JaneWinthrup

So where in Philly are you ??
 

Hello! Loved your "About Me" and wanted to message you, but it wouldn't let me! Definitely interested in hearing more about your experience and view and maybe experiencing some of that myself! 

wow, an animated GIF. good show.

yes, most or all of it resonates. we all seem - most of us anyway - to want and need a human connection. some do that in the context of a spanking lifestyle and some do not. some, like myself, perhaps just half way between. for, you see......my GF is not a spanker even though i have made hints in that direction. that is ok...especially in view of the fact that it seems like maybe she wants to leave me but she does go back and forth on that...back and forth, to and fro, where the hell she stops nobody fricking knows as i said to her the other night. and she is half a world away. so here i sit, "a victim of geography", to quote a Billy Bragg song, "The Only One". And here i do sit in this hotel room on this hotel room bed 'reaching out' as someone implied i could do, typing from a very dark message note screen, across cyberspace, albeit the span of that covering only a short trip from south brunswick NJ to a place nearby, much closer to me than China, much closer to me than she. and to think the she once said she would join me here!

thanks for listening and providing the opportunity. i wish i could simply have all of my issues spanked away but that never happens.

JaneWinthrup

Your "About Me" description is the best I have seen and shows a very deep understanding of the complexities of spanking in general.

My compliments!

Mael

How fun. 😂 

 I just realized that we can use a clip as our cover photo.  
  
That’s not me getting spanked up there ... but I might try to replace it next week with one that is me. ☺️ 

Hope you’re all having a good week so far, national mayhem not withstanding.  
 

xox. 

So let’s take our minds off national events, shall we? .   ☺️
 

I’ve been thinking lately about starting a local group here in the Philadelphia area ... to include a circle around Philly that includes people ... 1 hour? 2 hours? away? (Not sure yet.) 
 

I know what *I* want out of such a group ... but a group is built of WE.  So I’d like to do some research to build an idea of a group that would be useful to lots of folks, in addition to  someone cut from my particular cloth. 

And even if you don’t live in the area ... your input could surely be helpful to discern what ANY good spanking group ANYWHERE should be. 

Wanna help? 
Quote and answer these questions, if you’re game: 

1. What’s the most important benefit of having a great local group? 
 

2. Please say “yes” next to any of the things you’d be looking for if you joined a local soanking group: 

- access to potential spanking partners/friends/play

- connection to a larger community of like-minded folk 

- opportunities to meet (post Covid) in a safe group setting 

for the purpose of 

parties 

munches 

discussions 

dinners 

workshops 

3. Is it totally weird, or totally wonderful ... to imagine a group that allows individual members (only those who say yes to participating) to be rated for: 

safety 

sanity 

experience level 

respect of all boundaries 

(Think of having the eBay/Uber/yelp kind of rating for spanking play partners, such that a new EE could feel way more trusting of an ER ... because there might be numerous others who said “this person is awesome.”   Is that crazy? Are there cons to that?) 

4. Are there things you would like to learn via workshops on a group like this or mentoring ... ER to ER, specially? 
 

That’s all I can think of in terms of questions for the moment ... but maybe you have some to add of your own? 
 

But finally ...

5. are you in the Philly area? 

I just want to apologize for not responding to messages I’m a timely fashion this week.  There was the Georgia election ... and then yesterday’s mayhem.  And frankly I get pulled from the luxury of thinking about spanking at times like this. 
 

I’ll be back. I’ll catch up. 🥰 

Xoxox

Come down to DC and get that election spanking.

Election spankings. ❤️ 😂