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  1. What is the role of erotic spanking in your repertoire?

    • What makes it erotic? Does it have to lead to sex to be erotic or does the spanking itself suffice?

    • Is it about headspace? 

    How separate do you keep spanking and sex? 


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    2. rubyredd


      @AfterGeometry- I think it is positive. I cannot control how my body reacts when I think about spanking or when I am being spanked. I certainly always have an "erotic response" and I don't see that as being negative. Spanking is my sexual orientation and everything else is secondary.

    3. AfterGeometry


      @rubyredd So given that you're a "Spanko-sexual" first and foremost ...does that imply that you are satisfied/satiated MORE after a spanking session that DOES NOT reach it's cessation with an orgasmic release than you would be after having sex which DID end with a release?    Does spanking normally always produce a better outcome/experience than just sex by itself ever does?  So spanking is like steak and sex is like hamburger , why would you ever eat hamburger again if steak is always the better experience??   Lol. 😝 

    4. rubyredd


      @AfterGeometry - I enjoy sex. But I love spanking. And sometimes a spanking does result in an orgasm - not every time, of course, but when my headspace is right, it happens. I haven't had "just sex" in years; sex doesn't happen without spanking as a precursor. Before I got married, I would meet with other spankos and the main event was spanking and never sex. That never bothered me at all; I still had solo orgasms. Easy peasy.

      PS: As a carnivore, I want both steak and hamburger - I just want steak all the time. And hamburger is more like dessert than the main meal. 

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