Hello, and thank you for your reply! Like you, I wonder if spankophilia (if that's a word?) isn't more mainstream than I imagine it to be. It's just not a subject that seems appropriate to talk about...at least not at my book club meetings.
I have always been fascinated by the idea of being spanked. For the purposes of enjoyment and ease of understanding, I have framed it as a sexual kink. However, after exploring this site and others, I am starting to view my interest in spanking as a larger and more complex need/desire.
I am in the process of sorting out all the emotional and psy