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I have learned that, with one of my girls, the assignment of an essay to be positively dreaded. Even just 3 pages. Michael

It will be sooner. Much sooner. Dad/Michael

I'd just like to thank you for honoring the intent of this post with your insights on self spanking. I'd also like to discourage the posting of simple criticism. While it is something that's difficult for me to grasp. I'm not going to summarily judge it invalid. What I'm looking for is understand. I would ask those who are quick to deem it misguided. Isn't that uncomfortably like the way the vanilla world sees us?

The following is part of my reply to another topic. I'm interested in this because the idea that anyone can spank themselves just doesn't compute for me. My sense was always that not being in control was a fundamental part the experience of being spanked. Though not the most important element, I think the not knowing how hard or how long the spanking will be, has a big effect on the intensity of the experience. Obviously, that uncertainty is lost if the spankee is the spanker. Add to that the act of sheer will required to spank yourself hard enough and long enough to be an effective punishment. It would take not only a lot of determination but a lot of concentration as well. If your using so much of your mental resources to carry out the spanking, how much is left to think of why your being punished? These are things I don't understand but I do know the person I describe in the following paragraph. I have always been baffled by self spanking. The idea that it works at all is hard for me to grasp but, I know it can. I know someone who gets real results from self spanking. She does need someone to assign the spanking first. She can't just decide on her own that she deserves one. It just doesn't work but, if her online mentor imposes it then it seems to have a genuine effect. These are not directed self spanking sessions either. She needs only that someone with authority, in her eyes, tell her to do it. Even if it's just an email. Then she is able to give herself spankings that are, to say the least, effective, and some would call extreme. She frequently cries during these. I also know she genuinely fears them. That is the part that is most incomprehensible to me. How can she fear something she is so much in control of? I don't pretend to have any answers here. I am naturally skeptical in that it doesn't fit comfortably into my psyche but, I have been witness to it. Not just once but, over many months. For her at least, self spanking can deliver the experience of a real punishment spanking. I will say though, she'll also tell you that it is not as effective as getting your spanking from someone else. For the punishments that she feels are most important, she does see someone. Michael

Yes I was. My father was career Air Force. We moved every two or three years. We lived as far north as Marquette Michigan and as far south as Shreveport Louisiana. I noticed that paddling varied by region. Generally, they seemed to paddle less hard and less often in the North. Harder and more often in the South. The middle part of the country was unpredictable. I also noticed the smaller schools paddled harder and more often than larger schools. You should note that I am 49 so we're talking about the late sixties through the seventies. A very different world. It's amazing what some people used to get away with. I had a shop teacher named Mr Chivellier. He would whip you with a two foot steel ruler. It would draw blood. I don't know how he got away with it. I guess just no one ever told. It never occurred to me to tell. Michael

The worst spankings I ever had were with Hot Wheels Track sections about 1968. I was about 8. Who else had that?

Nevermind the who is this. i'm accessing by cell and it dsplayed the text of the topic only. no other info.

Who is this?

I found her. This post is no longer of any use. Any moderator reading this should feel fre to delete it. Michael

Holy Crap!!!!! You have my sympathies Michael

Go with it! Michael

I think I would like my family to find them. I'm gone so no embarrassment for me and it would add a little bit to their understanding of who I was. I doubt anyone would reject me. They would find it curious; Maybe a bit disturbing for some but, a source of humor for others. It certainly might add to keeping your memory alive. Michael