Can spanking in a relationship be multi purpose? in General Spanking Discussion Posted 2 hours ago Yes, spanking can be all things within a single relationship. I have a former partner who I am very similarly aligned to in all aspects of spanking. If we were married or dating, we would likely have a DD arrangement that included erotic, fun & funishment, roleplaying, bondage, etc. I am married to a Top and we have all those components except for DD / real discipline.