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Spanking and racism
VanillaProblems replied to VanillaProblems's topic in General Spanking Discussion
Colorblindness is the epitome of modern day white supremacy. It's a way well meaning whites unknowingly silence people of color. When you say colorblind, you're basically saying "Hey. I'm white and I refuse to acknowledge my privilege. I also refuse to acknowledge the concerns of people of color, because heck, we're all the same. All lives matter." -
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VanillaProblems replied to VanillaProblems's topic in General Spanking Discussion
I don't promote discrimination against anyone, but you seem to be redirecting the conversation. You mention being a ginger and facing discrimination. But that's not the same as being a PoC in America. And despite the discrimination you faced, you still get to enjoy a life of priviledge that most PoC don't. Also, simply saying "I have PoC friends" isn't enough. In fact, such statements only furthers white supremacy and the culture of whiteness. As a white person, I'm not saying you should feel guilty about being white. But you should take a closer looks at the culture you were born and raised in (as I have also done) and challenge the culture of whiteness that has, for centuries, denied PoC a spot at the table. -
Spanking and racism
VanillaProblems replied to VanillaProblems's topic in General Spanking Discussion
I don't promote discrimination against anyone, but you seem to be redirecting the conversation. You mention being a ginger and facing discrimination. But that's not the same as being a PoC in America. And despite the discrimination you faced, you still get to enjoy a life of priviledge that most PoC don't. Also, simply saying "I have PoC friends" isn't enough. In fact, such statements only furthers white supremacy and the culture of whiteness. As a white person, I'm not saying you should feel guilty about being white. But you should take a closer looks at the culture you were born and raised in (as I have also done) and challenge the culture of whiteness that has, for centuries, denied PoC a spot at the table. -
Spanking and racism
VanillaProblems replied to VanillaProblems's topic in General Spanking Discussion
Yes I am. -
Spanking and racism
VanillaProblems replied to VanillaProblems's topic in General Spanking Discussion
That's not the point. There is no such thing as racism against white people, as white people already enjoy a life of priviledge. This is more about creating conditions that allow people of color to feel included and not threatened. -
How Diverse Is Your Community
VanillaProblems replied to CaliSpanker53's topic in General Spanking Discussion
You should see my above post on racism in the spanking world. -
As someone who has been a lifelong spanko, one of the things I've noticed is that the spanking lifestyle is overwhelmingly white. Has anyone else ever stopped for a moment to think about or consider this? Every single person I've talked to on here - white. Every single spanko I've ever met in real life - white. I know this sounds silly, but this is a common problem across all lifestyles and institutions. So, here's the question I'd like to raise. Is spanking a racist lifestyle? And what can we do to make it less white?
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So, there's this guy named David Icke and he's been warning us about reptilians for several years. Like... supposedly, these scaley overlords from space are trying to control us and they want to micro-chip us with vaccines. Is it true that the alien lizard people are real? Serious question.
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Don't forget to wear your mask.
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I am a 53 year old woman and brand new to this group. Your post sounds so much like my situation, only it’s 15 years later for me. I also could not make the need go away. I found this site just a few days ago, introduced myself, and got a couple responses. Long story short, I received my first spanking EVER yesterday from someone who lives within 30 miles of me. I would like him to be my disciplinarian now, as he takes control and somehow already knows just what I need. I feel incredibly guilty and would not ever want to ruin my marriage. We both agreed that that can’t happen. I’m not worried about it turning sexual at all, and we both said we’d end these sessions immediately if it seemed to be becoming more. Yes, I feel like shit about going behind my husbands back, but I tried so hard to get him to understand. Now with this new acquaintance, he being the spanker, and me being the one getting the spankings, I feel almost on a high, like I just met a friend who will keep me accountable, yet cares for me in a much deeper way. Yes, my ass hurts a lot today, but I feel so relaxed and happier. Hope that helps.
