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  1. My favorite part in particular is when my wife takes my pants down while scolding me and then turns me over her knee. Things get incredibly real at that moment. My bottom is in position, my pants and underwear are at my knees and the thought registers: This. Is. Happening. And then comes the first resonant SMACK! on my right cheek as my wife begins taking the hairbrush to me.


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  2. My wife is adept at incorporating this form of discipline as a humbling prelude to the main event. She orders me to fetch the hairbrush and then scolds me sharply while she takes my pants down for an old-fashioned spanking over her knee. By the time she lets me off her lap, I am a penitent naughty boy who often receives corner time afterward with my blushing bare bottom on display for M’Lady’s enjoyment. (?l?)


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  3. On 6/29/2021 at 9:52 PM, josef336 said:

    I believe it to 'be any different' because pegging is more of a power exchange dynamic than solely a sex act between a man and a woman.   But thanks for the feedback.

    That is the case in my marriage. My wife has often spanked and occasionally pegged me since before we got married over 25 years ago. Early on, I knew that she would not be satisfied with just turning me over her knee. After a spanking, most anything can happen including pegging. My wife long ago found a locus of control between my spread cheeks and loves to take me from behind. The power exchange is like nothing else although for me, getting spanked is always going to be #1. 

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  4. On 7/16/2021 at 2:00 AM, Chawsee said:

    Full nudity has no place in my spanking repertoire. I don't want my EEs fully nude, nor would I ever tolerate an ER requesting this of me in the rare instance that I might bottom for someone. It's a hard limit that I won't budge on, for a few reasons.

    I have come to agree that not every spanking needs to be on the bare. I tease that I wouldn't "sign my name" to a spanking done over clothing, but I've administered three over the past eight months that were done over underwear, and for the reasons given at the time, this was the respectful thing to do. But if a spanking is going to be given on the bare, as most are, and I have my druthers about it, I won't start over clothes. The jeans and undies come down right from the start. However, if an EE asked me to start over his pants and/or underwear, I would certainly honor that. 

    What a fellow wears really isn't that important to me, as long as he shows up dressed... and wearing MALE clothing. :lol:

    “The jeans and undies come down right from the start.“ My wife would call those words to live by! I’ve been ordered by M’Lady  to strip for a spanking when she wants to make a special point of humiliating me. Otherwise, she typically takes my pants and underwear down while scolding me and then turns me over her knee for a healthy dose of the hairbrush. That is her preferred method unless she chooses to make me take my pants down for her. Either way, the rule is always the same: when I misbehave, my pants will come down.  



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  5. The first time, my future wife gave me a traditional OTK hand spanking. We quickly graduated to the hairbrush and that remains her implement of choice all these years later. When it pleases her (or is deemed necessary), a paddle with holes drilled in it is utilized to memorable effect. I have gotten a good tanning with my own belt on occasion as well. 


  6. 3 hours ago, Spankingmyhuby said:

    Most definitely what I do with my husband before a spanking over my knee. As a wife and spanker I feel my husband should not receive sexual gratification from a punishment. By relieving him self I make sure he does not enjoy his spanking. Any accident over my knee will result in anal correction that he detests and will result in myself taking my authority a step further. Any spanking he has earned must be a event where he is obedient to me his wife.    Ms L

    Your authority is supreme, Ms. L, and a formidable power for any husband to face. This is the new wave of Domestic Discipline in action and my wife and I have fully participated for many years. Your approach represents a fundamental shift in marital dynamics, it seems to me. Good for you! As I am known to say, claim your power, ladies! The revolution begins with a beautiful empowerment of each awakened woman and the terms of surrender are soon established over her knee. 

    As for accidents, maybe I’m just fortunate enough to not have them despite the fact that my penis is trapped snugly between my wife’s thighs every time she spanks me OTK. It certainly could be much worse for my bare bottom if it did happen. Perhaps your response of “anal correction” works very well for you as a deterrent in that regard. Actually, I would love to know more about that particular item. ?

    Love and Respect,


  7. On 11/11/2019 at 10:43 PM, WhiteBear said:

    I can't really think of any spanking references in songs, but I am quite familiar with spanking to music. And the beat goes on...

    Spanking to music is great! Do you have a personal playlist or else a favorite genre that typically accompanies a spanking? 

  8. 1 hour ago, Summer said:

    Thanks! It is definitely a thrill. I snuck a few “innocent” spanking comments in after we’d been talking about our relationship for a while and wow did he run with it. We rarely have a conversation now in which spanking doesn’t get talked about. Can’t wait for our relationship to move beyond long distance. 

    You two are well on your way! ?

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  9. 13 hours ago, Summer said:

    My guy I’m in a long distance relationship with knows about my interest in spanking and my need for him to be HOH. Only man I’ve ever felt safe enough to share that part of me with. Obviously not female led like most of the other comments in this thread have been as I’ll be following rather than leading, but I’m thrilled with that. 

    I wish you great success, Summer. It is a thrill, isn’t it? ?

  10. 18 minutes ago, Spankingmyhuby said:

    Yes Gary after giving him my undivided attention . I called my dominant girlfriend and the training and rules followed. Before we were married we already both knew what our marriage life would be like. To find that material was the defining moment in our lives. That might be a good topic under writings. My reaction and his embarrassed response.        Ms L

    I for one look forward very much to reading all about it! Behavior modification is a great blessing to both partners in a Wife-Led Marriage. I like to think that I am a better man for all the quality time I have spent over my wife’s knee. Her oft-repeated rule is, “If you are going to act up, I’m going to take your pants down.” 



  11. On 3/31/2021 at 8:48 PM, Spankingmyhuby said:

    I think more spankees are ashamed of their interest. I think it is even harder for a man. When I found my boyfriend now husband stash of spanking material it open up a new whole light in our relationship.

    That was the glorious day your husband’s life was changed for the better. What a blessing! ?

  12. A confident no-nonsense lady knows that the best way to handle her man is by being consistently strict with him. For many if not most of us guys have a devilishly naughty boy that lives and lurks within. We are endlessly capable of all manner of mischief. What we need therefore (and often crave) is old-fashioned discipline. Doesn’t it seem natural then that wives should bring a suitable attitude into the contract of matrimony? Empowered women make wonderful wives in any case, it’s true. In my own marriage, however, the unsurpassed virtue of domestic discipline as vigorously applied to my bare bottom with a hairbrush has proved to be a force multiplier in M’Lady’s rule of our household. To those who may be contemplating such a relationship commitment, I recommend this philosophy and suggest that you practice it wholeheartedly. Take firm control of your man, all you strong and lovely ladies! Once you make a habit of taking his pants down, thus letting him know who is Boss, a blessed revolution begins under your roof. As I see it, the road to marital harmony starts over your knee. 


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  13. 1 hour ago, Spankingmyhuby said:

    Well your problem is a little different than most here at the forum . You have not had the desire to be spanked until recently. I knew about my husband desire to be spanked before we were married. I have handled that and my husband is a spanked by me on a regular basis and we have been married a little longer than you. I personally feel self spanking is not the answer . Have you considered going to a professional lady to warm your bottom or do you feel that would be cheating. Maybe a good spanking from a professional would get the idea of receiving one leave your head. You are torturing yourself and the desire is going to get stronger. I was mostly spanking my husband 5 to 6 times a month and after 18 years of marriage I found out he needs more of my undivided attention. I wish their were more wives who would spank their husbands and give them what they need. Spanking my husband is good for our marriage,hopefully your wife will reconsider her naughty husband needs and put you across her knee.              Ms L

    As usual, a beautiful statement of power and purpose, Ms. L. With remarkable clarity, you see through to the essence of the male psyche, at least as is the case with millions of us naughty boys. For at heart, that is exactly what we are. More wives would do a lot to improve their marriages by taking their husband’s pants down and turning him over their knee for a solid old-fashioned spanking on a regular basis. In my view, these wonderful strict women would be doing themselves and society at large a big favor. And don’t spare the hairbrush, ladies! Tan him good and maybe even add some corner time afterward so you can admire your handiwork with his blazing bottom on display. (?l?)


  14. On 4/30/2021 at 5:07 PM, Shameless said:

    My dream disciplinarian would be a female in her 60s-70s, with a no-nonsense attitude and a determination to light up my rear end whenever she felt it necessary!

    Yes! Well said. You also are describing the essential disciplinary wife. Actually, the no-nonsense approach and determination to turn me over her knee whenever she sees fit beautifully characterize my marriage. When I am getting on my wife’s nerves, sometimes all it takes to snap me back in line is for her to look at me with a raised eyebrow and ask, “Am I going to have to take your pants down, young man?” At other times, it takes a bit more. 


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  15. 1 hour ago, Spankingmyhuby said:

     Myself and my husband agreed on a wife controlled marriage. We have a marriage where the rules were consensually agreed on. We have been both happily married and my husband wanted a wife who would take charge. It has worked for us but both parties must agree and we do love and care for each  other. I would be willing to bet that their are many men who are not being spanked are not happy, my husband does not have that problem.                Ms L 

    Every guy I have met (dozens over the last 10 years) who gets spanked by his wife or girlfriend would not go back to a time in their life when that was not occurring. If anything, they want much more of it. I could do with more quality time over my wife’s knee myself tbh. 


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  16. 1 hour ago, Spankingmyhuby said:

    What are we going to do with you boys.? Yes I mean boys. Gary you boys will never learn so we must treat you like juvenile over knees. My husband was totally embarrassed showing off his red tomato bottom to these young ladies. Also for the record if he would have misbehaved after his paddling I would have turned him over my knee and given him a hand spanking in front of them. I am sure the ladies would not have objected.    Ms L

    I have no doubt whatsoever that those ladies would have been delighted to witness his additional correction on the spot. Or should I say, sit spot? ?


  17. On 5/4/2021 at 6:48 PM, Spankingmyhuby said:

    We were living in a motel before and a little after we were married. We were going to the pool and I make him wear his speedos as usual. The pool was not very crowded,but their were these two young ladies who were in their early 20's ,old enough to be his daughters. My husband was laying on his stomach on a chair looking at these girls and ignoring me. Well I got so mad and slapped him hard on his speedo suit and bottom. I then grabbed him by the ear and asked the ladies to watch our chairs and our towels etc. They obviously knew he was glaring at them. Making a long story short I took him back to the motel room and proceeded to give him a spanking over my knee with a small wooden paddle . I told him in no uncertain terms that he was to apologize to the young ladies.Well he did apologize and their was no hiding the spanking l gave him. The girls giggled and one said" my you gave him a spanking." Well he sat at the pool the rest of day learning a lesson and seeing what it is liked to have someone glaring at him. I recommend all women not to tolerate this kind behavior and put your boyfriend or husband across your knee. Ms L

    Ogling is at the top of the list of reasons why my wife turns me over her knee. Most of that especially poor behavior has been spanked out of me with a hairbrush but I will always be a recovering ogler. 

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  18. 10 hours ago, Redwombutt said:

    I have been in that position a number of times when my wife got annoyed at something I did or said. She quite openly says something along the lines of the following remarks;

    "Watch it or you'll know what you'd be getting"

    "I can find a paddle to use if you'd like"

    "You'll be getting a paddling when we get home"

    "Your bottom will be spanked later...your bare bottom"

    "Keep it up and your pants will be down and the paddle will be in my hand"

    She's not that open all the time, but when annoyed, the words come out and I look for a hole to hide in and go quite red in the face.

    Thanks very much for sharing those comments. My reaction would be much the same! My wife gives me The Look ? when I am getting into trouble. Words unspoken still speak loudly. 

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  19. 12 hours ago, Chawsee said:

    Never have I been privy to this kind of discussion between spouses in public. I've been friends with only one FLR couple outside of the forum here, and because they were from a small rural community where everyone knows everyone else and a family's reputation is a matter of honor, protecting this part of their lives was crucial. My former husband and I were an erotic switch couple, but we, too, never disclosed our spanking lifestyle to anyone else, just as we wouldn't discuss our sex life with them. 

    It's an entertaining story, though, @GaryMcKee, which I found enjoyable to read. :) I can imagine your disappointment when they weren't hired. It sounds like they might have been interesting and enjoyable coworkers. And with something so unique in common, there's a good possibility that the friendship may have extended beyond the workplace. 

    Amen, Chawsee! My thoughts precisely. They reside in my If Only file forever, as it were. The pity of it all is that they were extremely well qualified. We blundered by not welcoming them to our team of professionals. Funny how unprofessional some so-called “pros” can be. I think of that couple often and hope they are living a great life together. Many thanks for your comments. ♥️



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  20. 15 hours ago, Rand E said:

    My wife and I are a cooperative DD switch couple, so I realize we are not like the traditional DD or FLR relationship.  We do have an iron-clad serious rule that we never ever disrespect one another or be indiscreet about our personal business in front of others.

    Admittedly, I have never personally encountered the sort of interaction you described, but it would be troubling to see the dom in the relationship, man or woman, disrespect, humiliate, or embarrass their sub, especially a spouse, in front of me or in a non-private setting. 

    Man, I can't begin to tell you how much trouble my wife would be in if she threatened me with a spanking in public.  She wouldn't be able to sit down comfortably for at least a week.  And vice-versa for that matter. 

    To each his own, I guess.  Maybe mutual respect is overrated, but it's just the way I'm wired.



    Very well said, Rand E. I like your approach a lot. Mutual respect, especially in public or in front of others, is the way to go. Thanks for sharing your healthy perspective!


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  21. 16 hours ago, Megthe said:

    Hubbs and I make comments.like this to each other in public.  My mom was in the back seat one time ajd i tokd him "you arent the only one who can pull this car over ya know!".  Honestly, it is part of our daily banter.  We used similar language prior to actually being in a spanking relationship.  As a matter of fact, "playful" threats of violence (I'm going to punch you in the throat) is very normal.in my family.  Not so much his family lol itnis amazing he didn't go rubning for the hills

    He did go out to their car to “find something” which I interpreted as taking a few minutes to calm himself. He was flushed in the face. 

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