BratToaster

While I understand the embarrassment of a spanking can be appealing spankee, I wouldn't want it to lead to ridicule. Feeling embarrassed that others see or know of your punishment, but knowing they realize it is something for your own good and they are supportive is fine to me. Being humiliated by others, the object of ridicule, for a spanking is not something which I would want to subject anyone.

Excellent job of getting into her mind. Her thoughts, sensations, and embarrassment. Thank you for sharing.

I think the four you included will be more more popular choices than the four you will add. I'm predicting the opposite of your prediction.

In a way I could agree you are correct. Personally, I don't feel it is for any particular benefit to the spankee. It is more about reinforcing submissiveness. Having the spankee do something obedient like counting swats against their bottom. Hearing them eek out each number with increasing desperation. Almost as though they have a chore to do for their spanker while they are being punished.

With wooden spoons, a smaller spoon can provide more of a sting than a larger spoon. The same can be true for the small, thin paddles. Paddles as you describe don't rely on blunt force or surface area. Rather, they are easily handled and aimed, applied rapidly, and quickly grow a sting with each swat.

Now that NFL football has started, one can spend a rainy Sunday afternoon on a sofa and play a spanking game. Every time the spankee's football teams gives up a touchdown, six swats. Field goal, three swats, etc. Comfortable, intimate position to watch a game without ever knowing when a bottom presented across a lap will be smacked. A sudden pick-six, or long bomb pass.

I would say pajamas are my ideal for a spankee to wear. Any style. They are cute, make the spankee look snuggly, and are easily moved or removed. It also reminds me of a quiet, peaceful time of day, late evening, near their bedtime. A special bonding that takes place during a bedtime spanking, then tucked in on their tummy.

I wouldn't say it is control at all. It is more about feeling a mentor. Helping someone be their best and watching them improve. To help them achieve their goals. There is also a cuteness in a spankee. Not just physical, but in the embarrassment, the shyness, the submissiveness. Knowing there is trust in them. That they may feel exposed and vulnerable, but also safe and cared for.