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  1. Introducing myself

    Hi Jay, welcome! I hope you find someone to help. Travis
  2. A quick introduction

    What area of SC do you live in?
  3. Newbie here looking for friends

    Hey Cobalt! Welcome to spankingneeds! There are lots of wonderful people here. I hope you find what you are looking for here.
  4. Counting Swats

    I'm not crazy about counting when I'm on the receiving end, but for lengthy spankings I think that it helps me endure more. Counting can also keep me off guard. My first mistress did not always tell me that she expected me to keep a count, sometimes asking me mid-spanking how many licks had been given. And the rule was if I miscounted we would start over. She rarely told me ahead of time how many licks I was due either. We had a constant question and answer going on as well. This developed bonding and trust between us and to this day I find it hard to develop such a story bond with my spanker as I had with her.
  5. Hi

    Please feel free to share with us your concerns. I don't think that it's weird for you to feel this way! A disciplinarian might be very good for you. It's courageous of you to want to explore this. i hope you find what you are looking for.
  6. Enjoyment of punishment spankings

    The punishment does not begin until you want it to end! Having the spankee masturbate before the punishment is a great way to make that happen. Some disciplinarians administer a retention enema, AKA punishment enema, prior to spanking. Tears are not a requirement, but they are a good sign that the spankee is getting the message.
  7. New spanker.

    That's great, l am glad to hear that you are getting some good spankings! I hope the strap does you some good too. I've learned many lessons at the end of a strap and they tend to be memorable.
  8. New here East Tennessee

    Mike are you interested on disciplining older males?
  9. Disciplinarian in southeast Michigan

    Mike, It's admirable that you do this without compensation! It's also great to hear that your wife supports your efforts to help others in this way. I wish we didn't live so far away from each other. Travis
  10. Re-Intro

    Ms. Mary, It is good to see you back here as well. I have not been too active on here either. I like that you have a very strong, Christian orientation! Let me as you one thing. While I am currently married, my wife is not very religious and really does not bring much to the marriage either. So, I am tempted to leave her as she has mostly brought trouble to me and the rest of my family. If such were to occur, how would you recommend for a 60 year old man to start over in seeking a female led relationship? Thus is something that I feel more drawn to these days, but I have no idea how hard it might be these days to find such a partner. Travis
  11. What ever happened to Miss Laia Spanks?

    The last I saw of her she was a disciplinarian in New York City. But that has been a long time ago. You know she started out as a disciplinarian in Atlanta.
  12. Very New

    Welcome SnowFlake! I see you have already gotten some very good advice! This is a good place to learn about this thing we do and there are plenty of great people here to learn from.
  13. Spankologist and spanking therapist in Jeffersonville

    Joe, Thanks for introducing yourself! Good spankers are in short supply and your website certainly sounds like you take a practiced, ration approach to spanking.
  14. Novice f spankee looking for f spankers

    Welcome miniskirt_girl! It's generaly a very good group here, but precautions are always advised
  15. Spanking and anal play

    I have heard of that practice and would love to try it! An older lady introduced me to anal play years ago and she recommended that I find a disciplinarian to further explore that with. Sounds like a natural progression for a discipline relationship!