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  1. If only more people were like you two and agreed to differ on matters where they have diverging opinions! Social media full of ill-tempered posts from people who are sure that they are 100% right about everything and refuse to tolerate other opinions. It is nice to see people debating like adults.
  2. I agree. When I am across my girlfriend's knee, I feel a great sense of release. I don't have to make excuses or justify myself, I have been naughty and now I am being punished by having my bottom soundly smacked.
  3. With me it is an expression of romantic love. When I am across my partner's knee, I feel a strong sense of intimacy. And when we are in company and she swats me on the seat of my pants as a punishment for some minor offense or simply because she feels like doing it, I am always glad that it is HER hand that is smacking my bottom.
  4. It's certainly like that with me. After a hard paddling I can sit down if I absolutely have to, but I prefer not to. I usually find lying down is no problem though, because the weight of the body is then distributed and not all concentrated on the bottom.
  5. I am sure I am not the only one who is looking forward to reading your account. It seems to quite often happen that a man reveals his interest in spanking to his wife or girlfriend, she finds it surprising at first, but soon finds that she enjoys spanking him, perhaps because of the power it gives her.
  6. I agree too. I like it when a woman wears something sexy, but when my partner disciplines me I find it better when she is fully dressed and I am in my underpants.
  7. Indeed. I think the most important thing is not what a woman uses when she disciplines her partner - her hand, a hairbrush, a paddle or whatever - but the part of his body on which she disciplines him. When my girlfriend gives me a few warning swats in front of other people, the slight stinging I feel is only a minor factor. More important is my embarrassment at being disciplined on my BOTTOM!
  8. I have been thinking about your points 2 and 3. It is the same with me, spanking is not just about the sting but also the psychological effects: shame and embarrassment at having my bottom spanked and the thought that my partner is able to discipline me using just her hand.
  9. An interesting post. Point 4) reminds me of a comment that I came across on the Disciplinary Wives Club website. (The woman who ran it, under the pseudonym Aunt Kay, is sadly no longer with us, but her website is still there to inspire future generations of female spankers and male spankees.) The comment was: "I never realized until recently how many women felt like me, or indeed how many men appreciate the warmth of the female hand (or worse) on their bare behind. A big part of it I think is that, while being chastised, part of the man returns to the love, safety and security of childhood, but this time with his sexy, loving wife keeping him on a sensible path." I think this comment is very true. I do not actually think of my girlfriend as my mother, but in a sense I do return to the security of childhood when I am across her knee having my bottom spanked.
  10. I think both have their place. I find it very intimate when I feel my girlfriend's bare hand impacting on my bare bottom, usually with us both nude. Spanking with an implement is not so intimate, but it is a powerful experience when she brings the paddle down again and again as hard as she can, making my bottom sting intensely. I then feel a stong sense of submission to her.
  11. Thanks for the advice. I have thought about asking her directly, but she has not been in good health recently, so I didn't think it a good idea. She seems to be gradually getting better now, so in a few months time I might try it.
  12. A very good point. My partner sometimes spanks me as discipline, but it is not a regular thing. I often wonder what it would be like to be in a full DD relationship and I have hinted to her that I am open to the idea, but like you say, she should make the ultimate decision on my discipline.
  13. Glad you agree with me! I also wear cotton blend underwear, I didn't know that they retain heat longer than other materials as I never wear anything else.
  14. That sounds very effective! Spanking him on the seat of his underpants, which he cannot then take off because he has to go to work, means that the heat is retained. My partner sometimes spanks me when I wearing tight-fitting briefs, and it is always a relief when they come down and I feel the cool air on my bottom. Your husband was a very silly boy, provoking you like that!
  15. My partner is not nearly as strict as you. If I make a sarcastic remark, she usually just gives me a few swats on the seat of my pants. I guess your husband is careful to avoid making sarcastic comments. I know I would be, if I got a hard paddling on my bare bottom every time!
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