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18 hours ago, countspankulot said:
Unfortunately, I don't have good news to report. After being adamant about spanking me on Tuesdays for letting go of an easy money making opportunity, the first Tuesday came and went without a spanking. She told me that it's not happening today, but "it IS going to happen."
That was a week and a half ago, and all the strict talk has disappeared as well. I guess she down shifted on her perspective.
You may be surprised before long. Wives don’t forget, ever. I am optimistic for you!
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On 1/23/2022 at 10:27 AM, countspankulot said:
I did try this. We both talked about memorable spankings she gave me in the past and how it made us both feel. While they were great conversation, not much seemed to change. But lately, my wife has started to become much stricter and plans on giving me a punishment spanking in a couple of days (and every Tuesday) due to commitment I let go that is costing us money.
We'll see how it goes and whether she keeps up with this promise, but it really does seem like her attitude and commitment to spanking has changed. I think part of it has to do with her being less stressed over a family situation.
Thanks again for the suggestion and the support from everyone. I'll keep you updated.
Tom
I am very happy to learn of this positive shift in your wife’s perspective, Tom. Excellent! Yes, please keep us apprised. 🙌🏼
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Most times, my wife takes my pants down and turns me over her knee. I am told to strip occasionally when the lady of the house decides that I need an additional degree of humiliation.
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It is impossible for me to explain why, but I so love for my wife to take my pants down, turn me over her knee and spank my ass cherry red with a hairbrush.
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My wife prefers to make sure the reasons for disciplining me are clearly understood before and especially after the spanking, while I am still over her knee. Corner time or other punishments may follow. It is entirely up to her. Sex after a disciplinary spanking would never happen.
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On 10/25/2021 at 8:39 PM, countspankulot said:
Love the picture. Can't say I've seen that one before. Who is the artist?
I wish that I knew. They should receive credit. Glad you enjoy it!
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23 hours ago, CoupleOhio44646 said:
Married couple M/F 46/46. Just starting to explore spanking and other power exchange in our relationship.
Stark County, Ohio
Welcome to you both! I certainly hope you enjoy your new adventure. Please keep us posted! ?
Gary
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Long ago, my wife told me her goal for our marriage, psychologically speaking, was to train me to think of myself as perpetually turned over her knee with my pants down. For both of us, it is a cherished state of mind. To be sure, her goal has been achieved. Naturally, I would love to have actual spankings happen more often. A lot more often, actually. Nevertheless, I am grateful whenever it happens.
Gary
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On 10/1/2021 at 12:33 AM, nicoleS39 said:
Nope....no challenges here...if it has to be done, it has to be,done...lol.
My wife has the same attitude. She loves to humiliate me sexually so this fits right in, you might say. I’ve spent a lot of time over her knee with my pants down. My butt cheeks are right there, so why not? I’ll go for that every damn time.
Gary
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I married a naturally dominant woman over 20 years ago and her authority remains firmly intact all these years later. I knew exactly what was up before we ever said “I do.” When we were still dating, my future wife had told me while looking me squarely in the eye that I could expect to be turned over her knee whenever she felt the need to do so. That has been House Rule #1 ever since. Nowadays, M’Lady will bring me up short with a provocative question: “Do I need to take your pants down, young man?” She is “er” and I am “ee” and we both know it. It’s amazing how much serious trouble has been avoided in our life together by way of her determination to discipline me when I need it.
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11 minutes ago, GaryMcKee said:
I’ve thought this over and I think the best approach is two-fold. First, talk to your wife about all the wonderful memories you have of being spanked by her. Go into detail. Recall as many spankings as you can. This will impress your wife. Tell her how much you love her for spanking you and how often your last thought at night is of being turned over her knee. Second, let your wife know that you are trying hard to be a good boy for her. Ask, “Is that good enough? I want to please you and I definitely DON’T want to displease you.” In essence, you are a naughty boy who is trying to be good for her but unfortunately, you lack discipline. The dynamic between you will shift in the direction you desire. I wish you great success! ?
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2 minutes ago, GaryMcKee said:
I’ve thought this over and I think the best approach is two-fold. First, talk to your wife about all the wonderful memories you have of being spanked by her. Go into detail. Recall as many spankings as you can. This will impress your wife. Tell her how much you love her for spanking you and how often your last thought at night is of being turned over her knee. Second, let your wife know that you are trying hard to be a good boy for her. Ask, “Is that good enough? I want to please you and I definitely DON’T want to displease you.” In essence, you are a naughty boy who is trying to be good for her but unfortunately, you lack discipline. The dynamic between you will shift in the direction you desire. I wish you great success! ?
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16 hours ago, Chawsee said:
Thank you for trusting us with this, Tom. Perhaps @GaryMcKee would be willing to share with us some of his communication tips for discussing this challenging subject with a loved one?
I’ve thought this over and I think the best approach is two-fold. First, talk to your wife about all the wonderful memories you have of being spanked by her. Go into detail. Recall as many spankings as you can. This will impress your wife. Tell her how much you love her for spanking you and how often your last thought at night is of being turned over her knee. Second, let your wife know that you trying hard to be a good boy for her. Ask, “Is that good enough? I want to please you and I definitely DON’T want to displease you.” In essence, you are a naughty boy who is trying to be good for her but unfortunately, you lack discipline. The dynamic between you will shift in the direction you desire. I wish you great success! ?
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4 hours ago, Chawsee said:
Keep us updated, Gary. You have a way of inspiring others.
Wow, that means so much to me, Chawsee! I’m very grateful to you. ❤️
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Is there a mainstream movie with an erotic scene in which a woman spanks a man over her knee? I’d love to see that, especially a wife spanking her husband. Wow, that would be great!
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14 hours ago, Chawsee said:
Gary, thank you for your kind words, sweet friend. I am proud of you for talking with your wife openly about your needs. Even the most in-tuned disciplinarians benefit from hearing what you need, and hearing it from you. I call this "going deep" or having a "heart-to-heart." Did you feel more bonded with her afterwards? Such honesty tend to have that affect. Consider yourself blessed that you have this strength. Good work! ⭐
It would be fair to say that we bonded a bit more closely for having had that conversation. We do need to work on it some more. Altogether, I am very happy to have a wife who disciplines me over her knee. Will we get back to the times when she would abruptly end an argument by telling me to fetch her hairbrush and while I’m at it, bring a chair into the living room? I sure hope so! Step by step leads to steady progress. I’m doing my part, I can tell you that much!
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On 9/2/2021 at 9:24 AM, Marcus7272 said:
Did you ever get a spanking because you didn't want to get your temperature taken Rectally
No, because it is understood in our marriage that my wife essentially owns my butt and can take my temperature anytime she chooses. When I’m still over her knee after a spanking, she enjoys adding to my humiliation by spreading my cheeks anyway so why not go the distance with a thermometer and a dab of lube? I wish she would do it more often.
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11 hours ago, Chawsee said:
Hi Guys,
How is everyone? Are you having a challenge you'd like to talk about? A question, maybe? Comments? Please chime in and share with us an update. Male spankees are a special class of men, and I'd like to hear how each of you is doing.
Kindly,
Chawsee
Hi, Chawsee
I trust that you are well and happy. I love your strict yet loving energy. You are a first-class lady! As for me, I’m talking with my wife lately about returning to regular maintenance spankings. I mentioned to her respectfully that I feel that I am not spending enough time over her knee. I miss it. She appreciated my forthright sharing and promised to give the subject some serious thought. I’m grateful to my wife for saying that. I’m a much better behaved man when I am held accountable by her regularly in that old-fashioned way.
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Sitting must be rather difficult for you by now. Count your blessings along with the strokes, for you are a very fortunate man.
Gary
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My wife texts me at work. In the morning. “Don’t make any plans for after work, young man. I’m going to turn you over my knee.” Damn. I mean, DAMN.
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On 6/14/2021 at 3:16 PM, Shameless said:
Not at all! For me, the embarrassment of stripping and complying with my Er’s orders is a primary component of a punishment session. I also prefer the added embarrassment of being sent to a corner of the room after.
Brother, you are speaking pure poetry. I feel a swooning thrill of humiliation every time my wife takes my pants down while scolding me like a naughty boy. Then she turns me over her knee and blisters me good with a hairbrush. Corner time too if she is in the mood to extend my ignominy.
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On 6/14/2021 at 3:16 PM, Shameless said:
Not at all! For me, the embarrassment of stripping and complying with my Er’s orders is a primary component of a punishment session. I also prefer the added embarrassment of being sent to a corner of the room after.
Brother, you are speaking pure poetry. I feel a swooning thrill of humiliation every time my wife takes my pants down while scolding me like a naughty boy. Then she turns me over her knee and blisters me good with a hairbrush. Corner time too if she is in the mood to extend my ignominy.
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My wife has shaped my way of viewing the larger world of men and women and how our own relationship would work ever since the night she told me I could expect to be turned over her knee anytime I got too far out of line with her. It was said to me as simply and unemotionally as could be, only minutes after she had spanked me for the first time. She had told me to take my pants down and get over her knee as she sat in a straight-backed ? and before long, I was checking in with her almost daily to see if she was pleased with my attempted improvements. I absolutely wanted this lady to myself forever. My future wife was characteristically very direct. “You haven’t been spanked enough yet. You are being a good boy because you were just spanked the other night. Let’s see how long the lesson takes to really sink in.” The “lessons” have been learned and relearned for the past 25+ years. My wife has not spanked the naughty boy completely out of me yet but my formerly proud male ego has been cut down to size, that’s for sure. Many pants-down discussions, conducted by M’Lady with increased virtuosity over the years and mostly over her knee, have made it so.
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You are the envy of many men already, buddy! Now comes the intensification phase of your discipline. Say goodbye to feeling strange and hello to the new normal. In my view, your experience represents a progression from playful to purposeful spanking. A consequent time of enhanced marital harmony is likely. However difficult it may be for you to sit down after a good spanking, you probably will never regret all the quality time spent over your wife’s knee or anything to do with being held accountable via her application of domestic discipline. No guarantees, of course. My betting money is on your mutual happiness nevertheless! Enjoy it all. Countless guys would gladly take your place.
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If I wasn’t already married to a lady who shares your philosophy, I would definitely be a strong believer after reading your comments, Ms. L. Beautifully said! 😍