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  1. 🤣🤣🤣improper employee relationships happen EVERY WHERE. Not just the south!!!! It is definitely the norm. I feel like some people are imagining a porn show instead of normal human interaction. My boss doesn’t tie me up and beat me in the conference room. Her interaction with me at face value is no different than it’s ever been and no different than her other employees. She just happens to occasionally whip me as a kid would get whipped. We’re not role playing or playing out some other fantasy. however I am aware of MANY seriously inappropriate work relationships that happen ever day all over the US! Mostly if sexual nature. As a matter of fact I can not think of one place I e worked in the 4 states that I’ve lived (not all in the south!) that there was not at least one person who was openly sexually inappropriate. EVERYWHERE I’ve worked the boss has had “favorites” or people he seemed to get away with more than others. This is not an extreme thing we’re talking about here or anything that would/should feel like culture shock to anyone.
  2. Curious, what’s more common? The desire to spank or the desire to be spanked? Or is there a healthy balance? Which are you?
  3. Corner time is more embarrassing because your just there being punished on display. Being spanked I’m too focused on my bottom hurting to realize I’m embarrassed.
  4. I’ve never heard of the wheel barrel position. It seems like you would fall flat on your face. Does it work?
  5. I I am not spanked AT work. Always after hours outside of work. However with my group of coworkers, being swatted where one of them saw would not seem like an “oh no” moment. It’s generally accepted in the south. At a place I worked in the past where I would not have EVER let my boss spank me I did have two co-workers that had a similar dynamic. I don’t know if more sever spanking happened outside of work but at work once C told R to bend over. R complied and C smacked her with a ruler while myself and another friend were sitting in the office with them. They called each other “work besties” and neither of the other two of us cared because they were both clearly okay with it.
  6. So then why are you stuck on it, what is your need to reply? I was stating my opinions. If you agreed then why not responded with something like “yes exactly “ then we would likely have struck up a pleasant conversation. If I wanted to be attacked for my opinions I’d go post in a site where people are adamantly against corporal punishment.
  7. Thanks for psychoanalyzing me again though.😉
  8. We do tres carefully. There are no legal ramifications as it is never done on work time. And the “favorites” issue isn’t anymore any issue than in any other work place. Spanking did not really shift our relationship or how we interact. It’s just a different reprimand.
  9. There are no legal ramifications. I’m a consenting adult and have the same ability to consent to her as any other friend, stranger, etc.
  10. It’s interesting to me that when spanking comes up the biggest “no” you hear is about work. It’s hard for me to understand because I have a trusting relationship with my boss and she is the ONLY person that I consent to corporal punishment with as an adult. I know in many cases people describe their boss as a bitch/asshole and so having the ability to spank would definitely feel like an abuse of power. What if your boss was someone you liked and trusted. Would receiving the spanking for work related issues seem less opposing?
  11. I get spanked for work related reasons by my boss. It doesn’t take place at work (except once after hours when no one was there) it’s 100% consensual because she’s my friend and I trust her.
  12. Ive never gotten a spanking in the diaper position but I have heard of it. It seems embarrassing and I think would definitely add to the punishment.
  13. Ive never gotten a spanking in the diaper position but I have heard of it. It seems embarrassing and I think would definitely add to the punishment. Not only would you feel like a small child having to expose your butt in that way but your spanker sees your face and butt at the same time and you see the strikes as they are about to hit.
  14. My boss is my friend; she has a dominant personality and I’m submissive. Because she has real authority over me it made sense that we just clicked. She has always been allowed to reprimand me as her job; she reprimands me and all of my coworkers. I’m just the only one she spanks as reprimand (I think, I’m pretty sure) but because our connection is what it is it just became a natural progression in our friendship. I do not get spanked in a sexual way. I get my butt whipped same as a kid.
  15. My spanker is my boss. She wasn’t always my spanker but she was always my boss. She was always dominant and I was always submissive and we developed a friendship because she is someone I also trust and respect. She has always disciplined me for normal work reasons in normal boss ways but over the years our friendship grew, became more trusting and she spanked me one day out of reflex and natural response. I also responded naturally, it didn’t even seem out of place. I guess it was just sort of the gateway, afterwards when reprimand was threatened, the possibility of a spanking was always a plausible option.
  16. Yes! I gave myself a mind reset spanking a couple weeks ago. I was kind of obsessing over a situation where I felt slighted but I was holding on to it and doing really bratty things to kind of jab back. It was unhealthy and I was in constant tension; I couldn’t relax. I finally grabbed the spatula when I had the opportunity alone and gave myself a MUCH needed spanking! I felt instant relief and slept better that night. The bruises I left were a reminder the rest of the week to handle my emotions more maturely so I definitely think it was a lesson well learned.
  17. I would definitely think of severe as a worse spanking than hard. If my spanker told me I was going to get a “hard spanking” I might expect to get a few smacks that were very persuasive. If she told me my spanking would be severe I would expect to be in for a long unpleasant punishment that I’d feel the effects of for days.
  18. A sting feels more like punishment to me. I’m not sure if I can give explanation that supports it logically. I think the sting leave more of the burning sensation that’s typical of spanking while a thud just leaves bruises. It thud seems more like being punched by a man (again I’m not sure if there’s logic behind my perception) smaller paddles and paddles with holes leave a sting like a belt or a switch.
  19. This definitely sounds like a medical issue. There could be something more serious going on preventing the healing process. I still have some bruises from a spanking this weekend and am often a slow healer. But I expect they’ll be gone within weeks at best.
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