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  1. confession time for me too................ my interest started at 15. I used to spy on my mother getting changed or in the bath. I know.... a terrible thing to do. I did feel guilty about it. one night i confessed to her and she just told me off. so my interest started from NOT being spanked. i felt i deserved it. my fantasy for many years was that she did get angry and took me upstairs and put me over her knee. it was only years later that i met my wife who was happy to spank me and still does. we do role play strict maternal spankings.
  2. hard to say. at first i do feel a bit silly. after all i am far too old for this. my wife and i often role play as strict mum and naughty boy. but then the stinging gets worse. then i feel a combination of self pity (why me?) guilt (i know i deserve this) apprehension (when is she going to stop?).
  3. excellent topic! I have felt this often. I know i deserve and need a spanking but as the minutes tick on and my wife is getting ready to give me it, I would love to run away.
  4. I have got close to crying. mainly when my wife has spanked me for a particular crime. I think it is the guilt that adds to the feelings. Possibly going back to childhood when i didnt get spanked and should have!
  5. Very interesting discussion. i have been spanked fairly regularly by my wife for 18 years. sometimes fun but mostly punishment. i certainly wouldn't say we have a HoH type relationship. outside the bedroom, i think we function like any "normal" marriage. we talk about changes, important stuff etc and agree what to do. sometimes she will joke about "dealing with me later" if we are having a discussion but its only banter. the real point here is that there is a real difference between reality and fantasy. fantasy is great but you still have to pay the bills.
  6. Love this topic. I have been spanked by my wife for many years and we often play "strict Mummy/naughty son". i find it adds something. i think its that element of guilt, being punished for something that you have actually done wrong. certainly the only times i have cried have been when she has been spanking me and telling me off .
  7. Best part is just towards the end! Normally I am in the zone, feeing like a naughty boy, sometimes in tears, all other thoughts/stresses are gone..
  8. Great topic...as a man who gets spanked by his wife regularly I have only really cried twice. Both were more to do with being in the right frame of mind, psychological rather than totally physical. Both came during particularly long sessions. I think it takes a while to really get into the mindset of being s naughty boy rather than a grown man ...
  9. Hard question...I think it helps if the spanking is actually in response to something, something that you really feel you deserve punishment...so confession/lecturing/corner time are all good but at the end of the day it's about time ...the longer the spanking and I can get into the mindset of being punished
  10. well said everyone...my wife has spanked me for over 15 years and is showing no sign of slowing down. normally twice a month i get time over her knee.
  11. very interesting topic....for me, the beginning and the end. the wait and anticipation while i am waiting for her to come into the room. the thoughts of what is about to happen. then afterwards, being held to her breasts and comforted. i am forgiven and its over.
  12. NO...it is not weird. i have been spanked by my wife for 15 years. it doesn't make me a lesser husband or mean that our marriage has changed at all. we are still the same people but she knows that it is something i crave and need and, luckily for me, is happy to oblige. i woudl only add one word of warning...be careful what you wish for!!
  13. interesting topic....i have only ever been spanked by females (i am male). i have fantasied about going over a man's lap but i am not sure i could really do it...strange really.
  14. very very much so....the dry periods make me want it. it starts as a small thought in my head and soon i cannot think of anything else..i only remember how it makes me feel and forget the painful part!
  15. i agree that counting is not for me. it takes away attention and also it means you can focus on the end of the spanking...ie "i can get through this...only another 6 to go"...much rather not knowing. it makes the spanking seem endless.
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