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Tal last won the day on October 18 2020

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  1. I don't know if this would help you or not, but I would not allow myself to be stripped of clothing. There is no need for that. Not for you and definitely not for your spanker. When I spank, I do have my man drop his pants. Then he lays across my lap with his undies on. I will then pull them down when I'm ready. This keeps him from exposing himself. I am a Christian and know that a spanking can be an intimate activity. I don't know how to tell you how not to be aroused. From my understanding, it is simply a physiological response. My advice is to pray about it. Obviously, I don't think that spanking is wrong. This lifestyle has helped, and does help, many people. But talk with the Lord. He already knows how you feel. It isn't news to Him.
  2. Busy day tomorrow!

  3. Thank you, Mama, for everything you do! You are so special and such a blessing in my life!  💜

  4. Good morning, Mama! 

    Hope you have a super awesome fantastic wonderful hump day!

    I love you bunches! 💜 

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    2. michgal.k



      "at times spank one of them more.".

      SORRY TAL! 

    3. michgal.k


      If love makes you want to spank me more then you're  LOVING ME TOO MUCH!!!


      LOVE ME LESS:behindsofa:

    4. Ms.Mary


      You wish it were Ral LOL

  5. One thing that hasn't been addressed yet is self spanking. I do see that as a last resort type of thing but it might help to serve as an outlet for your cravings. That can be done without involving her as long as you don't bruise yourself. You have received some good advice. Getting a really good therapist who is familiar with the spanking community is a good thing to do. But first you will have get your wife on board. I've heard of spouses writing a letter to the other spouse. Then, like some have stated, going back to her a second time might work. I wish you well. I wouldn't give up just yet.
  6. Hello and welcome to SN! You are definitely in the right place! I'm happy to hear that you are in a good place and have found the structure you need. I, too, live with the person who was my mentor. I call her "Mama" now. We are extremely close. I owe my life to her. Like you, I was in terrible shape when I came to live with her, emotionally and psychologically. There are some very special people on this site. But please be careful on here as you would anywhere else. Again, welcome! 😊
  7. Hey you. It's going to be a lonely 14 days without you! Sigh. 

    What is poor Mama gonna do? She's gonna go into spanking withdrawal! 

    1. michgal.k


      Guess you will just have to take one for the 'home team'😁

    2. michgal.k


      Hey Tal? Do I hear crickets chirping or is that chickens clucking? Hard to tell the difference sometimes. 

  8. Mama, michgal, starfish and I are so very blessed to have you in our lives. God bless you! 

    1. starfish


      Agreed! 100%. I love you!!

    2. Christy


      I am happy that we are friends.

  9. PS - Keep putting lotion on even after the spanking. Using Arnica will help with bruising. DON'T do what I did one time. I'd been using BioFreeze on my back for years. It goes on cold then warms up. Well, when I had a mentor, she had given me a stress relief spanking. I asked, after the spanking, for her to put some BioFreeze on my bum. She said, Are you sure? And I said, Yes. She said, Are you really sure? I said, Yup. She said, Tal do you REALLY want me to do that? And I said, Yeah, go ahead, it will cool me down. She looked at me like I had 3 heads, shook her head in resignation and applied the BioFreeze. About 3 seconds later, I was hopping up and down uttering a few words that I don't use anymore. It was anguish. LOL To the EEs out there, not a good idea. To the ERs out there, be nice! 😆
  10. Hi Naomi, This is a big step for you. You may think that your spanker is in control but that is far from the truth. Spanking is a consenual act. You have total control over what happens to you. If things begin to go awry, stop the session. I'm not saying that anything bad will happen, but I just want you to be aware. As for the shower, I'd take one 30 minutes beforehand. Just so you are clean. Any sooner, and it will definitely enhance the pain you will feel. Personally, I would not suggest that since this is your first spanking. It will probably be intense enough. But I definitely would put lotion on your bottom. Tonight and tomorrow. It will help to keep the skin from breaking down. I wish you the best! Please let us know how it goes for you!
  11. Good morning, Mama. Just wanted to say that I love you! 

    1. michgal.k


      We BOTH love our Mamacita!


    2. Ms.Mary


      Mama Loves her girls too. Good Morning sweeties❤️❤️❤️❤️

  12. Hey gf! It's been a long time. I hope you are doing well! 

    1. sweetpea


      ((((Hugs)))) I am doing well. How are you?

    2. Tal


      I'm doing well, thank you! I miss you! We have to figure out a way to get together sometime. 

  13. Hello Naomi, and welcome to the site. It sounds to me that you have fallen into what could be a very good thing, or something that could go badly. Not knowing really how close you two are and your personalities, it's hard to say. Assuming it would be a positive experience, you are blessed to have someone who you already know and trust. Many people desperate for their first spanking will go into a situation blind and end up getting hurt/injured. I'm sure you have read this on here but I will reiterate ... The biggest reason a platonic discipline spanking is done bare bottom is so that the spanker can keep a close watch on the skin condition. Personally, I would NEVER want to draw blood. For me, that is abuse. I would have the ee drop their pants and get into position - whatever position that would be. I would then take down the underwear. There are a lot of ERs who are into embarrassment. I believe that the act of submitting to a spanking, especially as an adult, is embarrassing enough. (I have been on that side of the paddle before.) If you and your friend decide to keep you clothed, please be careful of injury. Bruises are inevitable sometimes, but please don't go past that. Maybe go a little easy this first time. As far as you two not living together the pressure rests on your shoulders to be honest with him when you mess up. It isn't easy but it is essential. And that really depends on your inner moral compass. I hope this has addressed some of the issues and is of help. I wish you the best.
  14. If possible, I think the spanking should be given asap. Having said that, if I am angry, I will not spank so I would tell the ee to go sit on the bed until I have calmed down. Of course, if you're in public, a nice little whisper in their ear will give them something to think about for a while.
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