secretman

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I think every single person on this site has had that exact same thought at some point in their lives. I know I did, and so has just about everyone I've talked to. It wasn't true for them, and it's not true for you. You deserve to feel proud of yourself for being honest and acknowledging your needs, and to feel safe discussing them and exploring them as much as you want to.

I feel like catfishing is absolutely rife on here, unfortunately. It's hard to tell if it's a larger number of people or a small number of people coming back repeatedly, but in practice it doesn't really matter. I'm always extremely skeptical, doubly so when someone has an implausible story about their experiences. I know a few regulars in chat are just guys pretending to be young women for attention or some weird roleplay thing - you can probably pick them out yourself after hearing their "experiences". The only advice I can give is be careful, be skeptical, and don't commit to anything with anyone unless you've spoken face to face in a way that can't be faked, like live video chat. Sadly even voice calls are less than 100% reliable these days.