JeansSmacker
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Try getting her a large, heavy wooden bath brush (one that's still a convenient size for otk spanking). It still screams "hairbrush", but it packs a wallop!
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Hi Star. My bath brush and I are still around. Let's chat some time on line and see how things go.
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Hi Ashley,
I'm a disciplinary spanker in P.G. County, Maryland. I could hold you accountable for your behavior and administer sound spankings with my belt or a wooden bath brush.
Let me know if you'd like to discuss this.
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Hi TryingtoBbehave.
Thanks for the nice conversation once again (I see that it happened to us in 2018, as well!). I look forward to keeping in touch and getting to know each other better until we can finally meet in New York.
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Welcome Alex.
I'm a father figure who can provide spanking, discipline, and mentorship (three of my favorite subjets!).
We'll have to talk and get acquainted.
Maybe we can have a text conversation on this site, when we're both on and can have a good give-and-take.
Lee
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Hi Liz. I'm also looking for a disciplinary mentoring relationship (as a mentor). I also care about social justice issues, arts, and music. I'm 63 and in the Washington, DC area (Maryland).
Lee
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I wouldn't say that spankings are not sexual to me (though not only sexual: I also really cherish the traditional disciplinary dynamic). They're highly arousing and I want to enjoy giving them, which is why I only spank women. But there's a difference between arousal and what you do about the arousal. My relationship to the spankee is usually platonic and I keep my clothes on (and the spankee's, too, except for her bare bottom). Although I like to console the spankee and hold and touch her spanked behind, I respect her boundaries in the aftercare. Do I feel let down? Hardly, I'm electrified for a week from the memory of a good spanking and wouldn't trade that feeling for anything.
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Welcome, subby!
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Hi Julie,
I'm a Disciplinarian in Maryland and I would be glad to talk about this with you.
Lee
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Hi Clare.
I do disciplinary mentoring with a paternal flavor and also live in Maryland.
Feel free to get in touch and talk.
Lee
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Who's Bobby Beausoleil?
I remember Sassy Bottoms. I had a spanko friend in NJ in the 80s who was very fond of it.
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Hi. I'm sometimes a teacher of various subjects (and occasionally a tutor who spanks). Feel free to chat me up and find out the details (and get an idea of the chemistry) if you're interested.
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A mentoring relationship I was in recently ended and I'm looking for a new spanking partner. I'm a caring, fatherly man (61) and a mentor or disciplinarian role suits me. On the other hand, a woman who craves good, sound, OTK spankings for stress relief or a turn-on could also find a good partner and friend in me.
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17 hours ago, RedBottomGirl said:
I found that when I used to talk to potential spankers, there were some common things that I would hear repeatedly that would automatically turn me off personally from wanting to meet them, and even phrases that came off as red flags. What are some common things that are said to you as an ER or EE (I know it must go both ways) when speaking to potential partners that make you question if you want to consider meeting them?
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A personal turn off phrase I've heard a lot is some variation of, "My hand is like a paddle." It just always came off as braggy and arrogant, and it always automatically made me significantly less interested in the idea of meeting them.
A personal red flag I often came across was when a spanker would try to act as if spanking me would be a completely selfless service. It always felt off to me when a spanker wouldn't acknowledge that they also get some form of personal satisfaction from delivering a spanking as well...after all, they wouldn't do it if they didn't get something from it.
I suppose it's basic salesmanship to emphasize benefits over features.
I don't mind telling someone that I would be excited to spank her. (On the other hand, you don't want to overdo that and sound like it's all about your own pleasure. So many pitfalls to avoid.)
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Star,
I'm not local to New Jersey, but I'm in sync with spanking you until you cry. I'd have you across my lap with your pants down and I'd smack your bare behind bright red with my relentless right hand and bath brush.
JeansSmacker
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That sounds like a lot of fun! I remember I got one swat in on a girl I liked in High School (and another one on one in a summer camp--I suppose I was incorrigible!).
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Congratulations on your purchase(s)! I hope they're used with care and to the satisfaction of all!
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Welcome, Molly. Have fun and be safe.
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Hi tryingtobehave,
I enjoyed chatting with you the other night. I hope we get to talk again soon.
Funny, I was just at a wedding in Newburgh last weekend.
Lee
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Welcome, Dani.
I grew up in NYC and I'm a Spanker, but I'm in the DC area now and don't get up there often. I wish you success in finding a local Spanker.
Feel free to contact me if you'd like to talk.
Lee
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Welcome, Kaitǃ
I spank and I travel to New Jersey.
Lee
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On 5/8/2017 at 2:02 PM, Alliedavisfrances said:
I am new to this also. I am a 35 year old female. I have had thoughts of being spanked all my life. I would really like to meet people like minded. I have never tried this before.
Welcome, Allieǃ
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Welcome, Bruised Bubblesǃ
I hope you're meeting friends and enjoying yourself.
Lee
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Hi Julie.
I'm a Mentor and Disciplinarian in Maryland. Feel free to message me and discuss your needs and how I might be able to help.
Lee
Girl in need of a good sound spanking!
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It would be wonderful if you were in a location near me, and interested in talking. I'm in the Washington, DC area, but do some traveling.