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supermedic last won the day on July 23 2015

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About supermedic

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  • Birthday 04/08/1985

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  1. My Baby Russian Blue, is decked out in a Spring dress I found for her!!!
  2. I updated just fine. Sorry it isn't working for you
  3. Hi Everyone I am going to open up about a situation that has happened to me recently. I hope you can learn from my ignoring Red flags. As some of you know, my husband (who has left the site), is a very vanilla person. While he was initially open to the idea of spanking me, he no longer is. But he gave me his blessing and permission to find somebody who is, a mentor. This gentleman (from the board-- but I will not mention names, as that is not how I function), approached me in chat about a month ago wanting to talk. Said he saw my Intro and profile, and I sounded like I just needed a friend or something to talk to, he also mentioned that he was a Christian. (Red Flag # 1- Not the faith itself, but that he knew what I wanted to hear). Red Flag #2, He said he was married but going through a divorce. I should have known that is a line many use to get with somebody. So we talked for a little while and then exchanged Facebook info. Well it progressed from there to text and then phone calls. We had planned to meet this coming Friday for lunch..... Last night ( Monday) we talked on the phone, and he basically told me his wife wanted to get back- and she was coming around to the spanking thing. (i.e converted). And that he was dropping me.So we severed ties, in order to avoid temptation. (There was temptation on both parts). I fell for him. HARD. He was charming sweet, and a kind person. Best of all, we shared common faith connection. Now I have a shattered heart, I am broken and I don't know what to do. I know there were red flags, the ones above among others. But somehow my feelings for him clouded that judgement. I'm really hurt, distraught and confused. Will this go away? I am not seeing that light at the end of the tunnel. So I guess I am looking for that local mentor again. I hate this, I Talk about safety and red flags and somehow am unable to take my advice. I spent most of the night (and today) crying and just being very depressed. Unfortunately I turned to alcohol and now I feel not so great this morning. What can I do? What should I remember from here on out?
  4. Not feeling life today. UGH

  5. Hi Everyone I need your help... So I have tried to search, and not found much. Can anyone tell me what a reset spanking is? I know , it seems like it is stress relief with more intensity.? I was trying to , explain that I needed one- but am not sure how to explain it. Basically, it seems the pent up emotions, stress, frustration and such- I need a long ,, cathartic cry. Something to trigger a "reset" button in my mind, so that I can- be in a better headspace for correction/punishment the next time. Any thoughts? Ideas?
  6. Nope! I'm embracing it. No more secrets lol
  7. I am not sure who the author is, but I found this online. Very cool and gives you a lot to think about.. People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on. When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Author Unknown
  8. Yup... I unliked the page....... may remove my membership from the "CLOSED" groups....
  9. Turns out it was the Public COmmunity Page I liked... oops.
  10. OK So I had a (slightly) amusing thing happen today. I am a member of what I thought was a private group on Facebook, Domestic Discipline. Now- I posted a few things, namely my Aftercar bear and a few other things. APPARENTLY.. this group is not private. It showed up in my news feed for all my family, friends, and yes even church family to see... I want to panic, but I guess I can't do anything about it- so I just embrace it and move on. Whatcha gonna do? LOL.. I guess I don't have to live a secret life anymore I plan to use humor...
  11. OK So I had a (slightly) amusing thing happen today. I am a member of what I thought was a private group on Facebook, Domestic Discipline. Now- I posted a few things, namely my Aftercar bear and a few other things. APPARENTLY.. this group is not private. It showed up in my news feed for all my family, friends, and yes even church family to see... I want to panic, but I guess I can't do anything about it- so I just embrace it and move on. Whatcha gonna do? LOL.. I guess I don't have to live a secret life anymore I plan to use humor...
  12. Sooo I got to go to Build A Bear today and make a kitty../ bear. She is really cute, her name is Diva.....
  13. Absolutely right on, katekk. Everything comes down to love in the Christian life. (I am not intending to offend non Christians, but this is a Christian oriented thread). I absolutely think a way to show love is helping somebody overcome life's obstacles and failures. The job of an Er is to help. While they do get something out of it- they have their work cut out for them, especially in the beginning. It is a very loving sacrifice! At least , I know it is with my er.
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