Spankingmyhuby

Well I will respond to your topic, but I have a question ❓ Do you have a designated time she is required to be in bed,has this created a problem as far as you are concerned? MS L.

What a lovely post. I consider myself both a wife and mommy when my husband is across my knee. The over knee position has been called the mommy position. My husband has told me he feels secure when I am spanking him but his thought process changes as his bottom starts to sting unbearably. When I announce he has earned a spanking,I expect him to address me as mommy. I feel any husband who needs his wife to spank him should do so.But to each his own . I hope your girlfriend continues to spank you across her knee and will consider giving you a weekly maintenance spankings,it has worked wonders in discipling and controlling my husband urges to be spanked. MS L.

For various reasons underpants. First the childish submission and possession for the spankee.When giving a over the knee spanking its total control for the spanker and total embarrassment for the spankee. My husband feels very childish wailing away and whimpering while being over my knee getting his just desserts. Also there is a special bonding between a couple that is quite memorable using this position. Also the spankee has to hear the scolding from the spanker, being in close proximity.Most of the spankings I administer are across my knee,with me sitting on my chair. MS L.

Thank you so much for your recommendation about the tawse. Many years ago my girlfriend let me try her tawse and I liked the results. Why I haven't followed thru I don't know,I have mostly paddles. You are so right after last Saturdays I had a incident about him watching TV ( march madness basketball) and delaying his chores . Yes he deserves purchasing a strap and needs it. I will bring the subject up while I am giving him his weekly spanking today. MS L.

Well I am quite fond of my chair and you prefer the end of a bed. That being said we both agree that the over the knee position is the best way to administer a spanking. Whether it be to my husband for me or for the deserving men that you discipline. MS L.

Most of the spankings I give my husband are across my knee and the chair is a constant reminder of our marriage and who is in charge. Shaming is very important. Your wife could give you both over the knee and over the sofa. It's interesting I have never actually purchased a leather strap, but that is subject to change. MS L

For naughty spankees intentionally wanting a spanking. I have increased the severity of my maintenance spankings for my husband each Sunday. No more bratting. Fewer spankings is the result, however last Saturday he was a brat, but did not intentionally provoke a disciplinary session. Hope you have decreased bratting,it is unacceptable behavior. MS L.

It would be nice if you got your chair fixed. I prefer a chair and it gives me good leverage, when myself and husband have our little discussion. MS L.

Well when we were dating I found his publications on spanking and petticoat punishment. So yes I discarded his male briefs when we were dating and I have expected him to wear women's panties ever since. MS L.

I have a special chair that I use specifically for administering a spanking. It symbolic of our wife controlled marriage and a constant reminder to my husband that he is spanked. It's a wooden armless chair and sits right next to the TV in the living room. So it is a constant reminder to my husband. When I give a punishment spanking I say the following "Go get Mommy chair! You have earned a spanking." Bring the ( Whatever paddle) place the paddle on the chair. "Strip down to your panties and stand in the corner. Nose to the wall." Calling my husband out of the corner I will scold as he stands in front of me. Turning him over my knee his legs don't touch the floor and gives him room to kick his legs. Also gives me a inviting target to administer a good spanking. Every Saturday night I tell my husband what instrument I am going to use and have it placed on the chair waiting for me on Sunday morning. For his weekly maintenance spanking. Also he sits on this chair after he is spanked for his line writing on Sunday's. Does anyone else have a specific chair for spanking? MS L.

It's very encouraging that your wife is sharing your interest in spanking. I also decided that I would be willing to share with my boyfriend now husband his interest in spanking when we were dating. I had one advantage that your wife doesn't and I knew another woman who was a part-time dom ,who showed me how to give a proper spanking. It would be nice if your wife had someone to show her. That being said I am sure she will get better and you will get what you need. Good luck! MS L.

No you absolutely did not come across intrusive. I have procrasnated lately about how we got started and our motel experiences, it was a good question. I need to write a little more often . MS L.

Well I was living in a rented condo and my future husband was living in these motels. I agreed to move in with him and I quit my job and he told me that I would never have to work. So we decided that living in these motels would be a part-time situation and we could save some money before we got married.But it lasted longer than a anticipated. I have plenty of spanking stories over a 7 month period. I should write about them. We have been married over 20 years but the motel memories are something me or my husband will not forget. MS L.

It's good to hear that your wife holds you responsible for your actions and I do the same with my husband. The wooden school paddle I used on my husband is quite louder than a hairbrush and the results was a husband not enjoying his spanking,which was evident to the near by rooms. I little embarrassment along with a spanking is good for my husband ,when he deserves discipline. MS L.

Well before we were married I moved in with my future husband ln these motel rooms. So I followed a long not entirely happy with the situation. It was his idea to live in these motel rooms, so I was determined to get my point across, through reddening his behind about living in these motels. It didn't bother me that other people knew and yes he was very embarrassed, but he shouldn't have put himself in a position to earn his spankings from me . MS L.

At the motel that we were paying by the week I am sure that management had a good idea that spanking was going on. Because people staying there complained about the noise. When we were living at another motel , security came and I answered the door holding a paddle. So there was no doubt that the security guard knew who was giving and who was receiving. We then requested a corner room because we did live there for awhile before we were married. My husband to be received many a spanking from me , I was not happy about living there. MS L.

Shortly before we were married l lived with my boyfriend now husband in a few motels and hotels. Also a year after we were married we lived in motels. Back then I use wait with my wooden school in hand for him quite frequently. When he came home from work I welcome him with a hard spanking ,him bending over with his head trapped between my thighs. The sound of the paddle was quite loud when I was spanking him. Well we lived in this one motel and paid by the week. My husband went to pay for the week and they would not accept our money and had to leave. We also had other instances where security came to the door and told us to keep it down. Yes I still spank my husband when we stay in hotels with my hand and paddle/ hairbrush with success but I leave the big paddles home. MS L.

I prefer using a paddle - hairbrush of oak. It's 10 inches long and 3/4 " thick and delivers a very nice sting , with very little effort. It's quite handy it fits in my purse and it's quite convenient when I need to use over the knee correction. MS L.

Hi I Am Ms L , wife,Hoh, and disciplinarian to my husband. We have been in a happy wife controlled marriage for 18 years. I make all of the decisions and rules in our marriage. I am hoping that other wives and girlfriends take control of their marriages and relationships. Also in the very least make your man accountable for his actions,if you are not into totally controlling him . I found out early when we dated that we consensually both wanted a wife controlled marriage. My husband had quite a collection on books and videos on the subject of women spanking men . Also I now this is probably not of interest to many women reading this but my husband was into petticoat punishment .I trained him with the help of my girlfriend and yes he regularly spanked and I do make my husband wear panties 24/7. Their are some men like my Husband who have never grown up and need a firm wife hand for guidance. My husband was searching more for a mommy than a wife. When I met my husband he needed me to hold him accountable for his bad addictions and behavior. I totally accepted this role along with putting structure in his life that really needed. Well this all being said their are still obstacles in our marriage. Living with a spanko husband can sometimes be complicated. Spanking my husband 2.