Sadie

I am in my mid-30s and married to someone who is outside of the lifestyle. We have 9 cats who is very spoiled  I should also specify that I am straight and in a monogamous relationship with my husband who is not a part of this lifestyle. Because of this I can't be around the forum when he is around. This may mean that I have to leave a conversation abruptly. If that happens I will get back to you as soon as possible. I am not by nature a dismissive person, so please do not take it as such. Discretion is a must!

Sadeskid is my EE/daughter (ageplay). She and I have known each other for about 12 years. Since her profile states that any issues you have with her should be brought to my attention, I figured I'd also add that here. I have one other mentee/little, Replehsnatas.

I am not seeking other mentees at this time. Do not message me asking to be mentored or spanked by me at all.

My online name is Sadie (I will share my real name if and when the time comes) and I have been involved with spanking in different capacities for about 20 years. I am a very nurturing, compassionate woman in my mid-30s. I am a college graduate with a degree in education and a passion for helping young people, be it through academic help such as editing essays or giving advice.

Mutual respect is a must at all times! Going forward if you are disrespectful to me I will assume that I have permission to at minimum scold you for it. If this is not the case or I cannot at least contact the person who is able to hold you accountable then I expect you to NOT go there. I will in no way accept bratty misbehavior without being allowed to handle it.

Because this is a Spanking Needs forum, my assumption is that either I will be engaging in conversations about spanking or other things in life. Please do not confuse this for a willingness to base an entire friendship/conversation around spanking. It is important to note that I do not consider myself a "spanko" or to be "interested in spanking" -- I believe in spanking as a tool. There is a difference! If you are ONLY interested in talking about spanking or expect me to go into personal details of a spanking (either recounting one or a fantasy), then I am not the right friend for you. I believe in privacy and mutual trust. If I am not mentoring you then you don't need to know the specifics of how it goes down. If you would like to know more, please refer to my advertisement in the Marketplace. No information beyond what is in that ad will be given to those I speak with on a casual basis.

Certain punishments that may or may not be coupled with spanking are a trigger for me! At no time should you assume that it's okay to discuss a punishment other than spanking. If in doubt, ask! And if I ask you to stop talking about something, do! (Corner time is the only punishment I am aware is a trigger but that doesn't mean there aren't others.)

At my heart, I am a very nurturing and compassionate person who loves taking care of others, or being available to give advice and I am very friendly. I welcome PMs! My interests include music (mostly Christian and country), family television (like Bringing Up Bates or Pureflix movies),  Harry Potter, coffee, and cats.

In no way am I interested in the romantic or sexual aspect of spanking! Nor am I interested in any kind of relationship solely about spanking!

Please note that my role here is Spanker. I do not welcome PMs from people offering to spank me in any way, shape, or form!

If you have read and understand this profile, and consent to 100% nonsexual discussions, feel free to PM me! Please specifically state that you have fully read and understand my profile in the body of your (first) message! This includes approaching me in chat for the first time!