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johnsk

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  1. Hi deb, I am a retired guy in central NY, about your age, in central NY, an hour NE of Syracuse. definitely interested in becoming friends and meeting you.
  2. I would lean toward privacy and anonimity. People do not really talk about what goes on in their bedrooms. It is deeply personal and most would think impolite and inappropriate. Besides you and your partners, whose business is it? Nobody's !
  3. I wonder how common serious discipline spankings are in adult marriages and relationships? And of these how many are male spankers as opposed to female spankers. I have also wondered if erotic and disciplinary spankings can exist side by side within the same relationship? I mean to say if spankings are usually fun erotic ones, how does one turn it into something totally different your partner will not enjoy at all and wish to avoid?
  4. Best foreplay ever imagined is a spanking.
  5. I have often had the thought that spanking is more intimate than sex. Why do I think so? So many spankos hold back in telling their spouses or significant others what they want and need is spanking. Fear of ridicule, or of being thought of as perverted? I think if the first time you open up about it to a partner, if you are ridiculed, it will be way harder the next time with a different partner. We are normal and when goes on in our intimate relationships is our business, nobody else's.
  6. For how many spanked me is spanking just the beginning of full blown fem domme, in the bedroom and outside of it? Or is spanking just an entity in and of itself unrelated to other elements of Fem Domme?
  7. Interesting story. I would say you have become too attached to your spanking partner. Let it be what it is and don't try to develop it beyond spanking.
  8. I can definitely identify with most of what you say. Since it is not at all sexual, then you can be spanked by either gender, I assume? If you need it to come from the opposite gender, then it is not entirely non sexual, although nothing sexual may be happening at all from for during your spankings, maybe it is just on a subtle sunconscious level?
  9. I can definitely identify with most of what you say. Since it is not at all sexual, then you can be spanked by either gender, I assume? If you need it to come from the opposite gender, then it is not entirely non sexual, although nothing sexual may be happening at all from for during your spankings, maybe it is just on a subtle sunconscious level?
  10. Retired man here in central NY, love to find a strong female spanker within an hour or two of distance. I am an hour from Syracuse or Utica. Wlliing to switch if that helps. Drop me a line if interested. Wishing everybody a great weekend.
  11. A number of males are spanked by their wives/girlfriends. Mainly consensual I believe. Is spanking an important part of fem Domme relationships? I mean the serious domination that happens when the female has the man locked in a chastity device and controls all aspects of the relationship. Or, do the two things have absolutely nothing to do with each other?
  12. Is most of your spanking activity funishment or punishment?
  13. Is spanking the beginning of your taking control, or is it the final step, after locking your man in chastity, requiring shaved genital area, requiring him to wear panties, etc? Or, is spanking him something you do as a stand alone thing, with no discussion or action relating to the other areas mentioned?
  14. I recall reading online years ago on an F/m site. I have never forgotten it and once tried it with partner and it's very much true. Before a serious discipline spanking is given, the spankee is made to cum/orgasm either privately or with assistance. THEN and only then the spanking is given: hard, bare and immediately. With absolutely no arousal or erotic element to take the edge off the pain, it is very painful and unpleasant for the spankee. Good deterrent for very bad behavior spanker wants to modify. Believe me, this is not your average fun/play/erotic spanking. This is not for everybody or something to be taken ;lightly but for some, it may be useful.
  15. If your partner loves being spanked, how do you punish a spanko? Maybe with hold spanking or use an alternate punishment? Other ideas?
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