from Dallas Spanks was telling how he ended up spanking the girl who worked at the desk at the hotel/motel they were using for a shoot. She asked what they were doing, he told her, and she said she was curious. She got it good haha. So, wondering minds indeed.... 

Sounds like someone needs a really good spanking for that issue.  Too bad the manager of the complex can't give you one, just saying.  

It's true, it's entirely my own fault that it happened. The past few days have been spent thoroughly cleaning my apartment. Even now, I'm noticing the habits that contributed.

Sorry for your loss. While it is very hard to lose someone in this life, I believe that we can take "some" comfort in the knowledge that our loved one is not suffering any longer, and is now in a much better place. May God's peace be with you.

I'm very sorry, Zhal. Even when it's not unexpected, it feels so final. Having lost both of my parents, two of my brothers, and a friend who meant the world to me, I have a sense about how you must be feeling right now. Please keep us updated with how you're doing, okay?

Thank you all for your well wishes.

I got lots of spankings growing up for things I "got caught" doing or not doing...but I did get away with a few things....lol. Now...much later as an adult, I confess I do sometimes feel a little guilty now and then for those deeds unpunished. I have told my husband about them...I guess just feeling like I should. I do not want to hold anything secret about me with my husband. He has never, to date...chosen to spank me "now" for those past misbehaviors. But...as I said...I think deep down inside...I almost "want" him to. So...I "think" I understand how you might feel.

I think that is a very valid desire, there is a definite potential for some serious emotional reset and removal of guilt feelings during a spanking which is defined as being punishment for specific offenses, regardless if those things took place this week or 40 years ago.  I've spanked people any number of times for those who want to clear the air over old things they still feel bad about getting away with in the past. 

My attitude is that there is no statute of limitations on a spanking.  If you deserved a spanking long ago that was never given, you are always eligible to get it.  Whether that misbehavior occurred at twelve, sixteen, twenty six or forty.... a shameful trip across a caring knee can settle old accounts.  

I would just call that a swat or a spank. Personally, I love a single, sharp swat. 

A single swat once in a while can be okay, but to call it "a spanking" is silly. Just enough to let you know they mean business, but probably not enough to raise too much suspicion. Athletes pat each others' butts all the time, our pats are just harder.

lol...nope...for us, a smack or two on my butt...is a warning...an attention getter. Often, when accompanied by "the look"...it is a foreteller of much more "smacking" to come...later.