Do you differentiate between a "hard" spanking and a "severe" spanking? I do. To me, a hard spanking is where the ER is swinging as hard as they possibly can. I watch videos and clips, and when it's a female ER, it looks like it could be bone breaking, even on a muscular bottom. On the other hand, a severe spanking, at least in my mind, is one where the spanking goes on and on, long after the EE is desperate for it to end. The spanks are not delivered full force, necessarily, but there are many, many more of them. The EE is very likely to come up from a SEVERE spanking, doing the involuntary spanking dance, and holding their blazing bottom cheeks. I will take a severe spanking, anyday.