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  1. Yes and no? It's not that different than any other aspect of acting for the screen - performers will have a script, there will be some discussion between the director and the talent regarding a host of subjects, from level of nudity to what sort of implements the bottom is willing to take. As far as reactions go, they're not so much fake as motivated - some performers can cry on command, some need to be in the headspace, and some, I imagine, didn't realize the limits of their pain tolerance until half an hour into the shoot and are determined to soldier through to the end. Spanking videos can feature committed lifestylers, hardcore BDSM players looking to make something more accessible, or adult entertainers who don't like to do penetrative sex scenes.
  2. HI, Cody, welcome to the group.
  3. Evidently, it's a long-handled stirring implement intended for thick sauces or stews. It looks kind of like a shoehorn.
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    This is pretty much a test bed, actual images to follow!
  5. Your girlfriend is lucky... as another member here with a non-spanko partner, there's a lot of back-and-forth necessary to keep a relationship going once kink is out and in the open. What I've learned from talking with other spankos is that most kinksters have their own fantasies and preferences - be that particular scenes or trigger phrases, to how immersive you want to be in the lifestyle, or what role sex has in your spanking/discipline. I imagine that since you didn't come of age in this zeitgeist, she figures it would be too frustrating or compromising to have to bring you in - but it's a poor excuse that says more about her inability to communicate (or compromise) her needs than any ability of yours to address them.
  6. Ooh, I've seen the trailer for this one. If I remember, Melanie Lynsky's character is a historical tour guide with a penchant for dropping-bombs, so I'm assuming that this is a haunted house's resident spirits trying to break of the habit in the custom of her day. The real question, of course, is if the filmmakers were aware of the fetish appeal when they put this in...
  7. Detroit Pete hit the nail on the head here... I was trying to reconcile the fact that most of the erotica I enjoy involves uncertain consent (Which seems to be a trend here), but that's why. The spankee's desperate thinking "Did I want/need/ask for this" tends to be the central conflict in the stories I read.
  8. Music for corner time sounds like an idea... but as for the act itself, I'm not sure. A song can help set the beat (pun intended), but playing music during a spanking sounds about as effective as playing music while vacuuming, it's too noisy to hear it.
  9. I've heard the expression, but not outside of Regency dramas. It might just be an anachronism, but yeah - given how the term is used in vanilla conversation, I can see how "bully" might have fallen out of favour among the Safe, Sane and Consensual crowd as well.
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