[How are your maintenance spankings arranged or set up.]

2 hours ago, Bspankly said:

My close friend gave my wife the following advice before my wedding. " Every once in a while you should smack him. I doesn't matter why or when, he will still deserve it."

She has quoted this several times over the years.

Does your wife ever quote this while taking your pants down? If she doesn’t, you could. 😈

[How are your maintenance spankings arranged or set up.]

On 7/4/2023 at 4:13 PM, Submissive Danny said:

My wife gives me a maintenance spanking once a week. It takes place on a Friday after she gets home from work. I am required to be ready which mean being naked and standing in the corner waiting for her to come home. I never know exactly what time she will get home but it's usually between 3 or 4 o'clock.

Congratulations on your consistency! You are the envy of me and millions of other guys. And does your strict wife turn you over her knee and take a hairbrush to your bare bottom? 🪑🔥(🔴l🔴) 😈👍🏼

[Welcome Underhercommand]

13 hours ago, underhercommand said:

Thank you for the welcome note. Looking forward to some interesting discussions on Female led relationships with like minded people. 

I think you will like it here. I’m a Spanked Husband myself. Welcome! 👍🏼

[Domestic discipline given to husbands!]

On 6/10/2023 at 7:27 PM, Spankingmyhuby said:

Myself and my husband read another site each week. The discussion awhile back talked about domestic discipline. It was stated that domestic discipline couples where the wife is in control there is 150,000 ? Of those not all women choose to spank,but like myself you have to believe the majority do. Sure almost all husbands ask for discipline in a domestic discipline marriage. 

Question to our members . Are there 150,000 couples in North America participating in domestic discipline of the husband? 

I know it has worked well in our marriage.

MS L.

 

I would be numbered among the 150,000 husbands, happily married to a lady who will not hesitate to take my pants down and turn me over her knee for another date with her hairbrush. I believe that 150,000 is a conservative estimate, by the way. 

[Vacation Spankings]

23 hours ago, Spankingmyhuby said:

Well I hope your wife is keeping you in line Gary.I wish she would incorporate a quarterly review of your behavior, like I have done with my husband.

MS L.

I imagine my wife could get behind that. And behind me. 

[Vacation Spankings]

49 minutes ago, Spankingmyhuby said:

Yes Gary you are absolutely right. My closer girlfriends like to tease my husband and over the years have also participated,a little sisterhood comrodery.

MS L.

You must be on incredibly intimate terms with your husband’s butt. That just occurred to me! 😈

[Vacation Spankings]

On 6/3/2023 at 6:18 PM, Submissive Danny said:

One time while at the mall I was acting up and she took me to the family bathroom and proceeded to spank me. When she finished and I pulled my pants up she walked out first and I was following behind her and a couple of couples were outside the door and the woman clapped knowing I was spanked by my wife. I was so humiliated but learned my lesson.

That story is a boner waiting to happen, my friend. Thanks so much for sharing it with us. I’ve gotten spanked in the family bathroom a few times myself. The women clapping was an extra humiliation for you. I admire your wife for handling you so strictly. And I certainly like her style! 😈

[Vacation Spankings]

On 5/26/2023 at 2:57 AM, Spankingmyhuby said:

Those type of sexiest remarks are not permitted in our marriage. My husband has been on the receiving end ,when I feel his remarks toward other women,my girlfriend or myself are inappropriate. There is nothing more humbling for my husband then when he is spanked for bad behavior or statements that are sexiest in my girlfriends presence,(who know about our lifestyle).

Good to see that your wife will not tolerate your statements about other women. A spanking and tampons, which had to be very humiliating for you,is very deserving.

MS L.

 

 

Those girlfriends of yours must LOVE it when you take your husband’s pants and underwear down in front of them. 😈

[Do you take your implements on vacation?]

11 hours ago, Chawsee said:

We always appreciate your upbeat approach to these scenarios, Gary. 

You honor me, Chawsee. 🥰

[Do you take your implements on vacation?]

On 5/11/2023 at 4:53 PM, Golferralph said:

I was wondering the same thing going on a 3 week cross country trip and I was wanting to bring a couple of items for spanking wife says no the people in motel rooms next to us would turn us in for abuse. I just not sure what to do. I like my (I am the spankee) weekly maintenance spankings.

Where there is a will, there is a way and a where. You and your wonderful wife can do this! Have a great time. 😈

[Out in the Country: A Favorite Fantasy]

When my wife and I take road trips and drive along rural roads, sometimes a handsome woodshed stands sternly like a sentinel behind a family farmhouse. When we spot one, she reminds me how much she wishes we lived out in the country where there is fresh air, lots of room and one of those beauties, freshly painted a bright red. M’Lady tells me how much she loves the idea of taking me to the woodshed where I would be required to take my pants down and bend over for an old-fashioned strapping on my bare bottom. Truth be told, I’ve long desired that experience myself. I know what some of you are thinking. Be careful what you ask for, right? (🔴l🔴)🔥😈

[Temperature taking etc.]

On 8/17/2022 at 4:11 AM, spanking lady said:

A rectal temp should always be included, it's so embarrassing to be bare bottomed for the one about to get spanked, especially a otk paddling

My wife never fails to spread my cheeks after a hairbrush spanking over her knee. She takes my temperature rectally when she feels the desire to intensify my humiliation. I know when it’s going to happen because she places a jar of Vaseline and the thermometer on a lamp table beside the chair in which I am going to be spanked. 🪑

[When was your last spanking session (ee or er) and who gave it to you?]

1 hour ago, DisobedientHuby said:

Like I suspected I got paddled this morning.  It sure hurt but I am afraid it was not long enough.   Of course I was begging for it to be over too soon 

Understood, brother! 😎

[When was your last spanking session (ee or er) and who gave it to you?]

1 hour ago, DisobedientHuby said:

I'm due another one probably will happen today for wandering away from her in Sam's Club over the weekend .  She was pissed and when she caught up with me. I got the look and the lecture and while she did not come out and directly say it she made it clear when we got in the car that when she is in the mood.  She plans on giving me a hard paddling for it. 

I am much the same way. My main issue (though a lot less so now than back when we were first living together) is my tendency to ogle lovely female bottoms. Over the years, most of that particular inappropriate behavior has been spanked out of me. There was a time though when my wife carried a wooden hairbrush in her purse wherever we went. She kept her eye out for places like family rest rooms, etc. in public areas where she could discreetly turn me over her knee and take the wood to my bare bottom if my wandering gaze warranted it. No time like the present was her motto. I have painfully learned to respect her a lot more over the years. I’m still not immune to temptation however, I have to admit. 

[When was your last spanking session (ee or er) and who gave it to you?]

3 hours ago, DisobedientHuby said:

It's been a week now.  My wife spanked me for raising my voice to respond to her. 

I feel ya, bro. I’ve had my pants taken down for the same reason more than a few times in 26 years of marriage. (🔴l🔴)

["Spanking" The Word]

Context is important between my wife and I. She will threaten to tan my hide, redden my cheeks or spank my bare bottom. Then spontaneously, she will tell me how much she loves to see my butt spread apart. All those words and phrases get worked into the dialog eventually. And questions are great for getting one’s attention. “Do I need to take your pants down, young man?” Gets me every time; so humiliating yet thrilling at the same time. 😈🔥👍🏼 

[Hotel spankings]

15 hours ago, Zhal said:

I have been spanked in a hotel once, my spanker had a suite, and she spanked me in the bedroom, with the door closed. The living room had the TV on.

Many years ago, a girlfriend had enough of my little fit of road rage on a vacation. When we checked into a motel for the night, she told me off good and then ordered me to take my pants and underwear down and bend over the bed. I did as she commanded and had my own belt used on me to very memorable effect. I was a good boy the rest of the trip.  

[Any active church members here? Ministers? Deacons? Worship leaders? Sunday school teachers? Church secretaries?]

I had a paid employee of my church tell me that I would look good bent over her kitchen table with a butt plug up my ass. I was very flattered but said my wife would never agree to that. 

[What Should a Woman Wear While Spanking a Man?]

On 9/29/2022 at 2:51 PM, Larry61 said:

Wife is full dressed in normal every day clothes. I’m naked

Sounds good to me. The power dynamic is established from the beginning. Excellent! 😉

[Spanking :Hand vs implement]

On 10/18/2022 at 2:59 AM, Spankingmyhuby said:

When I administer a spanking to my husband I do hand spank and use a implement. Which do you prefer being a spanker ? Spankees which do you prefer hand spanked or a implement used to spank you ? Myself and my husband definitely have a preference. What is your preference?

MS L.

Nice 👍🏼 topic, MS L. My wife takes a hairbrush to me every time she spanks me. She may use her hand to “get me glowing” but my bare bottom inevitably gets a good tanning with help from her little wicked wooden wonder. 😈

[OTK or Bent Over?]

OTK for the hairbrush and bent over for the paddle or belt. 

[Spankees, how do you sit after?]

When it happens (which has not been that often) I have to sit bare-bottomed on a pillow at the dinner table to prolong my humiliation. All that was missing was a dinner party! A guy can dream, I suppose. 😈

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[After My Wife Spanks Me]

My wife loves to take my pants down and spank me OTK. Then she doubles down on my humiliation. She spreads my cheeks once the spanking is over and she has set down the hairbrush. After a dab of lube, she inserts her middle finger up my ass as far as it will go. Up to my prostate. All the while, I remain turned over my wife’s knee. (🔴l🔴) 

[Does spanking really improve behavior?]

A chair 🪑 and a hairbrush in the hand of a strict wife as I am turned over her knee, my pants having been taken down as she scolded me to initiate the sacred rite of my humiliation. This is the essence of my sexuality and the basis of my male identity. It is who I am.