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  1. It has been a long time since I had a switching! But it will have the recipient dancing in no time and there is no way to forget a good switching! That is a very well written article.
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    Hi all - New Here

    Welcome to spankingneeds! It’s great to see spanking couples here. Do you normally discipline together?
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    South Carolina

    Greenville here! I would be more than happy to talk or chat most anytime.
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    Introducing myself

    Hi Jay, welcome! I hope you find someone to help. Travis
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    A quick introduction

    What area of SC do you live in?
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    Newbie here looking for friends

    Hey Cobalt! Welcome to spankingneeds! There are lots of wonderful people here. I hope you find what you are looking for here.
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    Counting Swats

    I'm not crazy about counting when I'm on the receiving end, but for lengthy spankings I think that it helps me endure more. Counting can also keep me off guard. My first mistress did not always tell me that she expected me to keep a count, sometimes asking me mid-spanking how many licks had been given. And the rule was if I miscounted we would start over. She rarely told me ahead of time how many licks I was due either. We had a constant question and answer going on as well. This developed bonding and trust between us and to this day I find it hard to develop such a story bond with my spanker as I had with her.
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    Please feel free to share with us your concerns. I don't think that it's weird for you to feel this way! A disciplinarian might be very good for you. It's courageous of you to want to explore this. i hope you find what you are looking for.
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    Enjoyment of punishment spankings

    The punishment does not begin until you want it to end! Having the spankee masturbate before the punishment is a great way to make that happen. Some disciplinarians administer a retention enema, AKA punishment enema, prior to spanking. Tears are not a requirement, but they are a good sign that the spankee is getting the message.
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    New spanker.

    That's great, l am glad to hear that you are getting some good spankings! I hope the strap does you some good too. I've learned many lessons at the end of a strap and they tend to be memorable.
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    New here East Tennessee

    Mike are you interested on disciplining older males?
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    Disciplinarian in southeast Michigan

    Mike, It's admirable that you do this without compensation! It's also great to hear that your wife supports your efforts to help others in this way. I wish we didn't live so far away from each other. Travis
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    Ms. Mary, It is good to see you back here as well. I have not been too active on here either. I like that you have a very strong, Christian orientation! Let me as you one thing. While I am currently married, my wife is not very religious and really does not bring much to the marriage either. So, I am tempted to leave her as she has mostly brought trouble to me and the rest of my family. If such were to occur, how would you recommend for a 60 year old man to start over in seeking a female led relationship? Thus is something that I feel more drawn to these days, but I have no idea how hard it might be these days to find such a partner. Travis
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    What ever happened to Miss Laia Spanks?

    The last I saw of her she was a disciplinarian in New York City. But that has been a long time ago. You know she started out as a disciplinarian in Atlanta.
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    Very New

    Welcome SnowFlake! I see you have already gotten some very good advice! This is a good place to learn about this thing we do and there are plenty of great people here to learn from.