jelena53

My ex spanker loved to take my rectal temp and for years did it daily. I have found many spanker are sort of anal too.

Thank you for this post. Most interesting- You asked - " How important to you is scolding? Do you have a favorite phrase (to use or hear) For me scolding is part of the submission-- For me it was standing in front of my spanker (husband while married) naked from the waist down, with no covering up allowed and being told what I had done wrong. And the word that use to drive me crazy was the word NAUGHTY. Have you been a NAUGHTY GIRL, OR you are a NAUGHTY GIRL. OR Being asked what happens to NAUGHTY LITTLE GIRLS WHO DID....... Also me the scene of the scoldin

I did not like waiting for a spanking at all. (was spanked by husband while married) of had to wait until children were asleep. I dread it. The anticipation and worry was- it was going to hurt like hell. And I was going to bawl like a baby. But after it was over it was over and I felt very loved.

I would say the combination of rubbing their bottom plus sitting down gingerly-- very slow and cautiously