secretman

I'll be lazy and just repost this:

I've been on this site a while, but just getting active. I'm in Ottawa and I've been into spanking all my life. Open/polyamorous in terms of relationships, though also into non-romantic relationships that are just mentoring/discipline too.

I'm mostly a top, though I switch. I prefer spanking younger women (over 18, of course) and getting spanked by older. I'm mainly into discipline spankings, helping to correct bad behaviour, help someone feel punished, cared for and forgiven. Other sorts of spanking stuff is fun as well, but that's sort of my main interest.

I'm open to all sorts of different relationships, either just spankings for fun, or discipline relationships, either giving or getting. I've had disciplinary relationships with a couple girls before - setting rules, consequences, giving them structure and motivation. I do have a partner, she knows about my kink and activities on here, and we're open to other relationships, but I try and be as upfront as I can about all that stuff.

So, if you're in or around Ottawa anywhere and you'd like to talk, I'd be curious to hear from you.