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  1. Sometimes it's just not meant to be. I really admire that you wish him the best despite the breakup. Cherish the memories, take some time for yourself and slowly move on. Time, time will heal the wound.
  2. Beautiful introduction. Although I'm more than a decade younger than you, I can deeply relate to what you've written. I think many (if not most) spankos go through the painful process of confusion and suppression to (hopefully) finally acceptance and pursuit. I agree with you that FetLife is not an ideal place for spankos (or anyone really). The anonymity seems to bring out worst in (some) people. When on FetLife, it gets exhausting to filter out all the vulgarity and stuff you're not interested in. But seeing couples on FL (e.g. @RandVix) living their real life spanko fairytale, is very encouraging. And it's probably the best place to to meet spankos. While there's not many, there definitely are "real" spankos. And let's not forget, you only find to find (the) one. I think it's wise that you're considering dating internationally. With a fetish this specific, the odds of someone living close to you with complementary spanking desires as well as a "vanilla match" are slim. Honestly, geography is (/should be) the least of our problems. After reading your introduction here, I couldn't control my curiosity and looked you up on FetLife. Ironically, I quickly realized I had already come across your FL profile a few days ago. So I'm sure other spankos will too. Your profile is beautifully written, you're very articulate and seem to know what you want. Also, it doens't hurt that you're freaking gorgeous ;-). I'm absolutely certain that you'll find the man of your dreams. Be careful, be selective, but go after what you want. Like I said before, I deeply sympathize with you. Pursuing this might be scary, but the thought of living an unfulfilled life terrifies me. Good luck!!
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