DaChief

Good question. I've been wondering about this myself.

I'll have to let some of the ee's comment on overcoming the nerves, however I will encourage you to review the Safety & Advice section on this site, if you haven't already done so. I'll also mention that I've been doing this for a lot of years, and I think I can safely speak for the majority of experienced er's when I say that we are well aware of nerves and how easy it is for an ee to get cold feet. I always have a Plan B when I go to meet an ee for the first time, because I know there's a good chance she won't show, especially if she's new to all of this. What I'm trying to say is that it's okay to be honest with us about it when you chat with us. As stated earlier, I'll let the ee's talk about how to overcome the deeper anxiety. My experience is more around managing that anxiety when it pops up again after the ee followed through and showed up. Best of luck. I really hope that these are the first steps towards bringing deeper fulfillment into your life.

@rubyredd I haven't forgotten about this. I had arranged to have a lot of work done on my house and the contractor moved the job up by 2 weeks without telling me first. This is pending, and I should be able to do this without it looking like a construction zone soon.

Does anyone know what happened? They went down about a month ago and never seemed to come back online.

Well, now here's a bucket list item. 😂 If the age difference isn't a problem, then drop me a note and we can figure things out. I can't host, but I can spring for a room. It'll be a couple of weeks before I can actually do anything, so we'll have time to set boundaries and what not, presuming you're interested.

Vanilla = non kinky.

I'm sure you can to, but I'll go generic so that others might enjoy it. 😉

I can do this. Haven't before but I'll post a link here when it's up. Want me to cater it to you, or generic?

Welcome. Please take some time to review the Safety & Advice section on this site, if you haven't already done so.

Works okay on my phone but it was painful to use from my PC.

I think I'm a rare bird. I smiled and felt right at home. It was like I'd finally found my tribe. I wasn't even nervous. I felt very comfortable.

I definitely have a fetish for coffee, although my friends and family keep calling it an "addiction issue." ☕ ☕ Whatever. Anyway, I suspect this wasn't the answer you were looking for. 😂

Never tried cactus leaves, but when something "different" is desired, a strip of wet rope can become deliciously evil.

I only have the slipper paddle.