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indisgrace last won the day on July 7

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  1. I prefer the breath-taking, gasping sting that produces surface heat and glow ... to the deeper and potentially bruising thud. So for me, I love to have some skin in the game with hand and leather implements like the belt and strap ... or if you want sting with some weight then the tawse/Scottish school belt will always have a place in my heart. Skinny, lighter implements also work like switches, crops or even the wooden spoon etc. I shy away from heavy wood like the hair-brush, paddle or the despicable bath-brush. But, if you really want to 'feel it', then that is about emotional connection and communication between top and bottom.
  2. I think this is a fascinating topic and agree that there is no typical. As a male -ee, that is perhaps already less β€˜common’. But in my vanilla life I am a reasonably strong personality, a decision maker and leader. Although in common with @kiko I also have a strong desire to people please. My kinky persona is entirely different though and as @Mulege77 noted I need to escape any leadership role and serve others, bend to their will. I willingly give up any power and actually crave being put in my proper place which is otk or perhaps in the corner in disgrace!
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  4. Great video. But it lotto me like the lady brought πŸ‘ peaches, not avocados πŸ₯‘πŸ˜‰
  5. Thanks Ruby ... if a good consensual spanking didn't hurt it wouldn't be fun ... right? But then pain is still pain 😬!!!!
  6. Regular professional disciplinarian that I have been visiting for some two and a half years. It will be quite an ordeal in terms of otk spanking, the belt, the tawse, the gym plimsoll and who knows what else. I look forward to it with considerable trepidation. But yes it will be fun, and with a warm afterglow for 24 hours
  7. Thursday 30th September around 11am. I am impossibly excited as my last was nearly 3 months ago and I am trying to plan in as many details as I can. I can't wait ... only 3 more sleeps to go!
  8. I would love the emotional release of being spanked to tears. I have yet to manage it. It is about aligning the right headspace with trust and submission. Like aligning the sun, the moon and the stars for me
  9. The tawse or possibly the Martinet ... I love the feel of leather. The tawse can also be pretty heavy and the Martinet stings far and wide
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