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JeansSmacker

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  1. Welcome Alex.  

    I'm a father figure who can provide spanking, discipline, and mentorship (three of my favorite subjets!).

    We'll have to talk and get acquainted.  

    Maybe we can have a text conversation on this site, when we're both on and can have  a good give-and-take.

    Lee

  2. I wouldn't say that spankings are not sexual to me (though not only sexual: I also really cherish the traditional disciplinary dynamic).  They're highly arousing and I want to enjoy giving them, which is why I only spank women.  But there's a difference between arousal and what you do about the arousal.  My relationship to the spankee is usually platonic and I keep my clothes on (and the spankee's, too, except for her bare bottom).  Although I like to console the spankee and hold and touch her spanked behind, I respect her boundaries in the aftercare.  Do I feel let down?  Hardly, I'm electrified for a week from the memory of a good spanking and wouldn't trade that feeling for anything.

  3. A mentoring relationship I was in recently ended and I'm looking for a new spanking partner.  I'm a caring, fatherly man (61) and a mentor or disciplinarian role suits me.  On the other hand, a woman who craves good, sound, OTK spankings for stress relief or a turn-on could also find a good partner and friend in me.

  4. 17 hours ago, RedBottomGirl said:

    I found that when I used to talk to potential spankers, there were some common things that I would hear repeatedly that would automatically turn me off personally from wanting to meet them, and even phrases that came off as red flags. What are some common things that are said to you as an ER or EE (I know it must go both ways) when speaking to potential partners that make you question if you want to consider meeting them?

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    A personal turn off phrase I've heard a lot is some variation of, "My hand is like a paddle." It just always came off as braggy and arrogant, and it always automatically made me significantly less interested in the idea of meeting them.

    A personal red flag I often came across was when a spanker would try to act as if spanking me would be a completely selfless service. It always felt off to me when a spanker wouldn't acknowledge that they also get some form of personal satisfaction from delivering a spanking as well...after all, they wouldn't do it if they didn't get something from it.

    I suppose it's basic salesmanship to emphasize benefits over features. ;) I don't mind telling someone that I would be excited to spank her.  (On the other hand, you don't want to overdo that and sound like it's all about your own pleasure.  So many pitfalls to avoid.)

  5. Star,

    I'm not local to New Jersey, but I'm in sync with spanking you until you cry.  I'd have you across my lap with your pants down and I'd smack your bare behind bright red with my relentless right hand and bath brush.

    JeansSmacker

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  6. Welcome, Dani.

    I grew up in NYC and I'm a Spanker, but I'm in the DC area now and don't get up there often. I wish you success in finding a local Spanker.

    Feel free to contact me if you'd like to talk.

    Lee

  7. On 5/8/2017 at 2:02 PM, Alliedavisfrances said:

    I am new to this also. I am a 35 year old female. I have had thoughts of being spanked all my life. I would really like to meet people like minded. I have never tried this before. 

    Welcome, Allieǃ

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