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  1. 4 minutes ago, NeedanAuntie said:

    If you want to take this a little further, for eons until more recently, at the end of the ceremony it was normally said: "I now pronounce you man and wife. You may kiss the bride." 

    Why would a man need to be pronounced a man? He just became a husband. Thank goodness more and more ceremonies now say "I now pronounce you husband and wife." In the former way, they should have simply been pronounced man and woman in order to make sense. (But that would make no sense!) God forbid they ever would have been pronounced woman and husband!

    And then, "You may kiss the bride." Why not "You may kiss the husband?" Glad that finally more ceremonies are saying "You may kiss each other."

    I was best Man at my brother's wedding.  The minister gave them a choice - kiss in front of the congregation or after the marriage certificate was signed, with only the Chief Bridesmaid, Best Man and both sets of parents in attendance, along with the minister.  They chose the latter.

    My wife and I both chose to use the words as laid down by the state of New Jersey and that included her using the word "Obey."  It was her choice.

  2. My wife and I watched all four episodes yesterday morning.  I found it very disturbing.  I had to look away when the young boy was brought on stage for the demonstration.  Who the (insert expletive) does that?

    My biggest concern is the reference to this being a long-term plan to have outsized influence in government.

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  3. Here in NC, the law considers spanking to be sexual intercourse.  The only permitted sexual intercourse is between a man and woman, married to each other, indoors and missionary position.  Anything else is a Crime Against Nature, punishable by up to seven years imprisonment.  Some years ago, a Superior Court judge decided the law was unconstitutional and dismissed a criminal case between a deputy sheriff and jail employee having an affair.  The prosecution did not appeal, so the issue remains unresolved, at least within the letter of the law.

    With that in mind, my wife and I have occasionally indulged.  Underwear remained up, for a quick getaway if necessary.  We chose a secluded area in a state park in the middle of the week, took a mindful walk and settled on a spot well away from anyone else.

    We have done a couple of back seat of the car spankings, but it was usually in the dark or suitably secluded.

    On one occasion, we did it at a rural railway station.  We thought it was unstaffed, quite late on a Sunday evening.  It wasn't.  Oops.  The stationmaster walked along the platform and engaged us in conversation about nothing in particular and nodded, barely perceptibly, towards a camera that we had not seen.  He could have made life quite hard for us.

    In short, pick your spot carefully, be aware of your surroundings and, at the risk of stating the blindingly obvious, don't force it on someone else's eyes or ears.

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  4. 2 hours ago, nicoleS39 said:

    Thanks to all who have responded to this little survey...for the benefit of my curiosity. 

    I must say, I am quite surprised by the 0 percent responses indicating the most important benefit being "sexual arousal" or "sexual i timacy". It is just kind of an eye opener to me, as I seem to engage folks in chat quite often....as well as in the post forums...that "seem" to signal or show that the spanking experience is all about sexual arousal or sexual intimacy...rather than the other benefits listed.

    I dunno...how do you guys interpret the results of this survey?


    Hmm.  I had a toss-up between two choices.  Perhaps those who marked "Deeper relationship intimacy" get a side benefit of "sexual arousal" but view the former as more important?

  5. For me, it would have to be the classroom.  The thought of being caught doing something forbidden with a lady of the opposite sex (to steal a line from a Scottish comedy sketch show in the 1970's) and ending up across a female teacher's lap in turn is rather enticing.  Not sure whether it would be better to go first and get it over with or to feel the anticipation building whilst the lady is getting spanked.

    This is not my wife's thing, so it will remain a fantasy and that is OK.

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  6. Hmm.  As a former association football referee, I struggle to think of a cost-effective way of using a football to toughen the hand.  You'd have to deflate it just a bit, check the pressure once you've found what works for you and re-check before every training session.  The problem I see is that the modern balls might be too hard on the hand, which would rather defeat the purpose.  I grew up with three broad generations of footballs.  There were the lace-ups that retained water and which were going out of fashion in the early 1970's.  Then there was the new generation that was a little waterproof and with which I am most familiar.  That would be the best ball to use but they were replaced from the 1990's, first at professional level then at the lower grades.  The only issue is that it never took long for it's lovely smoothness to disappear, which would cause a problem - if you could even find a supply in mint condition.  The modern balls are heavily coated to repel water.  I would be cautious about using them.

    When I refereed five-a-side football in the 1970's and 80's we got new balls one year that were like overgrown tennis balls but the same dimensions as a size 4 football.  We had been using volleyballs in the younger age-groups.  I hated them for football but I think they would work for toughening the hand.  We replaced two balls every season and kept the older ones for kicking in before the start of each week's play.

    By the way, when I say "football," I do, of course mean football, as opposed to hand-egg.  Google "football versus and hand-egg" and you'll see what I mean.

  7. There is something pleasurable in raising a lady's dress or skirt to spank them on their panties, then in removing those panties to continue administering the spanking on the bare bottom.  The lady who has solely occupied my lap for the last twenty-three years also derives pleasure from that.  So it works for us.  It builds anticipation (strange, because you'd think I know what her bottom looks like by now) and heightens the pleasure.  Is it for everybody?  I daresay not.  I suppose it depends where your head is.  If you had done a poll with this post, I think it would have been interesting and instructive to see the results.

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  8. It's a toss-up between stress relief and fun/enjoyment for me.  I chose stress relief but could easily have chosen fun/enjoyment because I think the two lead to the same place - at least for me.  My wife is a Registered Nurse and I have my own tax and accounting business.  Life is serious enough for us.  Something we can both enjoy to relax is a nice thing to have.

  9. I did the quiz and it says I am a Bill Clinton liberal.  Bill Clinton had completed his two terms before I moved here but, from what I can gather about his politics, the quiz got me pretty close to the mark.  I believe we all need a helping hand from time to time.  For me, that helping hand is, most often, in laws that prescribe handicapped parking spaces outside places of public accommodation.  Give me help when I need it, but step back when I don't.  In return, I'll honestly declare my taxable income and write a check to the IRS with a smile on my face.

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  10. 17 hours ago, cat627 said:

    Here is what my hand looked like, and this is pretty typical. And nope, my bottom doesn't bruise a bit.

    😅 How do I take this to a doctor or dermatologist? How the heck does one go about asking questions on spanking injuries?

    "So doctor, my hand bruises when I spank people"


    I'd start with your regular doctor.  Hopefully you have a trusting relationship with them.  Tell them the truth.  Hopefully, they will be understanding and refer you to an appropriate specialist who will also understand.

  11. This needs saying, so thank you.  As it happens, my wife and I have indulged, but I like to think we have been cautious.  I can just recall one time, when we were coming out of a supermarket late at night.  I thought the coast was clear for a quick slap on the hintend.  Someone was sitting in a car, saw it and a goofy smile emerged on his face, the emergence of which was a relief.  I don't recall doing it in public since.

    As for talking loudly in public, I have never done that.  My wife and I have a selection of non-verbal signals for moments when we are both in the mood.

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  12. Aye, filing an extension works to extend time to file, although it's a bit late now.  5% penalty per month, or part thereof, if you don't file an extension.  Also important is paying tax on time.  0.5% per month, or part thereof, penalty plus interest.

    If the problem is that you are due a large refund, you both have a responsibility to figure out why that is and to adjust your payments (withholding, quarterly estimates) throughout the year so that you don't have a big refund.  That is just giving an interest-free loan to the government.

  13. 18 hours ago, F/m_Spanking_only said:

     You're exactly right. However, I don't think that they were talking about a 12 year on FetLife. Instead, they were referring to how simple it is to take screenshots. As in...so easy....a 12 year old could do it. Take screenshots, that is, not be on FetLife 







    Ah, I see what you mean, now that I've re-read the post.  However, someone went onto Fetlife, then ratted out the teacher.  If one is going to do that, one should explain why they were there in the first place.  Glass houses and all that.

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  14. This question would be more appropriate to St Andrews Day, As Scotland has the highest proportion of redheads in the world at about 13%.  A large chunk of Ireland isn't far behind though.

    Are all redheads evil and need to be spanked?  Well, my wife is one so i say no to the first part and a resounding yes to the second.

  15. On 3/19/2023 at 1:59 PM, Lotsapappa said:

    What would real Buffet do ? Complain? Nope.


    What I first thought of is that the real Buffett would survey the marketplace, study the fundamentals, understand the risks and opportunities in the long-term and, if the price was right, put in a bid.  That has made the Oracle of Omaha a lot of money in the last several decades.  Nothing in life is perfect and it takes work & sacrifice to even get close.

  16. Without looking for them, I have noticed an uptick in mainstream media articles about spanking in the last year or two.  Most of them are mediocre at best, but if the content is out there in places like The Guardian (or the Grauniad as it is affectionately known in the UK) people are going to get interested and do their own research.  That's where a community like this comes in.

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