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About Tal

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  • Birthday February 24

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    58
  • Location
    Lansing, MI
  • Gender
    Female
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    Just Starting
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    Spanker

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  1. Hey you. It's going to be a lonely 14 days without you! Sigh. 

    What is poor Mama gonna do? She's gonna go into spanking withdrawal! 

    1. michgal.k

      michgal.k

      Guess you will just have to take one for the 'home team'😁

  2. Mama, michgal, starfish and I are so very blessed to have you in our lives. God bless you! 

    1. starfish

      starfish

      Agreed! 100%. I love you!!

    2. michgal.k

      michgal.k

      Oh  yeah, very blessed, me especially so....

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    3. Christy

      Christy

      I am happy that we are friends.

  3. PS - Keep putting lotion on even after the spanking. Using Arnica will help with bruising. DON'T do what I did one time. I'd been using BioFreeze on my back for years. It goes on cold then warms up. Well, when I had a mentor, she had given me a stress relief spanking. I asked, after the spanking, for her to put some BioFreeze on my bum. She said, Are you sure? And I said, Yes. She said, Are you really sure? I said, Yup. She said, Tal do you REALLY want me to do that? And I said, Yeah, go ahead, it will cool me down. She looked at me like I had 3 heads, shook her head in resignation and applied the BioFreeze. About 3 seconds later, I was hopping up and down uttering a few words that I don't use anymore. It was anguish. LOL To the EEs out there, not a good idea. To the ERs out there, be nice! 😆
  4. Hi Naomi, This is a big step for you. You may think that your spanker is in control but that is far from the truth. Spanking is a consenual act. You have total control over what happens to you. If things begin to go awry, stop the session. I'm not saying that anything bad will happen, but I just want you to be aware. As for the shower, I'd take one 30 minutes beforehand. Just so you are clean. Any sooner, and it will definitely enhance the pain you will feel. Personally, I would not suggest that since this is your first spanking. It will probably be intense enough. But I definitely would put lotion on your bottom. Tonight and tomorrow. It will help to keep the skin from breaking down. I wish you the best! Please let us know how it goes for you!
  5. Good morning, Mama. Just wanted to say that I love you! 

    1. michgal.k

      michgal.k

      We BOTH love our Mamacita!

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    2. Ms.Mary

      Ms.Mary

      Mama Loves her girls too. Good Morning sweeties❤️❤️❤️❤️

  6. Hey gf! It's been a long time. I hope you are doing well! 

    1. sweetpea

      sweetpea

      ((((Hugs)))) I am doing well. How are you?

    2. Tal

      Tal

      I'm doing well, thank you! I miss you! We have to figure out a way to get together sometime. 

  7. Hello Naomi, and welcome to the site. It sounds to me that you have fallen into what could be a very good thing, or something that could go badly. Not knowing really how close you two are and your personalities, it's hard to say. Assuming it would be a positive experience, you are blessed to have someone who you already know and trust. Many people desperate for their first spanking will go into a situation blind and end up getting hurt/injured. I'm sure you have read this on here but I will reiterate ... The biggest reason a platonic discipline spanking is done bare bottom is so that the spanker can keep a close watch on the skin condition. Personally, I would NEVER want to draw blood. For me, that is abuse. I would have the ee drop their pants and get into position - whatever position that would be. I would then take down the underwear. There are a lot of ERs who are into embarrassment. I believe that the act of submitting to a spanking, especially as an adult, is embarrassing enough. (I have been on that side of the paddle before.) If you and your friend decide to keep you clothed, please be careful of injury. Bruises are inevitable sometimes, but please don't go past that. Maybe go a little easy this first time. As far as you two not living together the pressure rests on your shoulders to be honest with him when you mess up. It isn't easy but it is essential. And that really depends on your inner moral compass. I hope this has addressed some of the issues and is of help. I wish you the best.
  8. If possible, I think the spanking should be given asap. Having said that, if I am angry, I will not spank so I would tell the ee to go sit on the bed until I have calmed down. Of course, if you're in public, a nice little whisper in their ear will give them something to think about for a while.
  9. When I was on the EE side of the paddle my mentor and her boyfriend came to visit me at my home for the weekend. One of the places I took them to eat was one of my favorite BBQ places named Corky's BBQ. It is a very famous BBQ place in Memphis, TN. I don't remember all the details but I'm sure I was being a bit on the bratty side thinking I was safe. I should have known better. When it came time to leave her boyfriend made a beeline out of the place. She grabbed me and spanked me all of the way out of the restaurant and through the parking lot. The next time I went to Corky's, I got some very interesting looks from the employees. The maitre d even winked at me. Very embarrassing! LOL 😮 🤣
  10. Stopping by to say HI. I've missed you. Hope things are good for you! 

    1. shygurl

      shygurl

      I've missed you too!!! Hopefully we can catch up soon!!

  11. Hey girlie girl ... Are you ready for an early birthday spanking? I know a couple of people who would looove to give you one! Just sayin'!

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    2. michgal.k

      michgal.k

      BRING IT!!!😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈

    3. Tal

      Tal

      The gauntlet has been thrown! 

      "We will, we will rock you!"  playing in the background. 

    4. michgal.k

      michgal.k

      Two against one!!! Not fair, but still up to the challenge! Figures it would take two of you to take on Michgal! 

  12. Woke up to a beautiful day! Got lots to accomplish but not going to put pressure on myself about it. Just relax and enjoy the process.

     

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    2. michgal.k
    3. gingerlee

      gingerlee

      That's what I struggle with the most. I try to tell myself to take one thing at a time but in the back of my head, I know all the other stuff that needs to get done. It becomes overwhelming and paralyzing. Unfortunately, knowing the problem doesn't fix it. 😕

    4. Ms.Mary

      Ms.Mary

      You are so right Gingerlee. But it sure helps when you take the steps toward fixing it. I am sure Becka helps you with that.

  13. When I feel like throwing in the towel, I give myself a break. Incidentally, I recently have done this with my weight loss goals. I am under some stress right now. Sometimes, life just gets in the way of things, you know? So, I'm allowing myself to "mess up" a little bit. I don't want to go hog wild, but I am trying to love myself where I am at. I will know when it is time to get back "on the wagon". And when it is time, I will be refreshed with a new optimism. Don't beat yourself up. Depression is a hard disease. I have had it my entire adult life and probably in childhood as well. It goes in cycles. One thing that I have learned to tell myself (something I have learned from past experience) is "This Too Shall Pass". It always does. Maybe not when I want it to, but it does. It stinks while you are in it but if you can sort of let go then it isn't quite as intense. Don't give up, just give it a rest and yourself a break.
  14. Shy, I know this is kind of lame. But, I know people who buy cinnamon tooth picks and chew on them when they get a craving. If you can't find them in the store, then soak some regular tooth picks in water with a LOT of cinnamon. I feel for ya, gf! Like geeky_child said, you can fall down 7 times, but get up 8. It is all a journey, my friend.
  15. I started out in group piano lessons at age 5. I remember rather vividly my teacher taking a boy into the bathroom and giving him pretty severe spanking. Although spankings had already begun to intrigue me by that point, there was nothing about this spanking that made me want to get one from her. In fact, I thought she was a mean person. I just didn't like her and was so glad when I got out of her class and went on to private lessons. I was even much more happy, elated really, when I quit piano in the 4th grade and started playing drums. Been playing drums ever since. I did write a spanko song one time. But it probably would not make sense without the music is why I don't post it. Or maybe I am lazy? Heck, it is 4am!
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