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  1. What is the "just right" amount of time for corner time after a spanking? 

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      @SeatWarmer- okay... that is a reasonable amount of time, I suppose. But, as a bottom, it is those subby feelings that make corner time so terrible. And also so necessary.

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  2. Happy Birthday to my amazing beautiful wife. I'm so blessed to have met you on here and got to know the wonderful person you are. You came into my life at the time I needed someone the most, and you've been there for me ever since. I"m here for you too!...Happy Birthday my love!  I love you with all my heart..!!

  3. What is the "just right" amount of time for corner time after a spanking? 

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      @Longtimespanking- I don't think I have ever had more than 5-10 minutes of cornertime in a single go. And those have all been part of distance discipline. Most in-person CT has been less than 5 minutes.

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  4. What is the "just right" amount of time for corner time after a spanking? 

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      @Topspanker- that is a loooong time to stand/sit in the corner. Was there nothing more productive she could have been doing? Volunteering or chores - something that would benefit others? Those are all pretty serious infractions, though.

      Can I ask a personal question? Why would a Top want a partner who is careless, reckless, and lies about something serious? I mean, they damaged your property and the Sonic's property. That is a level of immaturity that, I would think, extends beyond the realm of spankability. That isn't bratty behavior - that is being a jerk. 

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  5.                                              The Meaning Of Misbehavior Revisited

     There should be consideration given to the realization, that the word, misbehavior may not always mean that somebody is bad or naughty. This considered thought process,  may possibly eliminate a raised eyebrow, or possibly a "Do you want me to take you over my knee?" gesture and/or comment, with a wooden spoon, hairbrush, or some other implement possibly mentioned in the conversation.  I think it's kinda like misplacing something. So it sounds like it could just be an honest mistake, and you just temporarily misplaced your behavior. Eventually you or someone else should find your behavior, and then you shouldn't be accused of mis (missing your) behavior So all should be well without somebody having to get that nervous eyebrow twitch, getting upset and on the other end of the spectrum somebody not ending up with a well spanked bottom (no pun intended). So to sum all of this rhetoric up, the word misbehavior should not always be considered as naughty or bad , but be more accurately classified as Misunderstood And Alleged (unproven) Misbehavior, or MAAM for short, and that should create a less tense atmosphere, and make all parties involved happy again.  😊 😇

     

    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      My misbehavior is always intentional and rarely misunderstood. 😂

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  6. Alduting sucks. I wish I was a lobster. Then I could just walk around pinching people's bottoms all day. 

    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      I have some jammies that say " Can't Adult Today" - which seems to fit my bratty side pretty well. No bottom pinching from me, though.

  7.                                              The Meaning Of Misbehavior Revisited

     There should be consideration given to the realization, that the word, misbehavior may not always mean that somebody is bad or naughty. This considered thought process,  may possibly eliminate a raised eyebrow, or possibly a "Do you want me to take you over my knee?" gesture and/or comment, with a wooden spoon, hairbrush, or some other implement possibly mentioned in the conversation.  I think it's kinda like misplacing something. So it sounds like it could just be an honest mistake, and you just temporarily misplaced your behavior. Eventually you or someone else should find your behavior, and then you shouldn't be accused of mis (missing your) behavior So all should be well without somebody having to get that nervous eyebrow twitch, getting upset and on the other end of the spectrum somebody not ending up with a well spanked bottom (no pun intended). So to sum all of this rhetoric up, the word misbehavior should not always be considered as naughty or bad , but be more accurately classified as Misunderstood And Alleged (unproven) Misbehavior, or MAAM for short, and that should create a less tense atmosphere, and make all parties involved happy again.  😊 😇

     

  8. At times it seems like 97.8% of the people on SN are just making s**t up.  

  9. At times it seems like 97.8% of the people on SN are just making s**t up.  

  10. Just realised I have been on this forum for a year, indeed the anniversary was a couple of days since. Thank you to all who have inspired me, chatted to me and befriended me in that time.

    it has been a weird couple of years and here in the uk it continues to be. Still looking for a lady to take over my knees in real life although I have discovered (and enjoy) online role play which I’d never encountered prior to getting on this site.

    Always up for a chat, not into ‘heavy’ stuff but like a good firm spanking to a naked female behind (sorry menfolk it’s just my personal preferences)

    Heres to the next year… 

  11. At times it seems like 97.8% of the people on SN are just making s**t up.  

    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      This one time, I was spanked by Clive Owen while filming a movie. Then Mr. Knightley and Mr. Darcy and Elvis and John Wayne joined in and it was a spanking good time. And then I woke up.

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  12. Is there a way to save the "night" scheme for this website? I really like it, but it keeps defaulting back to "day" after I leave the page. I spent some time poking around in Account Settings. Is the way to make it the default view right in front of me and I'm just not seeing it? 

    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      If you find out, please let me know. 

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  13. What is the role of erotic spanking in your repertoire?

    • What makes it erotic? Does it have to lead to sex to be erotic or does the spanking itself suffice?

    • Is it about headspace? 

    How separate do you keep spanking and sex? 

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      @AfterGeometry - I enjoy sex. But I love spanking. And sometimes a spanking does result in an orgasm - not every time, of course, but when my headspace is right, it happens. I haven't had "just sex" in years; sex doesn't happen without spanking as a precursor. Before I got married, I would meet with other spankos and the main event was spanking and never sex. That never bothered me at all; I still had solo orgasms. Easy peasy.

      PS: As a carnivore, I want both steak and hamburger - I just want steak all the time. And hamburger is more like dessert than the main meal. 

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  14. What is the role of erotic spanking in your repertoire?

    • What makes it erotic? Does it have to lead to sex to be erotic or does the spanking itself suffice?

    • Is it about headspace? 

    How separate do you keep spanking and sex? 

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      @AfterGeometry- I think it is positive. I cannot control how my body reacts when I think about spanking or when I am being spanked. I certainly always have an "erotic response" and I don't see that as being negative. Spanking is my sexual orientation and everything else is secondary.

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  15. What is the role of erotic spanking in your repertoire?

    • What makes it erotic? Does it have to lead to sex to be erotic or does the spanking itself suffice?

    • Is it about headspace? 

    How separate do you keep spanking and sex? 

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      @AfterGeometry - I can see that. Though, I don't personally need the follow-up; sometimes (usually) the spanking is erotic on Its own.

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  16. Received the rattan carpet beater I had ordered to give my wife one more means of disciplining me . . . She used it for the first time last night.  It HURTS!  It also doesn't help that my bottom is smaller than the business end of the beater.  More than a few swats landed on my upper thighs.  However, being spanked with a carpet beater was one of the items on my "bucket list" so we took care of that.  Still looking to be spanked outdoors.

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      That is such a pretty one, too. 

  17. How great is you desire to share your spanking fetish? 

    Several of the posts in the General Discussion forum relate to being open about our spanking needs... t-shirts, door hangers, vanillas who know about our kink - things that out us as spankos.

    I used to be very open about my spankoness - back in my teens and 20s. Mostly out of necessity - how would I get spanked if I didn't ask? I was open with friends, potential dating partners, etc. I am still not shy about my interests - and certainly am not ashamed - but I don't talk about it with most vanillas, I don't put my face in my profile pics, I don't wear shirts advertising my interests. 

    What about you? 

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      Also, I wish there was an edit feature. Now that I have my contacts in, I can see the typos.

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  18. How great is you desire to share your spanking fetish? 

    Several of the posts in the General Discussion forum relate to being open about our spanking needs... t-shirts, door hangers, vanillas who know about our kink - things that out us as spankos.

    I used to be very open about my spankoness - back in my teens and 20s. Mostly out of necessity - how would I get spanked if I didn't ask? I was open with friends, potential dating partners, etc. I am still not shy about my interests - and certainly am not ashamed - but I don't talk about it with most vanillas, I don't put my face in my profile pics, I don't wear shirts advertising my interests. 

    What about you? 

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      That makes sense - to protect the people around you. I have many friends and even a couple of coworkers who know generalities of my spanking interest. But, I also have a job I love and want to keep. I really do value discretion so much more than I did 20 years ago - but even back then I didn't use my face in pics or my real name. I have been RubyRedd for half my life and I like that part of me. 

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  19. For a pre-spanking lecture or scolding, what position(s) do you prefer? What do you like about that positioning?

    • ER and EE standing

    • ER and EE sitting

    • ER standing / EE sitting

    • ER sitting / EE standing

    • Something else (please describe)

    *Drawing by Roger Benson.

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      @Tate999- that is my personal favorite way to be lectured.

      @CaliSpanker53- I really liked your explanation of this in chat the other night. @BobTheRolePlayerhas a similar idea, it seems.

      @GoCutMeASwitch- I hadn't really considered the cornertime lecture position, but it is very effective and certainly puts me in the right headspace. Love your name, btw.

       

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  20. Finally pulled the trigger on buying a carpet beater . . . Last week, when my wife agreed to start spanking me again, I suggested we get one just to minimize the noise.  (Her thick leather paddle isn't exactly quiet.)  Always wanted to experience being spanked with one; next week I'll be crossing that item off my bucket list.

    I looked at several of these before deciding on this one.  I liked the fact that it only had two strands of rattan woven together.  Years ago I bought my wife 3 really nice custom made rattan canes complete with leather wrapped handles, but her aim was TERRIBLE.  This should be a little easier to keep on target.

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      I have a couple that are similar to the type in the picture. But, because they are quite old, one has started to fall apart. I would like to get one made specifically for spanking, I think. Hope you enjoy it!

  21. Of course, of course, always appropriate.  I am sorry if I in any way mischaracterized your pristine behavior.  {Wishes there wer ean emoji for rolling one's eyes.]

    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      @SpankeeGal- Right? How is that not common knowledge? I use it about 25 times a night in chat. 

      PS: Are you behaving?

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  22. Of course, of course, always appropriate.  I am sorry if I in any way mischaracterized your pristine behavior.  {Wishes there wer ean emoji for rolling one's eyes.]

  23. • "It is time for a discussion."

    • "We will discuss this later."

    These simple words make me blush - even in text. What about you? Do you prefer another phrase? 

    Bottoms: Do you react to the idea of a "discussion"? Has a Top ever said this type of thing to you?

    Tops: What does it mean when you say it is time to discuss a spankee's attitude or behavior?  How does the discussion go?

    (Adult Consensual Only, Please)

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    1. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      @AfterGeometry- I probably am. I want all of the structure with none of the real consequences for my actions. Seems reasonable. 

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