I'm new to the world of spanking, I discovered it a while back while exploring adult videos.
I always found the spanking videos excited me a lot, especially when it was a real spanking video and not just a video with a little bit of spanking in it.
I recently tried for the first time to reveal my desires to spank a women to a close female friend after she told me I could tell her anything... Her reaction was anything but supportive and I won't be trying that again with her. Just to be clear, I didn't hurt her.
Anyway, I realize now that if I am to explore this world I will need to find like minded individuals.
So I figured I could make a post explaining who I am and what I'd like to, eventually, try.
I'm a 34/M/CT I'm willing to travel to any of the nearby states. I'm trying to find a female within a pretty large age window, who's a Spankee or a switch.
I'd be willing to go at whatever speed the Spankee desired. My own personal fantasy is to punish a women for being bad.
I want to instruct she has messed up, and needs to be punished. I'd send her to the room and order her to undress. She would get a couple warm up hand spanks on her bare ass, to get her ready. I'd have her get on the bed on her back and place my opened belt under her back. She would then lift her knees up to her chest and place her arms between her legs and fold them up. I would tighten the belt around her back, under her knees and it would serve to hold her limbs in place. Then I would proceed to get the instruments and show them to her one by one, and ask her to choose which one she wanted. Once she has picked I would tell her this is for her own good and proceed to spank her until she is thoroughly sorry, and begging for it to stop. Once at this stage I would say okay, it's almost over but to make sure you learn your lesson we will do 5 more with the cane, and then rapidly and with full force cane her ass. Afterwards I would untie her and tell her she did good, and all is forgiven. I'd hold her in my arms and gently rub her head and back.
Anyway, that's the basic idea, like I said it'd be a more advanced thing and it's mostly just an unrealized fantasy at this point. I'd love to chat with any women interested in exploring this world with me.