RemainsNameless

Being a bottom in a scene and being a submissive are completely separate concepts. The Spanko! podcast has an episode where they disambiguate this pretty well. Someone on there said "a brat is a dominant trying to be a submissive". https://www.spankopodcast.com/ep0003/

@Rand E Who knows? It was the only version of it I could find. But as the Talmud tells, us Hashem is unknowable.

Right on, thanks @Talus!

There are some really intense caning and whipping scenes from a show called Happy Valley, including one with a sjambok. It's pretty brutal, but the actress is really cute. Not sure why the video quality is so bad right at the beginning.

Hi! I'm one of a small but growing group of spankos here in Austin. (Actually, I think there are probably a shit-ton of spankos here, but the scene just isn't all that organized, not like Dallas or Houston.) I hosted one very small but very fun spanking party in 2019, and was hoping to do more this year, but... sigh. Anyway, welcome!

Hotspur - I wish. There's actually not that much of a spanking scene in Austin; most of the parties are in Dallas, Houston, or San Antonio. But I think there are a lot of spankos in Austin, so it would be nice if we had more of a scene here. I hosted a very small party in 2019, and was planning more for 2020, but... you know.

Hi! Just introducing myself. I'm a 42 year old male top in Austin. (Actually a switch, but don't tell anyone.)

I have a really cool cane I got from Miss Chris (https://www.missschris.com/) at TASSP that's made from a bull pizzle. Essentially a polished rawhide cane. Certainly not for the traditionalists out there, but it's got a very interesting weight and thuddiness. Some people do not want to have it anywhere near them once they find out what it is, though.