Reality bites. Littledemon is right she has advantage being female EE. But this is a free site and all of us can get a lot out of it than we put in if realistic. And I have met people in real life including mid thirties female EEs. I have advantage of being in DMV, driving a cool car and being a great dancer. But also failed. I have yet to met female ER in person as I am not willing to travel far at this time or go to organized events. I would say don’t blame site or your location or your interests - something for everyone here - but ENJOY being rejected ghosted or even trolls. Then decide if you want to go extra mile or many. The part that puzzles me though is the Main Chat. Typically 20-30 people and same “hi” “how is everyone” then 2 people have public chat interests no one. It seems like high school again and I am not part of the cool crowds. I actually enjoy one regular that has same “I need a very hard spank” line begging for PM. He can't be reasoned with. He doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead This reminds me just to keep trying no matter the odds are against as others are succeeding. Female ERs reading this feel free to PM me.