DanW

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I'm pretty attached to my hands.

This is a great answer. Thank you. Also, welcome to the site.

I want to thank everyone for the responses so far. Some of you have made me realize that maybe my question was too vague. For example, I had no inkling that some people would consider that hitting with a bat, financial restriction, derogatory name calling, such as "whore, etc" would be some people's idea of corporal punishment. I certainly don't mean to call anyone out, but I was really meaning more like traditional punishment implements like a cane, or methods, like I mentioned; like a mouthsoaping, etc. For example, I'd accept a punishment enema if a lady felt it was deserved, but if she thought she was going to whip me with a whip or put me in a dog cage, I'd be out. My apologies if I was unclear, either here or in my original question.

If you're in a DD relationship, or have a regular disciplinarian, what is a punishment that you would flatly refuse? Maybe you would balk at the cane, if you usually get the hand. Maybe a witness would be too much. Perhaps you refuse to stand in the corner. For me, it would probably be line writing. What is your line that cannot be crossed?

Very well said. This community is lucky to have you, and we need more people who think this way.

I'm going to be visiting New York the week after next, and I'm wondering if anyone has seen Lady Chloe. Would it be worth it for me to try to set something up with her? She seems to offer all of what I crave. Thanks for any advice.