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Stress Relief Spanking
How does a stress relief spanking differ from other types of spanking? What does one look like for you? Is there anything that sets this type of spanking apart from other types?
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Imagine your perfect discipline or funishment session... How is the pre-spanking lecture / scolding delivered? How is the spankee dressed?
• fully clothed
• pants down / skirt up, but still on
• panties on, but skirt or pants off
• bare bottom, but shirt on
• fully nude
*Illustrations by Roger Benson, Ron Baker, and Hardcastle.
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@DanW- I have really been into the idea of being scolded while standing before the ER with my panties down just below my bottom (pants off / skirt off or lifted). Hands either on my head or behind my back.
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As a spanker I like the idea of the spankee being told to take off her pants and stand in front of me in her panties for the discussion/lecture/scolding. The I pull down her panties and pull her otk or tell her to bend over. It's more funishment for me, but given like "traditional homestyle discipline".
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Reading through your options, the one that really sticks out is bare bottom with shirt still on. In my head, my pants and underwear are down around my ankles and my hands are either on my head or behind my back. I think something about the fact that I would never ordinarily find myself in this state of dress makes it seem even more humbling and exposing. Which you know, fun!
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Personally? The level of dress or undress while in the corner doesn’t matter much to me. If I had to choose it would be T shirt and panties. I’d definitely prefer hands behind my back over on my head. That just seems…unnatural?
Oddly? The best corner time for me is less rigid. I’m there. Til I’m called out. Tasked with thinking about failures and the consequences of them. Possibly scolded while I’m made to wait for what I know is coming. Otherwise tho? Sometimes it’s nice to fidget? I can walk into a corner boldly. I can stand straight and proud. And then within minutes be leaning into the corner. Head hanging a bit. It’s a process that is interesting and lovely for those of us affected by it.
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Wildcat, hellion, brat... What do you like to be called during a spanking or scolding? Or, for the Tops - what do you like to call your spankee?
Even though I don't regress, I still enjoy diminutives - young lady, little girl, spoiled brat, missy. But, I dated a guy many years ago who called me "woman" and that was nice, too.
When the spanking has a more serious tone, I will usually use Sir or Ma'am for the Top - as it helps with my headspace. What about you?
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While I have heard it all about what I shouldn't say to spankees, I do enjoy using cute pet names to help establish the dynamic. Young lady, kitten, etc. In fact, seeing a restrained, annoyed reaction to such terms helps the dynamic, for me, even more. I know that isn't the modern tact or dynamic, but, in terms of spanking, I never had a modern feeling on the subject.
Does The Flash spank so rapidly his arm is a blur?
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@SeatWarmer- well, I am a raging feminist and I love to be called cute, little, adorable, etc. Modern or not... 😛 I would imagine his spankings are over before she realizes it has started. Lol
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