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  1. Hi welcome, I'm a switch myself, not many of us UK guys here, enjoy your time here
  2. I've never been caught but like you had a few close calls, I did go for a massage a day often one self spanking session and the marks could still be seen, my masseuse was very complimentary of my handiwork and slapped my bottom when she wanted me to turn over.
  3. Again beautifully written, looking forward to part 3
  4. Beautifully written
  5. This is an interesting topic and I have enjoyed following the discussion. I can relate easily to this as my interest began long before I even knew about terminology and labelling. I too have experienced what can only be described as hostility ( not on this site I add) at my label as a Switch from it has to be said females. There seems to be many that think that you will try to get, encourage or require that they spank you in return, which is not what it's about. I get a lot of enjoyment out of both aspects of our kink, both giving and receiving spankings but I rarely mix the two in one session, unless that has been agreed and discussed before hand. In short I respect my partners views and stance on the topic but it still isn't good enough for some 100% ee's, which s extremely frustrating. On the plus side, my having been spanked myself has undoubtedly contributed to making me a more understanding spanker and that is the truth.
  6. I try to have a regular monthly massage to ease an old neck injury, not as often as I like or need as a result of Covid. Of late I have been getting the same therapist a very skilled masseuse in her early forties, she has complimented me on my butt on several occasions and has taken to giving it a slap when she wants me to turn over, might just be my imagination but the slaps seem to be getting harder
  7. I'm glad it's not just me experiencing this, painfully slow, keeps freezing, when you refresh to try to clear the problem you just can't get back in. Very frustrating mid chat :(
  8. Hello Karen and welcome, good to hear that you have a regular partner, feel free to chat
  9. I can understand how your experiences must have impacted on life, it must have made for a difficult time in your life, isn't it strange how two people can approach the task in so very different a way?
  10. I think you get that on pretty much most forums tbh, someone will always try to push their view, that human nature for some
  11. Exactly how I intend to proceed, thanks for your comment
  12. Thank you to those that have commented, I'm not suggesting that everyone on here isn't polite far from it, that's why this persons response so shocked me. I did try to stay engaged in a polite way but was ignored, I will just put this down to a bad experience and as some have suggested simply move on, I won't be blocking this person though as that's not in my nature, perhaps as has been suggested I might have inadvertently triggered a bad memory, I'm just going to learn from it. I do agree about the many plusses of the site and community and I am glad to have found it, perhaps I was a little over sensitive, apologies if it came over negatively.
  13. Hi All, I joined this site to interact with others interested in all aspects of CP. It's hard enough finding others to discuss in a non judgemental way, why we have developed an interest/ need to be disciplined. in general I have been met with warmth and support from most people that I chat and interact with. That ended this morning when I engaged in chat with a lady in the chat room. Ive always believed in honesty and never pass judgement on others likes or dislikes, I'm always polite. So when asked about my first ever experience of receiving a spanking I related it honestly as it happened. the response from this person was brief. " pathetic liars-bye". what I would like to know is what right does this person have to abjectly write off a singular event that has had a profound impact on me as a human being. An event that has helped shape me into the person I am with the need to be disciplined in a manner similar to that first ever spanking that I received. how dare she simply write off that experience in the manner that she did. I had expected better off this site, I had expected support and understanding and meaningful discussion. I did not get it off this person. to everyone who has helped me explore this experience and share their own, I say thank you. rant over and I hope You all enjoy your experiences on here, I'm not sure that I will. I am on other spanking and BDSM sites where politeness and understanding still exists.
  14. The best thing I ever did was visit a lady spanker at the suggestion of a female friend, nothing beats the rush of being taken nude over a strong willed woman's knee.
  15. I enjoy spreading too and having my anus inspected, I've also experienced a figging, memorable.
  16. Not in the least, I expect she received a very sore bottom later that night
  17. Jeffd


    Beautifully presented bottom
  18. I would agree a traditional rattan cane is the way to go
  19. Reading this thread has prompted me to watch a few of their clips and yes she does spank hard, but for a reason, they seem a happy couple and the punishments are all consensual from what I can see. my first wife spanked me often and I needed the direction and focus that going naked over her knee afforded. I miss that terribly now that she is gone, my second wife is vanilla and just not into giving me what I need and want, so I applaud any couple that make this work for them.
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