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Zhal last won the day on November 8 2015

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  1. My birthday spanking was also my most recent spanking, on August 8 of this year: 4 days after my actual birthday. Got 45 full force smacks with my thin-width hole filled paddle. Nothing bare, though in retrospect, I should have taken a break and then had my spanker spank me bare.
  2. I need to get back to getting spanked regularly. And by regularly, I mean at minimum twice a week.
  3. I want to get in the habit of getting routine spankings again. Would prefer if the spanker could host. Looking for spanking Wednesday morning or early afternoon, and another spanking on Sunday.

    1. AfterGeometry


      Just an observation, but...that's a very narrow window for being available.  The more flexible you can be with your time, the greater the chances of something working out with a potential ER.  I wish you luck nonetheless of course!!!!  🙂

    2. Zhal


      Unfortunately, I only get my work schedule in one week chunks, at earliest the Thursday before. I suppose I could also be available Tuesday evening. Anyway, thank you.

  4. I'm interested in a just for the sore butt spanking on Tuesday, Sept 14. Yes, I know it's short notice. While not necessary, I would prefer if the spanker could host.

  5. I agree that age doesn't matter in dating to an extent. For example, I wouldn't date somebody more than 15 years younger than me and even 10 is cutting it close. However; in the spanking relationship, the only age that matters is 18+. Under that, nope.
  6. August 8, "birthday" spanking, four days after my actual birthday. I forget how many strokes I got with each of the implements I set out, until it got to my thin paddle. That was 45 smacks at full force. We didn't do any bare, though I did start craving another spanking not long after.
  7. There is a woman I'm "Christmas Card Friends" with now, who was also a member of a couple theatrical combat troupes with whom I was also involved. At the end of one Renaissance Festival, when we were part of the first group, the group there thought she was going to get food for everybody. When she came back with only food for herself, every one called her out on it, and I said "naughty girl, whipping time" and she blushed beat red but the smile on her face . . . yeah, I suspect she's into that.
  8. Well, one night while I was still working at Wally World, there was a man in an orange T-shirt that said something like "Things I hated as a kid but love as an adult: getting spanked and taking naps". That may not be the exact wording, but I did suspect another spanko when I read that shirt.
  9. I have next weekend off, and a class I hoped to attend isn't happening. Because I can't do that class, I'd be interested in getting a spanking or two that weekend.

  10. Reconsidering the wisdom of giving spankings in my apartment based on the assumed breakability of the package a neighbor of mine received yesterday. Granted, I only saw the part that said "Crystal" whatever, so I don't know which floor that neighbor is on.

    1. Longtimespanking


      I would certainly hope that there was zero possibility that giving, or being given a spanking in your apartment could result in breakage of anything in any other apartment in the building.  I doubt that you are shaking the walls and floors that much? I'd honestly be more concerned about someone playing loud music or running in the hallways. 

    2. Zhal


      Well, my previous underneath neighbor did the loud music one. At worst, I had a folding chair shake while giving an OTK hand spanking.

  11. I'm highly wary as the models they started with--especially the "teen whoever" ones--are clearly in their mid-30s by now, but the "updates" for people without a membership don't reflect this. Sure, some people do look young for a long time. I'd just like to know that the example photos are actually recent.
  12. I think it says something that a portion of people who both were and weren't spanked as kids seek out spankings as adults, either as the spankers or the spankees.
  13. I never got spanked for grades as a kid. That said, C is kind of a gray area. On the one hand, it's not a D which is "just barely passing". I guess in a disciplinary dynamic it would depend on how hard the subject was for the spankee. A really hard course where they did their best and managed to pull out with a a C. no punishment. C because they slacked off? Then it's spanking time.
  14. I guess it depends on the reason for the spanking. That said, I'd say anywhere from 10-50 minutes of actual hitting.
  15. I hated getting spanked as a child, not so much for the spankings themselves, but for the terror my father instilled. He seems unaware of how his lack of dental care appeared to a child, it seems spanking was the only tool in his discipline toolbox, he'd fly into a rage over the smallest of things (and still does to this day), and would even threaten "stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about" spankings when the reason I was crying is because he'd just spanked me. In retrospect, I should have called the police and told them my address and said that my father was in a drunken rage (I have no proof he was actually drunk). So I wanted spankings to go away. Which they did. Then I started to realize how much more being grounded sucked. Still, I wouldn't have wanted to have been spanked by my father again. In a way, I use getting spanked as an adult as a way of healing from trauma. As for my other kink, there are lots of catalysts, but I dare say the strongest was the threastion "do you want to be put back in diapers?" that often followed a spanking for having an accident.
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