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Ah, I see what you mean, now that I've re-read the post. However, someone went onto Fetlife, then ratted out the teacher. If one is going to do that, one should explain why they were there in the first place. Glass houses and all that.

This question would be more appropriate to St Andrews Day, As Scotland has the highest proportion of redheads in the world at about 13%. A large chunk of Ireland isn't far behind though. Are all redheads evil and need to be spanked? Well, my wife is one so i say no to the first part and a resounding yes to the second.

What I first thought of is that the real Buffett would survey the marketplace, study the fundamentals, understand the risks and opportunities in the long-term and, if the price was right, put in a bid. That has made the Oracle of Omaha a lot of money in the last several decades. Nothing in life is perfect and it takes work & sacrifice to even get close.

Hang on a minute. What's the bigger problem here? A middle school teacher being on Fetlife or a 12 year old being on Fetlife? I trust we are all agreed it is the latter?

Without looking for them, I have noticed an uptick in mainstream media articles about spanking in the last year or two. Most of them are mediocre at best, but if the content is out there in places like The Guardian (or the Grauniad as it is affectionately known in the UK) people are going to get interested and do their own research. That's where a community like this comes in.

Oh one can do it wrong, for sure. For instance, one could ignore the feelings of their partner. One might fail to communicate their own needs properly. However, in a pre-existing relationship, if one commits to listening to their partner and to talking to their partner, the chances of doing something wrong are greatly reduced. Of course, if we play it safe all the time, we will never grow. Sometimes you have to try something new and if it doesn't work, be honest about it. That way, the "wrong" does not become a long-term harm.

Failure is merely deferred success, according to a spider with whom Robert the Bruce was acquainted. Have you tried directing your wife here? I believe she does not need to create an account to merely read posts. If she becomes more comfortable with the idea, perhaps it will encourage her to give you what you want with spontaneity.

Before Bed Bath and Beyond disappears completely, acquire one of their bath brushes. Very little effort is required to achieve the desired result.

Hmm. I wonder if the Spencer plan, heavily modified, can be made to work. It's hard to know if this will work for you, but perhaps agree on things that are considered spankable. Make the offenses fun and insignificant in general life. A healthy spanking relationship being founded upon consent, it would be up to your husband to decide whether any specific instance requires a spanking. For his part, I hope he would recognize your need and try his best to accommodate your desires. At this point, I might add a "tsk, tsk, tsk," for the antics described in your OP but maybe you're too young to remember that.

My first tip for a married person looking for an experienced spanker would be to fully and frankly discuss it with their spouse.